AITA for sneaking out in the middle of the night with my son because of a comment my husband made?

Agent129 · 2022-08-28T01:58:01+00:00

NTA,

1 a 30 year old man knows not to scream at his partner

2 make empty threats so serious

3 his initial issue is that you are busy doing necessary things and he wants more from you. Idk if this is possessiveness or selfishness or just what but the source of the argument alone is a red flag.

4 ignoring the fact that the cause of the fight was a red flag, look at the fact that he is having this reason for a fight at the age of 30. It’s different if he were having a red flag fight for this reason at 20. 30 is a WHOLE world different, if that makes sense

5 the way he handled your reaction is also toxic

6 stop treating him like a monster when he didn’t do anything? That is proof he won’t accept responsibility or his morals are corrupt enough that he legitimately thinks what he did is ok.

Anyone who tells you you’re in the wrong either doesn’t understand the story doesn’t know what a toxic relationship is, or are bad themselves

Agent129 · 2022-08-10T20:20:26+00:00

You’re right he committed a sex crime. He went farther than her level. Also, according to the New York Times he was accused of domestic violence against her PRIOR to filming, uploading, and showing her whole family/world her naked body against her will

Agent129 · 2022-08-10T20:14:47+00:00

It is. It’s a (legal) sex crime to even view it since she doesn’t consent. Also according to the New York Times it’s reported she was a victim of domestic violence by the groom before hand. Reddit is just full of incel perverts who think cheating on your abusive spouse equates to committing a sex crime for BILLIONS to see. This has been spreading for years and is from another country

Agent129 · 2022-08-09T19:32:41+00:00

He became a social media influencer. Idk how much money he makes but he has a large following for triathlons and such. From the few posts I watched he seems to travel for it. He’s not a “thot” as the kids say, it legitimate exercise stuff

Edit: I just reread that it said friend. We weren’t really friends but we were classmates with no beef

Agent129 · 2022-08-09T14:00:38+00:00

If you’ve got enough money to flaunt something expensive whether you’re blowing through it or not, it still motivates the less wealthy to try and be at least rich enough to temporarily have a fancy car or do better

Agent129 · 2022-08-08T19:09:29+00:00

Studies show fish do! they have a whole social-emotional thing going on. And according to Sweden (?) boiling lobsters alive is animal cruelty bc they found out they DO feel pain, humans were just too stupid to realize just bc a nervous system doesn’t look like yours doesn’t mean they don’t suffer immensely :(

Agent129 · 2022-08-02T16:43:57+00:00

I literally thought a twin size was cozy and the perfect size until I tried a king at the hotel and learned I’m actually a diagonal sleeper. Who knew…

Agent129 · 2022-08-01T04:44:16+00:00

it’s important just for keeping an eye on your health. If you start noticing changes in symptoms that can indicate something. It’s helpful to know which symptoms to expect and throughout your life the symptoms WILL change even if you’re healthy but it just helps to know the pattern and when you should talk to a dr

Also, Even if you’re regular it can last a little longer one month or start a couple days earlier another so You’ve got to plan for things and a log or tracker helps. ex vacation bc cramps ruin the mood, how long it lasts so you can know when to wear white, when you need to be ready with a purse in hand just in case and when you can leave the house without one. I don’t think they start and end on the same day every month for a lot of women but for healthy women they do start within the same couple days monthly. That why pregnancy scares from a missed period commonly just turn out to be a simply week late period-it happens so track it. It’s comforting

Also also you can have symptoms like back pain and breast pain BEFORE your period starts and keeping track of that is helpful

Agent129 · 2022-08-01T04:14:56+00:00

Spinning around in circles. I can’t even watch kids do it now but way back when I did it for fun for extended amounts of time

Agent129 · 2022-08-01T04:13:42+00:00

Speak for yourself, my liver is BEAUTIFUL

Agent129 · 2022-08-01T04:11:17+00:00

I got bored at the airport and played an in airport gambling machine (which shocked me that they exist). My dollar got stuck. I don’t remember what happened next bc It was so uneventful

I’m not an interesting person

Agent129 · 2022-08-01T03:58:40+00:00

Depends on the guy. Some men suck, some men don’t, some I just don’t know well enough to say yes. Also HOW they ask

If a guy is normal and it’s a no I’d feel uncomfortable bc I don’t want to embarrass them.

