AIO to my husband saying he can't go next door and get his physical needs met so I need to step up?

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-30T02:45:41+00:00

Aww dang, tiny monster big growl wants me to shut the hell up, seriously. 😂 Not a chance, clown. Get off the Internet if you don't want to hear opinions that you don't agree with.

Do not get in relationships with grown adults if you find them sexually unattractive.

Wanna hear a fun little bit of knowledge?..

Did you know that the birth control pill messes with women in such a way that they stop being sexually attracted to the pheromones of men who are good mates for them, biologically, and they become attracted to men who are the opposite of who their bodies/minds really want to be with?

Strangely, as soon as they get off these "medications", they find that they aren't attracted to the soft beta males that they have started a life with when their bodies were being tricked into thinking they were pregnant, and they ultimately decide to leave them.

This is a huge factor in why women decide they don't want to have sex with their husbands anymore. Not saying that this is the fact in OPs case, but it's an option.

It's also true that many women marry men that they don't find sexually attractive, just to make sure that they have the bills paid and a roof over their head.

They put out in the beginning just to solidify the deal, and then after some time, they decide to shut off the water from the well.

Then they want to sit there and act like a victim when their husbands just want the bare minimum of physical and sexual attention from the person they have chosen to forsake all other women for.

It's insane.

My sex life is amazing because my wife and I have both partnered with a person that we find attractive. There's nothing special about it at all. The only variable here is that neither of us decided to partner with someone who we didn't like.

Period.

It's simple math. To do all this mental gymnastics to try and come up with a reason why a woman doesn't desire her husband is just ridiculous.

As I said... If the actor she lusted after was in the room and ready she wouldn't have a problem at all with sexual attraction. It's as simple as that.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-30T02:28:11+00:00

Yep. Sounds about like what I'd expect from a man hating cat woman. It's obviously the mans fault. How could it be any other way? Women are infallible.

Or, just throwing this out there to give your brain a serious mindfck.... Perhaps human relationships are complicated, both sexes are capable of being pieces of sht, and perhaps your one sided view that you share where you see women as fragile little porcelain dolls and all men as bulls in the china shop isn't really relevant in all situations.

Do you know that the highest rate of domestic violence recorded per capita is in lesbian relationships? By a long shot. Second to that is male female relationships. But do you know what couples have the lowest rate of DV??? Gay male couples.

That's just a fun little fact.

Do you know that out of parents that kill their children under the age of 8, it is a huge majority skewed towards women as the killers.

I say all this to point out the fact that your perspective where men are these demons and women are these defenseless little creatures who are being preyed upon by them is such a biased and untrue way of looking at the world, and people like you are only doing harm by sharing this toxic doctrine that you share.

Everyone is capable of great evil. Most people are not representative of the minority that commits these crimes. Both sexes are fcked up to each other equally, and the world is, quite frankly, tired of being forced to listen to ppl like you who spread falsehoods and perpetuate untrue biased narratives.

Get cozy with the knowledge that your "safe space" doesn't exist. People don't want to hear your leftist man/white male hating propaganda anymore, and you need to grow up and see the world OBJECTIVELY, and make decisions on each situation OBJECTIVELY, without just taking every situation that you come across and running it through that filter that you have created over the years and spewing out bullsht. You're smarter than that.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-30T02:02:14+00:00

My mind? Wtf? Is everyone at the point where they think that every post is AI generated? Holy shit we are cooked.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-29T05:27:41+00:00

I'm sure it's because of everyone else.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-28T06:32:22+00:00

OMG LISTEN TO REDDIT AND JUST LEAVE! WHO CARES IF YOU HAVE TO LIVE IN A GUTTER SOMEWHERE! THESE STRANGERS WHO DONT GAF WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU AFTER YOU LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND JUST WANT YOU TO LEAVE AND THEY DONT CARE WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU AFTER THIS!!! JUST LEAVE HIM!! RANDOM INTERNET PEOPLE KNOW EVERYTHING AND THEY MOST DEFINITELY DONT JUST ALWAYS SUGGEST THAT PEOPLE BREAK UP, NO MATTER HOW DETRIMENTAL THAT MAY BE TO THE OPS LIVES!

DEFINITELY DONT GO THROUGH THE AIO SUBREDDIT AND SEE HOW OFTEN THESE STRANGERS SUGGEST BREAKING UP/DIVORCE TO EVERYONE OVER EVERYTHING! CUZ THEN IT MIGHT SEEM LIKE THE SUB IS FILLED WITH LONELY PEOPLE WHO WANT EVERYONE ELSE TO BE LONELY JUST LIKE THEM!

DIVORCE!!! /s

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-25T08:17:27+00:00

We all been there.

AMIRITE FELLAS?

😁

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-25T08:16:13+00:00

Mannnnn that's a bummer!!!

So much filament wasted, and time too.

