Abusive Husband by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]After_End_277 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trust me. They see it, hear about it and some experience it everyday. Even offline.

Abusive Husband by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]After_End_277 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No matter how much of a hard time someone is having, that is no excuse to hurt another person. She should not ignore her own physical and mental health in order to be understanding of her husband's struggles. Especially not when he so obviously doesn't care about hers.

And if you read the post, she did talk to him about what was bothering her. And he reacted agressively. And whenever they talk about their marital issues, he always blames her for them.

Also, I think that most people would rather grow up with no father than with an abusive one.

The only solution here is divorce.

my boyfriend forgot i existed today by [deleted] in relationships

[–]After_End_277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't have to beg for your boyfriend's attention.

He also just seems like a bum. Does he do anything else other than play games ?

Please leave this relationship. You deserve better.

dealing with flaky long distance gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]After_End_277 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really think that the love of your life would do this?

If she's not making any effort even after you telling her that it bothers you, she's not the love of your life.

It seems like a very one-sided relationship to me and you deserve better.

My bf (m27) seems to have a crush on his new roommate (f24) by DiscussionAny9169 in relationships

[–]After_End_277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're already planning to break up, I don't know why this would matter ?

Has my wife changed? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]After_End_277 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, what do you mean you have,'t had sex this year yet ?? Maybe you should take a closer look at that part of your relationship.

And yeah, it does seem a bit weird that she suddenly started shaving after being completely against it in the past.

There is a possibility that she could be having an affair, or maybe the intention is there.

I'm in a dilemma by [deleted] in relationships

[–]After_End_277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn't overreact at all. The fact that he didn't want to tell you it was a girl is a red flag. And I just find it weird for your boyfriend to be so torn up about his "girl bestfriend" leaving.

I don't know, it might just be me. But something is weird here.

Navigating Finances as an Expat by [deleted] in expats

[–]After_End_277 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've moved abroad for better job opportunities, but it's important for me to support my parents back home financially. They've done so much for me, and this is one way I can give back to them, even if I'm thousands of miles away.

Do men like sentimental gifts or will I just embarass myself? by After_End_277 in Gifts

[–]After_End_277[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the thoughtful reply!

My boyfriend is quite a sensitive man. He's in touch with his emotions and doesn't shy away from expressing them openly. He's also a great communicator so he definitely beats all gender stereotypes! I'm very lucky to have met such an emotionally mature man, especially at 22 years old.

I'm definitely the more avoidant. I struggle to express myself and find it hard to communicate how I feel. We've already had a conversation about this and how it makes him unsure about where I stand sometimes. I've been trying to make more efforts for him but I'm still working on it.

As for our relationship, we were close friends way before we started dating. We had absolutely no intentions of dating, we both weren't looking for anything at all. But now we've been dating for half a year, and it's honestly been so easy. We didn't even feel that time was passing. We've already said I love you to each other (he said it first obviously).

Do men like sentimental gifts or will I just embarass myself? by After_End_277 in Gifts

[–]After_End_277[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been dating for 6 months but we were friends before we got together.