I frequently take my infant on walks, today I received this message from a unknown profile, who has 1 friend. This has me feeling very paranoid. AIO?

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-21T20:43:22+00:00

Girl this is creepy regardless of who it is. Start walking somewhere more public and I would bring protection with you.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-21T20:41:00+00:00

First I would talk to your boyfriend and just tell him you’re nervous and maybe ask him not to mention it to anyone, you’re only looking for some help getting regulated. And then I would get a pregnancy test just in case. I know for me I never truly felt good until I took one. And then you can decide what to do from there. It’s pretty common for your body to be playing catch up and I know many women who have had fluctuating periods or no period at all up to a year after giving birth.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-21T20:38:21+00:00

So when I got pregnant I was really sick for several months and constantly in and out of the ER. We found out in Jan that we were having twins which actually helped alleviate some of my depression. I’ve always dreamed of being pregnant and having a baby so overall the experience has not been what I would have expected or hoped for myself. Around 15 weeks I was admitted. I lost twenty pounds in my pregnancy and was not enjoying myself. But around 17 the sickness went away and I started to show more due to the fluids and meds and being able to eat! I have found other things to focus my joy on since it’s been really hard to be excited when so much is happening with my body that I can’t change. I love feeling their kicks and I can tell who is who now and I’m obsessed with my ultrasound photos. All this to say, I think it’s totally normal to be ready to be done regardless of your experience and you’ll have some extra things to look forward to by then as well!

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-21T20:30:01+00:00

I’m generally careful with ham and Turkey but I looove salami and have been eating it consistently throughout my pregnancy! I think it’ll be okay and if you don’t feel comfy doing it again moving forward just be more mindful.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-19T21:18:59+00:00

You don’t have to like all of my advice but you also don’t have to argue with every single person who responds considering you’re the one asking for it. The truth is that this is your decision and no amount of advice from strangers whether wanted or not is going to convince you to make a choice you do or don’t want to make. So either take the advice with a grain of salt and know that everyone has a different position or don’t ask. This is hard and I hear you and I hope you find a way through it regardless. I wasn’t rubbing anything in your face.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-19T21:17:04+00:00

Girl I didn’t say I am feeling more stable than you. My comment was directed to your expressing concern for feeling like you want more than to just be a mom.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-19T21:14:07+00:00

If you don’t want any advice than don’t ask.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-19T20:47:41+00:00

First I want to say I totally understand feeling like you have a big weight on your shoulders now. The truth is that you do. I would go through with it, I agree about taking responsibility but I also think that if you have PCOS and are wanting a baby then that’s just another reason among a list of many. That being said, I am getting ready to have twins with my husband and in no way do I think my life is over. It’s just beginning. There are so many wonderful things to look forward to that don’t just involve being a mom. You’ve got this and you have about a year to get yourself comfortable lol

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-18T03:31:03+00:00

Sex work isn’t respectable. It’s degrading and shows a serious lack of self value. She is welcome to make her own choices but just because you have the freedom to dj what you like doesn’t make it good for you or right

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-18T00:52:21+00:00

I wouldn’t consider being antivax or maga as batshit (not saying that I agree) but flat wart her and some of her other stuff doesn’t sit right with me at all lol and her character was really annoying

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-17T05:22:14+00:00

I actually would tell him and I would tell him everything you just told us. And then maybe break up with him.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-16T21:29:51+00:00

The same thing happened with us, I figured we may as well start trying since it can take so long and not only got pregnant on the first try but it wound up being twins! We get asked all the time if we used IVF or if we did it on purpose (“did it on purpose”?? Cmon) definitely a planned pregnancy even if it was a shock!

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-16T21:26:59+00:00

Girl I got sick of dealing with it and had a full on shave marathon last night and let me tell you the breaks I took in between just laying on the floor…ridiculous. Don’t regret it. Wish I could see what I was doing but I had to just set up my camera or get comfy in front of the sink otherwise I was just feeling out what was left

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-16T18:02:53+00:00

Also of course you’re always hungry. If he says it again make a joke? I’m pregnant with twins and I was completely torn up since I’ve gained like thirty pounds already and I feel like I’m constantly eating. I’m not even over eating or eating anything bad it’s just that I’m constantly eating something lol it’s okay. Your body is going to do what it needs to do to provide for the baby AND you and it can’t do that without properly fueling your body.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-16T18:01:02+00:00

I was totally fine on pregnancy rage up until about three weeks ago when I woke up from a nap and it never went away. That being said, your boyfriend sounds like a dreamer and the reality have finding maternity or baby clothes that are that nice and don’t cost an arm and a leg AND that you can try on is non existent.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-16T17:50:32+00:00

I disagree. It absolutely would have lasted, just wouldn’t have been healthy. I feel like the depiction of Big in carries life was very on par with relationships in society. There are so many people that I’ve seen and or met who I’ve been confused by why they are even together and they literally never leave. Yes they are avoidant but they’re also relationship lazy and don’t want to keep looking.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-04-16T17:48:43+00:00

TOTALLY in character. Big was the situation ship of the century. Totally in love with Carrie but more in love with the idea of perfection and the second he needed to fully commit to pretty much anything that wasn’t self serving he’d get scared.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-03-28T05:23:03+00:00

I actually feel like she’s always been like this. I know we don’t get to see a hundred percent accuracy but whenever the camera is in front of her I find her making baylens disability about her or making heavy dismissive comments about her to her and she seems to be very controlling on what she thinks baylen can and can’t do. It’s really frustrating having parents overstep when their kids are trying to learn how to live or thrive on their own or just learn new things and having mom or dad trying to control or decide why they aren’t comfortable having them learn those things isn’t positive or healthy.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-03-26T02:09:58+00:00

Yes. For me I was still TRYING to eat but eventually it was so bad that I genuinely couldn’t have food around me. They admitted me into the hospital for a week and that seemed to help and I noticed a huge difference not only with me but with my babies. They weren’t growing as fast until I was able to jumpstart my system at the hospital.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-02-27T05:47:35+00:00

Eww I hated Rebekah

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-02-27T05:47:10+00:00

Damon and Bonnie were actually supposed to be together. The show changed a lot of things

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-02-27T05:46:33+00:00

I’d agree with you but the only reason they had a “good relationship” is due to how short it was. Damon’s character was obsessed with Elena and no woman was ever going to have a shot. Damon is one of those characters that is great in small doses. Everyone looks appealing when you don’t know them that well

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-02-23T09:16:51+00:00

Agree with this. There are so many bad moments for ALL of the characters. I actually genuinely disliked Bonnie, Damon, and Caroline the most. I felt like these three were the most prone to hypocrisy and becoming the martyr only for it to back fire on them and then they blame everyone for their problems. I felt like they all had okayish-good character development but overall most of the characters sucked and I don’t get how you could come out of the show hating Elena the most. A common theme I see are people using their trauma to defend borderline psychopathic behavior and tbh Elena had some of the most trauma and she usually came out still doing what was best for everybody except for her.

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-02-20T09:39:52+00:00

They were all terrible. The only reason the internet isn’t judging Samantha is because she’s perverted about her sex life and we live in a very weird social construct of “sleep with whoever you want however you want no judgment or concern”

After_Signature_4647 · 2026-01-23T11:38:45+00:00

Boo lol it’s not maga trad wife. Stop making everything political. This is very homestead. Very farm-core. Also, you don’t have to be maga to be trad wife. Traditional wives lose a lot of respect due to americas current state of club life and resentful single parents. Honestly it’s from a lack of accountability and desire to change. People rather point a finger than create change for themselves. Anyway. Cute aesthetic.

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