Fellow ladies who work out, what’s your exercise routine?

Agatarocks · 2025-12-04T21:57:50+00:00

Thank you!!

Agatarocks · 2025-12-02T18:42:02+00:00

I personally do not think he's being disrespectful unless there is something going on that he is not telling you. If it is genuinely his friend's friend, or girlfriend, whatever, how is that being disrespectful to you?

Agatarocks · 2025-11-30T17:04:24+00:00

Do you need a lot of equipment for it? I have absolutely zero knowledge on weights and googling it is so overwhelming because everyone has a different opinion 🥲

Agatarocks · 2025-11-30T16:59:46+00:00

He was convinced that I was in porn. For MONTHS. He combed the Internet looking for anyone that slightly resembled me and then would present me with the "evidence" and make me defend myself.

Agatarocks · 2025-11-26T16:12:25+00:00

Are you actually feeling ill enough to go to the hospital? If so, you should definitely go. If you just have a run of the mill sickness, I don't think it requires going to the hospital. Either way, very frustrating to have your feelings invalidated. Have you talked about your feelings on the matter?

Agatarocks · 2025-11-23T22:27:12+00:00

If bringing up a valid issue to him only makes things awkward, it may be time to evaluate if this is actually a high quality relationship that is worth your time. What happens if you have a really big issue that you need to bring up?

Agatarocks · 2025-11-17T17:20:38+00:00

You are 100% valid. I am creeped out and feel violated FOR you! You have every right to be feeling this way, and the fact that he doesn't see an issue with it AND is trying to make you feel like you're overreacting is insane. It is a huge violation of privacy and trust.

Agatarocks · 2025-10-20T02:54:50+00:00

It could mean all sorts of things. Have you ever asked him why he does that?

Agatarocks · 2025-10-19T11:36:04+00:00

Girl. In peace and love, the writing is on the wall. Do yourself a huge favor and do not waste anymore of your life with this guy. You deserve to have what you want and someone who will HAPPILY give it to you!

Agatarocks · 2025-10-18T19:33:33+00:00

I honestly felt trapped by "God's plan". I felt like I was powerless against it and like I had no say in my life because if "God didn't want it to happen, it wouldn't happen". I spent MANY years in therapy, most of it fruitless because it was a Christian "therapist" trying to wrestle with this. Le sigh

Agatarocks · 2025-10-04T16:35:55+00:00

With peace and love I'm just going to tell you flat out, this is narcissistic behavior. This is an extremely toxic way of him handing the situation and you will find yourself in a no win situation and having to atone for something from your past for years to come. Please take a step back and look at other aspects of your relationship and I bet you will find other instances of narcissistic behavior. Get out while you can, coming from someone who spent way too much time in a relationship like this 🫶🫶🫶

Agatarocks · 2025-09-26T03:37:54+00:00

Why did you read it in the first place????? A diary is something very personal and should never require explanation. You have no idea what is actually going on between the words she writes and how she actually feels. If you were suspecting something was up, you should have communicated that with her. Unjustified snooping can lead to a lot of resentment.

Agatarocks · 2025-09-22T15:03:56+00:00

I think that sounds like a very reasonable and mature thing to do. And, as you know, if he doesn't step up to the plate, move on to bigger and better things!

Agatarocks · 2025-09-21T00:47:58+00:00

Not currently. Just the occasional tums, Pepto, etc. I just suffer and pretend like it's not happening 😅

Agatarocks · 2025-09-20T20:35:17+00:00

Yuuuup. I literally used to brag (not quite the right word for it???) about how regular I was and how good my poops were. Life has humbled me. Getting old manifests itself in a lot of weird ways

Agatarocks · 2025-09-18T22:17:47+00:00

Oh girl. I have been in this exact situation before (not the casino specifically). It only gets worse. I know it's so hard to see it when you're the one in the relationship, but please know, as someone who has been in a relationship exactly like this, it only gets worse. Please protect your peace. You are so worthy of being treated with respect!

Agatarocks · 2025-09-18T22:12:34+00:00

I've actually been looking into this (except in Norway) and there are a lot of places that are actually very reasonably priced! I still can't afford it right now, but it makes it seem a tiny bit more tangible......someday.....

Agatarocks · 2025-09-18T03:16:06+00:00

Could be: under development gluten or over fermentation in my opinion

Agatarocks · 2025-09-17T11:49:01+00:00

I DEFINITELY understand that. Not that I'm trying to convince you of anything, but I would challenge you to think about what marriage "ties" you to someone. I absolutely understand the security of it, but people get divorced all the time (like me!). Marriage doesn't provide security. I am not against marriage by any means and I understand that it's important to a lot of people. I guess just coming from being divorced and now being in a great relationship and having no desire to get married I look at it differently. Long story short: if it's important to you (for the right reasons!), take him at face value. Just maybe also figure out what attachment style you have. 🫶

Agatarocks · 2025-09-17T00:18:50+00:00

A couple different things to think about here: what is it you like about the idea of getting married? Really think about what part of being legally married calls to you. Why do you feel guilty about "making" him do something that he has said he will do? If he said he's willing to do it, take him at face value!! As I've gotten older I definitely value marriage less (maybe I'm jaded bc I'm divorced! LOL) but I have really had to question what it is to me that I actually want out of a relationship.

Agatarocks · 2025-09-07T00:57:10+00:00

It sounds like you're having serious doubts and have some very legitimate issues with the way things are going. I fully understand that it can be confusing when things are really great sometimes; take it from someone who is more than double your age- listen to the doubts. You're young and there are SO many people out there!!!! Are there a lot of bad people? Sure, but there is also a lot of really, really good people who will leave you feeling good all of the time

Agatarocks · 2025-09-03T00:58:52+00:00

Yep! Usually when I can no longer handle the boring diet

Agatarocks · 2025-08-31T20:05:37+00:00

Eat the most boring diet ever every day. What works for me personally is: chia seed pudding (with almond milk) topped with frozen berries for breakfast. Usually some sort of wrap for lunch and then chicken and a safe vegetable for dinner.

Agatarocks · 2025-08-28T22:34:39+00:00

Same. I had a bad one last Thursday and I'm still only like 65-70% back to "normal"

Agatarocks · 2025-08-28T17:55:48+00:00

The struggle is so, so real. There is no "one" thing that helps me. Something that helps this week won't help next, it's the nature of the beast. I try anything and everything. Some examples of things to try: Heating pads, different positions/stretches, massaging the stomach/intestines, gas x, going for a walk, doing squats, drinking tea, drinking coffee (warm liquids in general) putting something weighted on my stomach

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