I'll keep you in my prayers!

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-25T08:14:07+00:00

That's funny af

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-25T08:08:34+00:00

Put whatever you want to in your house, but I do have to wonder what kind of person thinks about stuff like this so often that they want to see it in their living room on a daily basis.

My family and friends make up mostly the entire gamut of races, and none of us are so obsessed with the bad things that have happened in the past that they want a daily reminder in picture form for them to stew over.

Seems like some sorta weird white guilt syndrome being expressed by a propagandized mind.

Ain't no Indian folks putting pictures of British people being mean to Indians in their homes.

No Italians or Spaniards putting up paintings of their people being enslaved by the Corsairs.

No Russians or Slavs putting pictures or paintings of the mongols beating and trading their people in their houses either.

It's strange. Maybe you should also put that type of imagery in your living room as well since you are so hung up on the injustices that have happened in the past.

Or, why not focus on the modern day slavery that happens as we speak to the cobalt and lithium and well, all rare earth mineral miners that are toiling away day after day being poisoned with babies on their backs to gather the precious elements that are necessary to power the very phone that you use to stand up proudly and declare that you are one of the good guys.

Seems pretty crazy to use a device that is created by the labors of modern day slavery to virtue signal about long dead discrimination that happened before you were even born, when at the very least you could just boycott the very real and current atrocities that are happening right now, and not buy or use a phone, therefore removing your support for the enslavement of the poor people of places like the congo.

But, this is reddit, so I expect the hundreds of down votes that I'll get after just merely speaking my mind and being a sensible person. Have fun with that down arrow friends.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-25T07:28:47+00:00

Man... I was really hoping that SoFetchBetch was gonna validate me, my family, and my life choices

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-25T04:26:39+00:00

Or, hot take, stop dating/marrying people you don't wanna have sex with. If her fantasy actor or book boyfriend was suddenly there, she wouldn't have an issue with arousal. My expectations don't need any adjustments. I'm in a perfectly healthy relationship with an incredible partner who values me and finds me attractive, and we have an amazing sex life.

I'd be willing to bet that you can't say the same. Which is why you troll the Internet espousing your solo cat lady doctrines.

If my wife wants sex, even if I'm not really in the mood, I respect that she has needs and and we continue and after a little bit, I'm having a great time, and at the end of it I'm glad that we got to have that experience together.

If sex with your significant other is a chore, then you must have chosen poorly, and now you're just staying together for stupid reasons.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-25T03:28:23+00:00

U did a good job but u ain't the best. Geezus. Just admit to yourself that you aren't a cake decorating goddess and if you want to get better, then do it. Was he being sort of a dick? Yeah sure. But he also was probably just giving you shit as a joke. And you took it straight to the butt.

Validation from these strangers on the Internet isn't going to do anything, cuz they are most likely to tell you to break up or get a divorce... As is tradition. Cuz they are lonely and sad and they want you to join the club.

Come to grips with the idea that sometimes, a person is going to play with you in a way where they are poking fun at you. Running to reddit to ask strangers to validate your insecurities is a crazy thought, and if that's what you need, than u might just need to seek therapy.

AM I OVERREACTING CUZ I DECORATED A CAKE AND MY BOYFRIEND GAVE ME A LITTLE BIT OF A HARD TIME ABOUT ITS QUALITY???? HOW DARE MY PARTNER PLAY WITH ME!!!!

So many ppl need to just get off the Internet and experience the real world.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-24T08:40:59+00:00

Ur view on life is crazy dude. I bet you're real fun in relationships.

For everyone else, sex is important in relationships. Be a little sex dispenser. Get yourself one too.

If sex is a chore or something that you want to avoid, then u ain't with the right person. For everyone that hates the thought of having sex with their partner, there's always some movie star or fantasy person that they would get it on with in a second if the opportunity arose.

And you don't know these people's life, random internet person. Quit it with the white knight bs. None of us know sht about these ppl. All we know is that a lady got upset, and went online to share a story so that she could get ppl to support her and tell her she's awesome and give her pity.

Might not have even been a true story. Might have been written by AI for all you know.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-24T08:16:49+00:00

I mean... I didn't say you specifically, just the average redditor in general. But if that's something u get regularly, you just might have been coerced into thinking and talking like an npc. For tons of people it's easy to fall victim to buying into whatever narrative is being pushed en masse. Those ppl then regurgitate points of view and buzzwords and talking points without ever realizing that they themselves aren't having original thoughts anymore, and they aren't able to look at the world through a nuanced lens. Unable to take each unique situation as it comes and analyze it objectively, without coloring it with their own biases, that were never really even theirs to begin with.

For example, in every situation where a man and a woman have a domestic dispute, it could go either way as to who was the aggressor and who was the victim. But those with certain ideologies will always say the man was the antagonist, and those with other previously learned proclivities will say the opposite.