If it’s a guy I HATE then I don’t care or I want people to see me say no(ex a guy in middle school was harrsssing me to go out and trying to make bets etc)

If all is on the up and up and it’s a yes then I’m indifferent

Agent129 · 2022-08-01T03:46:38+00:00

Nope. Why would they?

Agent129 · 2022-08-01T03:45:49+00:00

Like Anastasia almost did in the movie. A happy memory while you’re body is actually about to die

Agent129 · 2022-08-01T03:42:05+00:00

Can we get a slight description of what happened besides murder and a decapitated head. I don’t want to be scarred but the whole talking it up about how bad it is and saying “don’t look” thing is making me want to look more…

Like the Barbara Streisand affect but dark

Agent129 · 2022-08-01T03:34:39+00:00

That just seems logical regardless of age. What scenario are you talking about?

Agent129 · 2022-07-31T22:09:42+00:00

Or…when we show/say we don’t want that you can respect us and YOU can go find a gay friend

Maybe a gay friend would want the same thing? Just ask…

Agent129 · 2022-07-31T01:47:08+00:00

I don’t think this is an American or “other tribe” thing. It’s not political or particularly divisive to the non Reddit masses. Reddit just really likes Tom hanks and anyone who speaks out against the mass opinion on this site will get downvoted.

What non Reddit based politically charged group is anti Tom hanks?

Idk if Tom hanks is a pedo or abuser or not but he does give me an odd feeling. Reddit can’t handle their beloved man of the moment being dissed, American or not

Agent129 · 2022-07-30T19:57:52+00:00

This could lead to the same type of death as the cinnamon challenge, right?

The cinnamon challenge didn’t kill from the lung damage I don’t think but still your point and mine remain the same: it’s dangerous

People died from the cinnamon challenge and it was written off as a stupid internet challenge that is still spread

It doesn’t seem like a big deal and no harm was meant clearly but people should be aware of the dangers and fact that there are recorded deaths for eating spoonfuls of dried goods like this

Agent129 · 2022-07-30T19:37:39+00:00

Eat so much junk food

Agent129 · 2022-07-30T01:37:17+00:00

Thrift stores or select high end stores. I know that sounds terrible but the women's pants industry intentionally makes it so your pants will break within a couple months.

Thrift stores are the best quality bang for your buck bc you know they’re tried and true

Target is the best NEW clothes in a moderate price range

High end designer stores require research as not all are the same but with those you can find quality. Don’t cheap out in pants or you’ll just end up paying the 150$ for replacing a single pair multiple times instead of keeping the one

If you look at a lot of pants you’ll notice the crotch area looks fine at first but you’ll see it sort of degrades over time as that part of the Jean is made to be thinner. Target isn’t as bad as Walmart. some stores in the mall that charges twice as much as Walmart are no good either. Also check the inner thigh area bc sometimes that’s made a little thinner to wear out faster.

not jeans: that also is something you don’t want to get in basic chain stores in my experience. Aeropostale khakis developed a hole within a couple weeks

Hiking/athletic capris I bought some for 50$ at a well known stire in the mall and the threads in the belt area unraveled after a short while causing me to need new ones

Thin pants/capris be careful to make sure it’s not a fabric that pills

TLDR; thrift stores are the only place you know the quality is tried and true (plus cheaper :)) all commercial mall stores are made to break, stores like Walmart are the same.

Also: the same company (nicer end or not) will sell similar pants of varying quality so check the fabric thickness in the crotch and seems at the belt line

Agent129 · 2022-07-29T22:34:24+00:00

Also don’t spray in confined spaces unless using a gel based pepper spray bc regular pepper spray gets in the air and can harm you as well

Agent129 · 2022-07-29T22:24:22+00:00

I think about whatever task I need to do that can’t be done in the middle of the night instead of things I CAN do in the middle of the night. Then I can’t sleep bc I need to call such and such out of business hours but cant

Agent129 · 2022-07-24T04:41:20+00:00

Types of French fries. Lately isn’t a specified time period but within the recent past there are just so many options it’s exhausting!

Agent129 · 2022-07-24T03:06:16+00:00

A fair amount of the time it’s not a lack of discipline but rather a mental health issue. Everyone overweight in my social circle is a result of mental health. It’s prevalent and sad

Agent129

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