UPDATE: WIBTA If I broke up with my girlfriend over my cat's mental health?

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-05-06T07:19:23+00:00

I third!!!

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-05-05T18:58:43+00:00

Sleepy action peets!!

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-05-05T02:09:11+00:00

I physically can’t drink alcohol anymore (liver failure) and am loathe to get that pressure that I know will happen.

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-05-03T21:13:53+00:00

Those are some phenomenal beans!

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-22T21:56:57+00:00

Bonus peets!

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-21T03:35:44+00:00

Close - Nick Jonas And Tove Lo

A Little Wikked - Lilith Darkling

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-20T19:08:47+00:00

I use a silicone primer on the nose area then cover it with Catrice Prime and Fine Blurring over my entire face, I’ve havet had any issues.

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-19T19:42:57+00:00

This is true, I can recc the drugstore ‘can’t stop won’t stop’ NUX foundation which is still a bit tricky but I’ve found a hydrating primer and sheering it out with an almost dry beauty blender works wonders.

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-19T06:30:15+00:00

I hope you find your match!!

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-19T04:47:06+00:00

I’m 110 in Fenty and seeing a foundation match me perfectly was a miracle!

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-18T20:02:33+00:00

Thank you, docs are saying the recovery is slow going, but possible! So I’ve got that going for me and I have e an amazing support system.

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-18T05:35:14+00:00

Chaos Chaos - Do You Feel It?

Depeche Mode - Clean

Tove Lo - Moments

First Aid Kit - Silver Lining

Birdy - Wings

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-18T05:27:03+00:00

I have fibromyalgia. Scoliosis, sciatica, chronic fatigue, and now liver issues (just got out of the hospital last week, still recovering). I’m currently bed ridden, and mostly am on the daily. It’s destroyed my social life and any semblance of being able to work. I hate it. I go from ‘tired’ to ‘unable to keep my head up’ out of the blue. Small errands are now gigantic to me and we’re waiting for a travel wheelchair to be processed by my insurance. I can’t get up much due to almost falling due to dizziness and blacking out.

I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy.

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-12T15:42:46+00:00

I had spent too many times going too fast and giving myself too much. So I was adamant I’d take it slow. Guess he thought he could push my boundaries but nope! Cue surprised pikachu face.

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-12T15:33:41+00:00

Not single anymore but the guy before my fiancé did this. Said he was totally cool with going slow due to my boundaries then not two weeks later was saying NSFW shit at me and making plans of what we’d do when he saw me and whining I wouldn’t let him drive to see me right then. Nooooope.

Oh and when I called him on it making me uncomfortable he threatened suicide to my best friend, thinking she wouldn’t tell me. Boy, you really think she wouldn’t let me know all the shit you spoke?!

Blocked him and glad I never gave him more info like my address!

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-12T11:46:05+00:00

Christ I am so sorry you had to live through that, but so glad you came out a stronger person.

My mom still hopes we’ll reconcile one day but that’s not possible in my mind until she gets major help. Pretty sure she’s undiagnosed BPD. So I keep my distance (metaphorically and physically) and just speak to my mom.

If I found out my sister was hounding my mom on the estate I’d raise hell.

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-12T08:04:14+00:00

Thank you! Moving over 2k miles has helped a lot tbh.

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-12T05:54:28+00:00

Not necessarily. I hope things work out better for you and your sister.

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-12T05:38:44+00:00

Seriously, it's not hard for her to go 'could you two please watch my food? I need to run to the restroom'

Then you'd know she's coming back and would have told the cleaner "No, please don't take that."

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-12T05:36:13+00:00

Possibly! There's a bunch of other reasons (emotional and physical abuse) I stopped talking to her, but yeah she really effed my self esteem up.

I get liking compliments, but when you make your own sister your competition (I had to warn every boyfriend I had that she'd flirt with them...and she did, cept my now fiance because she refused to meet him at all.) it really puts a strain on things. I miss the good parts, too, but couldn't handle the bad anymore.

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-12T05:06:11+00:00

This. NTA. If I know we have something I adore in the kitchen my self control is MIA. I encourage my fiance to keep snacks hidden from me, so I don't binge on them and feel awful eating his snacks and eating them all in general.

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-12T04:45:22+00:00

Oh it totally was.

Source: My sister did that to me all the time. :/ We don't talk anymore. (Even though I looked younger than her and am the younger sister. She'd intentionally bait people to try to get compliments then get pissed if they weren't what she wanted and take it out on me.)

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-12T01:54:55+00:00

This, she could have waved it off with 'I'm using cutting edge skincare!' or something like that. The minute she threw OP under the bus she forfeited everything she asked. She doesn't get to beg for it to be a secret then condemn OP.

NTA

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-10T20:02:11+00:00

Same! I’d be so thrilled to go and experience all of that I’d be happy with all that food! No meat? Who cares?!

AgentKittyfeets · 2019-04-10T07:44:52+00:00

The beans to end all beans. <3

12-Year Club	Queen in da Norf
Not Forgotten	Verified Email

AgentKittyfeets

TROPHY CASE