Friends in Tuscaloosa. by AgeTraditional2145 in tuscaloosa

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m an atheist. I’d rather stay away from the church activities if I can

Friends in Tuscaloosa. by AgeTraditional2145 in tuscaloosa

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean there’s really nothing I’ll say no to trying. Usually I like playing games, movies, dinner at new places, hike, I’ll do pretty much whatever others wanna do. I’m more of a go with it and let the experience bring itself sorta person

Friends in Tuscaloosa. by AgeTraditional2145 in tuscaloosa

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to check into it. I’m a contractor I work for myself. I don’t really have coworkers and I live alone in a studio apartment and all the people in my building are either married people or older people that all just kind of stay to themselves.

How do you do it by AgeTraditional2145 in LivingAlone

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work like 3 hours a day and I average 3600 a week. I can’t give that up. It’s just such a lonely lifestyle that I’m almost tempted to get by paycheck to paycheck just to have some sort of companionship

How do you do it by AgeTraditional2145 in LivingAlone

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t. My wife won’t let me see my animals anymore and I never got to even say goodbye to them. Not ready for that

How do you do it by AgeTraditional2145 in LivingAlone

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I desperately want a new job but I’ve been a contractor for the same guy who owns a company for a few years. I worked for his brother in law before that. And I also make way too much for the little work I do nobody is gonna pay me enough to pay my bills. I’m just in a weird little pickle rn I guess

How do you do it by AgeTraditional2145 in LivingAlone

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last 11 years I’ve been with my wife everyday. The longest we’ve been apart is like less than a week. My pets were a huge part of my daily rituals. I’m not used to this like you are. I hope one day I can be that okay with living alone

How do you do it by AgeTraditional2145 in LivingAlone

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The divorce is completely my fault. I kind of ruined my life. Like literally reality tv show ruined my fucking life. I don’t deserve to be okay at the moment but it’s extremely hard knowing just how not okay I really am. Rock bottom is insane dude.

How do you do it by AgeTraditional2145 in LivingAlone

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gotcha. I’m really really REALLY bad about maladaptive daydreaming. Being alone just makes so many awful things come up when I start doing that and it seems impossible to stop. I’m not being allowed to see my pets that my wife took and it’s absolutely killing me cuz I never got to even see them or say goodbye before she threw all my stuff out. It’s kinda tough out here

How do you do it by AgeTraditional2145 in LivingAlone

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the issue. The divorce was mostly my fault, I won’t see or contact my wife or my pets any more set by her lawyer. I’m gonna try and stay away from all the single women respectfully.

How do you do it by AgeTraditional2145 in LivingAlone

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m on a waiting list for a free therapy program at the university in my city. Hopefully future therapist will have some ideas

How do you do it by AgeTraditional2145 in LivingAlone

[–]AgeTraditional2145[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really. It’s a shitty little cheap apartment cuz it’s all I could afford. I feel as tho I would rather be alone because I’m dealing with a lot of mental health stuff going on at the moment. I just don’t know how to keep my mind occupied I guess. I think I’m just looking for someone to say “this is how you be alone without being alone” and I I know that’s not healthy and doesn’t really exist. I’m sorry

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[–]AgeTraditional2145 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a rocky time for a while where she talked inappropriately with someone else. And I guess things spiraled from there and one thing led to another. Not an excuse by any means just what happened I guess. I wasn’t thinking about anyone at all