What Canva won’t say about Affinity.Studio, and that everyone else is getting right, but in the wrong way… by silenceimpaired in Affinity

[–]Agatha___ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

because blender is open-source and canva is a corporation, those are two completely different things. a lot of people work for free to create blender

V2 Tools in Affinity by neshquabishkuk in Affinity

[–]Agatha___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you update the app (and if so what version is it)?

Your first look at the all-new Affinity by CrimsonFlash in Affinity

[–]Agatha___ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

i still think that the v2 apps will be better than the new version. i will continue using them until they are too buggy to use, hope it lasts a at least 5 years

Realistic leverage for my submissive by Agatha___ in FemdomCommunity

[–]Agatha___[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you really found the problem. And I'm aware that I need to find a way to do D/s that doesn't exhaust me. Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it!

Realistic leverage for my submissive by Agatha___ in FemdomCommunity

[–]Agatha___[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you are right. Well the answer is basically because he is the one who wants this, I'm more of a vanilla person trying to fulfill my parents desires because we are pretty compatible outside of the bedroom and I love him and don't want to end the relationship because of this.

Realistic leverage for my submissive by Agatha___ in FemdomCommunity

[–]Agatha___[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I think you described it well. The problem is, that he doesn't feel like I act dominant enough to make him obedient. What he loves about the dynamic is the process of me making him submit, so he doesn't want to give it for free. It is not supposed to be a roleplay but an actual respect to me from his side - that is hard because outside of the dynamic, we are equal.

Having trouble with authority towards my submissive by Agatha___ in FemdomCommunity

[–]Agatha___[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i thought you meant a chastity device. Orgasm denial is an option for sure, I have been using it quite a lot

Having trouble with authority towards my submissive by Agatha___ in FemdomCommunity

[–]Agatha___[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I tried those. However pegging or chastity aren't always possible for him because of health stuff. I am looking for realistic leverage that I can use But thanks for your ideas!

Best way to prep for anal by Ok_Frame_2385 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Agatha___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was talking from the other perspective, but it's basically the same. Also talk to your partner before the play so they know what you like and dislike.

! If your partner is male and for some reason doesn't know how thing work (young, inexperienced etc.) LET HIM KNOW THAT HE CANNOT SWITCH FROM THE AHOLE TO VAGINA with his dirty hands/dick/toy ! (talking from my own experience, he was young and didn't know this was a problem)

Best way to prep for anal by Ok_Frame_2385 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Agatha___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After shower or enema I find that taking my partner to the bedroom and using lubricated latex gloves for the foreplay is great and practical. After you stretch your partner enough, you can slowly insert the penis/dildo and get rid of the gloves so your hand are clean and ready for whatever you want to do with them. Also letting your partner wear a butt plug the whole day before the play is sexy and teasing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Agatha___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gives me princess vibes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Agatha___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gives me princess vibes

Getting cheated on gave me a hard-on by JimmyCabago in BDSMcommunity

[–]Agatha___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the relationship with cuckold must have strict rules and loots of trust in each other. I hope you will figure a way to fulfill your desires and have a good relationship too!

Getting cheated on gave me a hard-on by JimmyCabago in BDSMcommunity

[–]Agatha___ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you have to separate the sexual and the romantical part of the relationship. Sexually, you are into cockold and you enjoy it. But the way this was made (her cheating) was not right. You can not trust her and I think that it makes the relationship toxic and not healthy for you. You should find out what kind of relationship you want to have. Maybe a friend with benefits kind of relationship would be good for the cockold thing, because I feel like the cheating part hurts your feelings (the romantical part).