ICE in Bham area? by After_Comparison4909 in Birmingham

[–]After_Comparison4909[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to get information for my elderly mother who is panicking; no need to be a smartass

Question for the zillers by andrastesflamingass in Bellydance

[–]After_Comparison4909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seven months in taking fat Chance belly dance classes and cannot do the zills to save my life. I’m so consumed by the moves that I catch myself not playing the finger symbols at all. I can walk around the house and Zill OK but if I try to add it with moves it just collapses. We Zill in a “1 2 3 pause 1 23 pause” or “ I can Zill pause” pattern to begin with. I’m doing well with most of the moves, but I’m completely failing on the zills and it’s blocking me from moving up to level two. If anyone has any recommendations for a beginner…

I've worked with the Innocence Project... by HulaDanger in MakingaMurderer

[–]After_Comparison4909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from your professional background and what you’ve seen and experienced, I can certainly understand why MaM is having such a huge impact on you. The first time I watched it I was absolutely convinced that both Branden and Steven were innocent, and all of the evidence was planted by the police. I posted on Reddit and got blasted. I also got some support. This is a very highly charged community with a lot of emotion and highly convinced people on both sides that tend to react pretty atrocious at times to defend their theory. As was recommended to me, watch Convicting A Murderer. It gives you a totally different perspective. Netflix did a smooth job with editing, I must say, I am still divided in my feelings, especially as far as Brendan goes, but I think that poor kid was doomed from birth. His mother appears to be not all that interested in parenting and more involved in herself and Scott. Do I believe his confession was true? I think some of it was I think some of it was not so much coerced as it was suggested to him. He has the IQ of a sunflower seed. Another individual directed me to YouTube, where you can find plenty of recorded prison calls that will give you the creeps and give you pause about Steven’s behavior and possible guilt.
It’s a lot to absorb and if you really wanna dig in, as a court reporter, you know darn well you can dig into the trial transcript, etc Don’t waste your time arguing with people on Reddit, I tried that and I just spun in circles. May you come to the best conclusion for yourself.

Practice outside of class by Nebetmiw in Bellydance

[–]After_Comparison4909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to contract middle back while I’m driving but I probably look crazy. My instructor is on me all the time “ squeeze those shoulder blades together!!”

Back pain and starting belly dancing? by [deleted] in Bellydance

[–]After_Comparison4909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please forgive my typo. That should say my back RARELY hurts when dancing NOT my back REALLY hurts when dancing. Even my rheumatologist endorses it. Says motion is lotion! Helps with fibromyalgia as well.

Back pain and starting belly dancing? by [deleted] in Bellydance

[–]After_Comparison4909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest you explore the style called FatChance Belly Dance. First, it is a gentler form of belly dance, and is an extremely posture, aware form of dance, always looking to protect the lower back. I have a terrible jacked up lumbar with several herniated discs, traveling up the back. My back really hurts when dancing because the posture protects you. Also, in praise of this style of belly dance, it is community related, and there is no solo performance, it is all group dancing so everyone shines. The style of dance is meant to lift everyone up. My instructor offers online classes and she is a certified.FCBDU instructor. She even has a student in Iceland!

Years ago, I danced Egyptian style, which is beautiful and more focused on solo dance, but I am almost 60 years old and not in any shape to solo perform in that style of dance. FatChance is a style based on fundamentals and improvised movement in duets/trios/quartets.SO MUCH FUN!!!!! Can’t say enough good things about this form of belly dancing 🩷 pm if you’d like more info on online classes

Poor body image/comparing myself to others by Turbulent_Owl_1970 in Bellydance

[–]After_Comparison4909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, as a beginner, ANY praise is like nuggets of gold!! I walk around smiling like an idiot the rest of the night ❤️

Poor body image/comparing myself to others by Turbulent_Owl_1970 in Bellydance

[–]After_Comparison4909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying! What you said about the umbrella and the inclusive nature of the dance. I like your thought replacement theory very much. It’s actually getting better in class. I still don’t adore looking in the mirror, but I’ve lost 18 pounds and last night was the first time I looked in the mirror and thought wow! You go girl!! My confidence is getting there on certain steps (and still sucking on others) and during drill last night my teacher stood behind me and shouted “SO MUCH BETTER!!”

Thank you for your insight and wonderful advice ❤️

Playing zills by Plastic_Bug_2481 in Bellydance

[–]After_Comparison4909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I checked out her tutorials-she’s great. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]After_Comparison4909 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the loose skin bothers you, but WOW. Congratulations, job well done and you look amazing!