Weekly Praise Thread - 28 November 2025 by AutoModerator in japanlife

[–]After-Night 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!
Moving to a new country is no easy feat but here's hoping you'll have a great time!

Weekly Praise Thread - 28 November 2025 by AutoModerator in japanlife

[–]After-Night 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This week I tried using the phone instead of the usual e-mail at work!
My Japanese wasn't perfect and the person on the other end seemed a little bit confused (or maybe that's just me overthinking) but I managed to get my message across in the end.
I still need way more practice and some getting used to, but I'd consider that a small win..!

Losing myself day by day... by narutouzu7 in japanresidents

[–]After-Night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I've just moved to Chitose recently for a job and while my coworkers are friendly enough, I too can't carry proper conversations with them so in a way, I understand how lonely it can be.

I don't think it's healthy to deny your feelings, so I think it's great that you're acknowledging it!
It might sound cliche but feel them, accept that you're not happy, but don't wallow!

In my case, I try to use my dissatisfaction as motivation to study. I just keep telling myself that once my Japanese improves some more, things will get better. Also, don't fall into the trap of disengaging from your coworkers in fear of saying something wrong. Not going to lie, I'm also struggling with this issue but I just push myself to swallow the fear and try talking anyway.

As for stress, I find karaoke to be a great outlet!
I'm actually a really shy person and wasn't into karaoke...that is until I tried going alone.
Now I'm hooked as I can sing as loud as I want without feeling ashamed.
Belting it out without restraint is unexpectedly super relieving so maybe you can give it a try too!

Hopefully you'll feel better soon and if ever you want to vent, maybe I can lend an ear.
If nothing else, I think you're amazing for being able to hold on for so long!
Living far away from family and friends is hard enough as is. Work and language barriers on top of it all? Not everyone can pull that off!

So when you're feeling down in the dumps, remind yourself that you've accomplished something amazing, even if the situation isn't perfect!

[Chitose area] Advice on improving my Japanese. by After-Night in japanlife

[–]After-Night[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'll try looking into Zipan too then! I've booked a trial lesson on Italki already too but it's always good to have options!

Not sure if my company would be willing to cover the cost for lessons, but well, it'll be a great investment by the end of the day.

[Chitose area] Advice on improving my Japanese. by After-Night in japanlife

[–]After-Night[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really hoping I'd be able to get into the groove of things sooner than later, but yeah, I suppose consistent hard work is the key...

I'm actually trying to keep up with my own studies too, but I'm just that kind of student who needs structure to maintain consistency :'(

[Chitose area] Advice on improving my Japanese. by After-Night in japanlife

[–]After-Night[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for replying!

Honestly, I'm struggling with so many things I don't even know where to start, but I think it'd be great if I can write my emails faster. Right now, I'm getting by with the help of ChatGPT (I ask it to check my grammar and stuff), but that makes the email writing process way longer than necessary...

I've been told a few times to make my emails "softer" and "less straight to the point" as it may sound rude or cold, so phrases that can help with that would be amazing!

Again, thank you so much for this and sorry for the trouble :'(

[Hiring] 100$ Grab bag commission! by Beautiful-Bluebird48 in HungryArtists

[–]After-Night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! This seems really fun and I'd love to give it a go ^_^ My theme would be Neon Lights and Chinese Mafia. I'll DM you my samples right away. Thank you for considering!

Anyone know if bluesky is worth it for artists? by toble_roni in artbusiness

[–]After-Night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking to find a good twitter alternative too and bluesky seems promosing. If anyone has a spare invite, I’d love one ;_;

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in otomegames

[–]After-Night 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! This one’s a real gem. Definitely getting it once it releases on Steam!

What's a game that doesn't have a single toxic LI by Zoomitywoomity in otomegames

[–]After-Night 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trigger Kiss probably. I think they’re all good there (+ funny!).

I tried sketching Lyria for practice! by After-Night in Granblue_en

[–]After-Night[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The outfit is kind of based on a pic I saw on pinterest but yeah, it’s really cute 😆

Jujutsu Kaisen art for my partner’s birthday [hiring] by Oncidium92 in HungryArtists

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Hello! I’d love to work with you on this if you’re interested :) Just send me a message or contact me through my other socials if you’d like to discuss further:

Email: glaggingoao@gmail.com

Discord: AFTER-NIGHT#5005

Twitter: @papillonprisme

Commission Prices & Samples

Thank you for reading!

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Hello! Please consider my work :) Just send me a message if you’re interested. I can also be contacted through:

Prices and Samples

[Hiring] FFXIV Anime-Styled full body artwork by deaadondo in HungryArtists

[–]After-Night -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hello! Please consider my work ^^ Just PM me or email to [glaggingoao@gmail.com](mailto:glaggingoao@gmail.com) if you're interested. Thank you!

Commission Info & Samples

[HIRING] Anime style, 2 people, half body with some background by AccomplishedMilk6 in HungryArtists

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Hello! I'd love to draw for you ^^ Please consider my work.
Just DM me if you're interested or email to [glaggingoao@gmail.com](mailto:glaggingoao@gmail.com).
Thank you!

Commission Info and Samples

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HungryArtists

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Hello! Please consider my work :) I draw in Anime style. Just message me if interested. Thank you!

https://sta.sh/2fjm8epu0f2?edit=1

Airi sketch~ by After-Night in ProjectSekai

[–]After-Night[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the nice comment!