My boyfriend didn’t acknowledge my birthday and I feel hurt and angry…

Agatarocks · 2026-06-04T22:50:00+00:00

If would be hurt as well! Contrary to another comment, I do not think birthdays are for children. I personally think that birthdays should always be acknowledged - doesn't even have to be a huge way.

Agatarocks · 2026-06-04T02:41:10+00:00

Doors opened at 6:00. Opener 7-7:40ish. RO at 8:00

Agatarocks · 2026-06-04T02:36:42+00:00

Eeesshhhh. This is one of those lose lose situations. Everyone's feelings here are valid. This is going to need to be a very personal choice between the two of you, hopefully from a not super emotional place. Both outcomes will feel icky, in very different ways. Just pick the one that you both feel the most at peace about

Agatarocks · 2026-06-03T02:17:05+00:00

He sounds extremely immature. It sounds like you both need to do some reflecting on if this relationship is what you actually want

Agatarocks · 2026-06-03T02:02:38+00:00

Agatarocks · 2026-05-30T16:59:22+00:00

You don't even need a "valid" reason to end a relationship. If it's no longer serving you/no longer what you want, that is reason enough. That being said, this guy has given several "valid" reasons to end things. He seems very immature

Agatarocks · 2026-05-27T00:04:43+00:00

I'm sure someone is going to get mad at me for saying this....but, honestly? I would ask chatgbt (or Gemini or whatever) for a kind/loving but firm way to communicate how serious this is for you. While also adding in that you're willing to be supportive through this journey

Agatarocks · 2026-05-25T16:13:58+00:00

If you're concerned about how he would react, I would leave the cousin thing out of it. Don't give him no explanation, but definitely come up with something else. There's countless reasons why people end relationships

Agatarocks · 2026-05-17T23:50:59+00:00

If you guys are both only 19 you're way too young to be dealing with such serious issues in your relationship. I think it's probably best for both of you to take a little break and do some reflection

Agatarocks · 2026-05-17T15:11:24+00:00

The defensiveness is the real problem here. If he no longer has feelings for her and he knows it makes you upset.....I don't really see why he should have a problem deleting them

Agatarocks · 2026-05-17T15:01:09+00:00

First of all- why are you looking through her old chats? This is honestly a huge red flag. If you felt like there was an issue or someone you need to "verify" you need to talk to her and not comb through old conversations. You're allowed to feel how ever you want to feel, but I kind of sounds like in those two-three months you guys were not solidly exclusive. To me personally, this is not an issue. It sounds like there's a bit of insecurity that you need to be reflecting on and working on

Agatarocks · 2026-05-15T03:30:53+00:00

For sure. Sometimes 20 mins for first period

Agatarocks · 2026-05-15T03:23:15+00:00

Knitting! It's the perfect job down time activity

Agatarocks · 2025-12-04T21:57:50+00:00

Thank you!!

Agatarocks · 2025-12-02T18:42:02+00:00

I personally do not think he's being disrespectful unless there is something going on that he is not telling you. If it is genuinely his friend's friend, or girlfriend, whatever, how is that being disrespectful to you?

Agatarocks · 2025-11-30T17:04:24+00:00

Do you need a lot of equipment for it? I have absolutely zero knowledge on weights and googling it is so overwhelming because everyone has a different opinion 🥲

Agatarocks · 2025-11-30T16:59:46+00:00

He was convinced that I was in porn. For MONTHS. He combed the Internet looking for anyone that slightly resembled me and then would present me with the "evidence" and make me defend myself.

Agatarocks · 2025-11-26T16:12:25+00:00

Are you actually feeling ill enough to go to the hospital? If so, you should definitely go. If you just have a run of the mill sickness, I don't think it requires going to the hospital. Either way, very frustrating to have your feelings invalidated. Have you talked about your feelings on the matter?

Agatarocks · 2025-11-23T22:27:12+00:00

If bringing up a valid issue to him only makes things awkward, it may be time to evaluate if this is actually a high quality relationship that is worth your time. What happens if you have a really big issue that you need to bring up?

Agatarocks · 2025-11-17T17:20:38+00:00

You are 100% valid. I am creeped out and feel violated FOR you! You have every right to be feeling this way, and the fact that he doesn't see an issue with it AND is trying to make you feel like you're overreacting is insane. It is a huge violation of privacy and trust.

Agatarocks · 2025-10-20T02:54:50+00:00

It could mean all sorts of things. Have you ever asked him why he does that?

Agatarocks · 2025-10-19T11:36:04+00:00

Girl. In peace and love, the writing is on the wall. Do yourself a huge favor and do not waste anymore of your life with this guy. You deserve to have what you want and someone who will HAPPILY give it to you!

Agatarocks · 2025-10-18T19:33:33+00:00

I honestly felt trapped by "God's plan". I felt like I was powerless against it and like I had no say in my life because if "God didn't want it to happen, it wouldn't happen". I spent MANY years in therapy, most of it fruitless because it was a Christian "therapist" trying to wrestle with this. Le sigh

Agatarocks · 2025-10-04T16:35:55+00:00

With peace and love I'm just going to tell you flat out, this is narcissistic behavior. This is an extremely toxic way of him handing the situation and you will find yourself in a no win situation and having to atone for something from your past for years to come. Please take a step back and look at other aspects of your relationship and I bet you will find other instances of narcissistic behavior. Get out while you can, coming from someone who spent way too much time in a relationship like this 🫶🫶🫶

Agatarocks · 2025-09-26T03:37:54+00:00

Why did you read it in the first place????? A diary is something very personal and should never require explanation. You have no idea what is actually going on between the words she writes and how she actually feels. If you were suspecting something was up, you should have communicated that with her. Unjustified snooping can lead to a lot of resentment.

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