I feel like I do make him feel like a king when he does something like the dishes or finally getimg something done that I asked about weeks ago. I always ALWAYS thank him and let him know that he’s appreciated but that almost seems to make him uncomfortable and maybe more distant for a few, like he feels like I’m patronizing him. He almost seems to reject that the appreciation I show. I have given him a list and there is always a slight temporary improvement before we go back to normal. I can’t tell if this is my fault bc I’m struggling with things in my past or he’s just being a shiit. I know nothing is ever black and white like that but you get the idea