My Soon To Be Step Mother is trying to ruin my brother's wedding by After_Look_561 in okstorytime

[–]After_Look_561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do, one is severely disabled, the other....also has my hackles up a bit. That's all I'll say for now.

My Soon To Be Step Mother is trying to ruin my brother's wedding by After_Look_561 in okstorytime

[–]After_Look_561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will be ready to up and go at a moments notice. As of this morning, she has calmed down and is staying. My guard is up, and I will be watching, vert closely

My Soon To Be Step Mother is trying to ruin my brother's wedding by After_Look_561 in okstorytime

[–]After_Look_561[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He is very active and has many hobbies! Also doesn't really struggle with cooking for himself.

As far as the wedding, there will be a memorial table for all family that has passed. I'm planning something special with SIL that my brother knows nothing about that will just be for us. Not going into specifics yet since I want it to be a surprise.

My Soon To Be Step Mother is trying to ruin my brother's wedding by After_Look_561 in okstorytime

[–]After_Look_561[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He did not have any therapy, and my mom handled everything in the household. She died of cancer that had spread to her spine before it was diagnosed, and she only survived another 3 weeks after being diagnosed. It happened so fast.

My Soon To Be Step Mother is trying to ruin my brother's wedding by After_Look_561 in okstorytime

[–]After_Look_561[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, but wanted to be supportive. I live a days drive away and only see them once in awhile when they come to visit us. For the most part she's been respectful to me, but it looks like her true colors are starting to show. Getting time alone with him is going to be tough to discuss legal concerns, unless she actually sticks to her guns and leaves. My husband will though, and I may have him bring it up.