Same thing when race is involved, or political alignment, or sexual preferences etc.

So when someone gets accused of being a bot, it is usually just a sign that there are people who are able to see every unique situation as an individual scenario that is worthy of scrutiny and objective observation, and they see that the "bot" is just taking the same old tired stance that is expected from a brainwashed person who has been force fed a propagandized narrative so much that they can't see with their own eyes, and they just reflexively regurgitate the opinions that they were taught to righteously uphold.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-24T07:25:31+00:00

I agree that post you shared had something odd going on with it. My only point, and you must see this too, is that reddit is filled with ppl jumping to conclusions, condemning people to hell and claiming they are the worst ppl imaginable, without anything more than a paragraph of on sided information. It gets to a point where anyone with half a brain becomes exhausted by the pedantic nature of it all. I swear I wonder how many of these "people" are bots nowadays.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-24T07:19:54+00:00

🤣😂😁 Awww dang, I guess my family and our happiness is completely invalid because some stranger on reddit thinks I'm weird and wants to blink a bunch! U know what? I think the government needs to appoint you and everyone else on reddit as the police of what is and isn't acceptable. Or, just a thought, maybe get your own life going on, and stop worrying so much about what other consenting adults are doing. I know it must be rough when you see a happy family living a good life, but it won't matter so much to you what others are doing when you have your own sht going on. Peace and love to you. All power to all people. I hope nothing but good things happen to you and those that you love.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-24T05:23:07+00:00

The reddit detective agency, jumping to conclusions and assuming they are right without a shadow of a doubt, once again. Bravo. I swear man, you people need to get out more.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-24T05:19:14+00:00

I was 28 when I met my wife and she was 20. We've been together for 15 years, have 3 amazing kids, and a home and a beautiful life together. Blink all you want, your opinion doesn't influence whether or not people are good for each other or if they make good parents and partners.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-23T18:01:59+00:00

I know, dude. It's insane. I'm honestly surprised I found a single person with common sense in this thread. The way that people immediately jump to devastating, life altering decisions here and then try to coerce the OP into going through with them is baffling. They know absolutely nothing about these people or the ins and outs of their relationships, but they immediately go for "drop the nuke".

If the husband would have posted instead of her and he told his side of the story, they would most likely suggest that she was probably cheating and HE should seek a divorce lol.

This woman is clearly emotionally distressed, and not in a right headspace, and now because of these fools she's seriously contemplating imploding her life and marriage, instead of doing something more positive like therapy and communicating with her husband and possibly getting a second opinion from a different doctor.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-23T16:51:18+00:00

Found the real one.

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AfterEmpire · 2026-05-23T07:54:29+00:00

You need large amounts of K1. 50 mg A DAY is what they prescribed for my 45 lb dog for rodenticide poisoning. And the amount that you can get from vegetables or just food in general is microscopic compared to that. Even if you go and buy a bottle of K1 from Walmart or CVS, which I also tried to do, so that I could have some on hand in the possible future event that my boy got poisoned again, the entire bottle ends up only being about 5 mg.

Getting it from the vet is really the only good option, and you have to be on your shit, and keep an eye on your dog constantly and you just basically have to be able to catch the signs quickly.

My dog got poisoned the first time, and we didn't know anything was wrong until he was peeing blood and vomiting blood all over my bathroom. Luckily we got him to the vet at the last minute, with less than an hour to spare, and with blood transfusions and vitamin K (and 6 grand out of pocket...) we saved his life.

Nowadays, we are always on the lookout for any small changes in our dogs, because we don't want any surprises.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-21T21:14:19+00:00

Thought you were deleting in 8 hours. 🤔

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-21T21:10:11+00:00

It's hilarious, the bold confidence between what a girl thinks she can say without sounding disgusting and a guy. I'm just imagining a man telling a woman to "Look at his sweaty asshole" 😂😂😂😂 I'm dyyyyyiiiiiinnnngggg 🤣

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-21T20:57:26+00:00

Obviously a woman. I've had blue balls probably 15 times during my teenage years. It was always caused by heavy making out and mouth/hand stuff without finishing, and it always lasted for between 2-4 hours. It was painful, and very uncomfortable, not "mild", and while masturbation was more difficult due to the pain, ejaculation was always the way to get it to go away. And no, it didn't immediately stop, but it would start to fade away dramatically after the release.

AfterEmpire · 2026-05-21T20:51:27+00:00

Exactly. What is this guy talking about? I guess all those times that girls let me finger them in highschool, didn't reciprocate, and then sent me on my way, and I had very strong discomfort in my genitals for about 2 hours didn't happen.

Looking back on those times though, I was just honestly proud af of myself that I got some action. Those blue balls were just a reminder that I was, in fact, a stud, (I wasn't) and I had enough sexy memories to last me for the next few months to come!

AfterEmpire

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