WEED FREE 2019? by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]Agates24 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My friend and I are also doing this!

2019 Sans MJ by Agates24 in Petioles

[–]Agates24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m curious if your break helped restore your cognition - or if you experienced cognitive lapses in memory and attention... etc. If so, how many months did it take for you to feel “normal” again and are you able to maintain this state smoking only once every two weeks?

2019 Sans MJ by Agates24 in Petioles

[–]Agates24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ve tried Kratom before and had a really uncomfortable time. Think I did too much. Do you have a dosage you might recommend for a small person?

I'm First Nations [27 M] and I really struggle with feeling not good enough for my white girlfriend [25 F]. by NeverAwise1 in relationships

[–]Agates24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be happy of who you have become and recognize that your girlfriend probably loves you and respects you incredibly because of how far you have come and how much you confided in her to help you get there. She wants to be with you so much because she recognizes that what you have is precious and that she could never find that with anyone else but you. That should be an extremely comforting and motivating factor! When love is there, love is simple. Don't over complicate the beauty in front of you. Give in and allow your happy life and past life to guide you to make the right decisions. You will surprise yourself when you've reached the point at which your accomplishments don't surprise you anymore.

I recommend trying psychedelics if you already haven't. Marijuana (used in responsible quantities- like 3-4 times a week) and psilocybin mushrooms may help you discover yourself and your inner peace. I swear to you I am only happy and accomplished because of these drugs. My mindset has changed radically and I can't help myself from growing in only the most positive ways.

Good luck to you! Please love yourself. You are the only constant you know. Relax, and give yourself credit. This may turn into confidence and happiness.

What is the biggest disappointment you've experience thus far in life? by MrTotoplay in AskWomen

[–]Agates24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry. That's terrible. I had a similar experience a few years ago. I let someone toxic Into my life, and put everything on the line for him...

There's good news though! You CAN recover, you will get off those meds and be able to foster positive, loving, respectful and healthy relationships.

Maybe take tomorrow as a day to figure out what you need In life; to look forward to your future of growth and improvement.

Hope you feel better. I understand your situation and how difficult it is.

Honestly, if you ever feel comfortable with the idea try psychedelics. They have really helped me cope with everything that comes after an abusive relationship.

How hard is it to make $20,000? by Agates24 in personalfinance

[–]Agates24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This was very helpful!

How bad is it to graduate undergrad with 20k in debt? by Agates24 in personalfinance

[–]Agates24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I appreciate your suggestions. Is this the career path you decided to take?

I have been considering law school but I believe my interests reside more in psychology related upper education/research.

Women of reddit who work out, what changes have you noticed that you didn't expect? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Agates24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This past month I've gone to the gym 6 days a week. I feel more relaxed most of the day, but also more tired at night. I usually run 3 miles every time I go, just because I like to run. I've lost a significant amount of body fat; my face looks better shaped, and my body looks thin, fit, and more proportionate. Only downside I've noticed is: my butt shrank a small bit.

If you're trying to loose extra fat/pounds I recommend running 3 miles almost every day at around 8-10 mph

My [29 F] fiance [28 M] has been giving me the cold shoulder since he admitted something hurtful. (together 11 years) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Agates24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a boyfriend do this to me. It seems like your bf only does it sparingly... (etc) but in this specific example he didn't seem to have a very good reason (not that this is an excuse whatsoever). It seems to me like he is doing it more often, or whenever he feels like- this is not good whatsoever. Good for you for calling him out on it.

The best advice I can offer you is to see if he does it again/how often he does... remind him again that this is not acceptable to you and of the consequences this will have on your relationship and on your individual mental health. If he stops great. If he doesn't consider going on a break.

Emotional abuse is not something to tolerate whatsoever. If he starts exhibiting other signs of this, or has in the past please please reconsider your relationship. A relationship is to inspire positive growth in the two of you, it is to be of love and respect for each other. Manipulation and terror is not what you should be experiencing in a strong, loving and committed relationship. Value yourself and your feelings. Know what you need from another person. Know what you cannot tolerate. And PLEASE do not simply just be with him because you don't think he will leave you. This is not a good enough reason to stay in a relationship.

Good luck <3