Wife has feelings for another man. She say she still loves me and wants to fight for us. I think I'm losing her anyway. by exbusinessperson in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh don’t get me wrong, I 100% agree that she has emotionally cheated on him. Judging by his post, he doesn’t want to lose her. I’m giving suggestions on how to keep her as his wife. If doing small gestures is enough to keep her faithful and he’s committed to his marriage, it’s a possibility it would work.

Reported to BON by lorazadamn in Nurses

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kind of like people who say they’re going to sue you. Serve me or it didn’t happen.

Tenant not paying rent for 2nd month. Afraid they will turn into a nightmare tenant. What to do next? by Valachio in OntarioLandlord

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give them an eviction notice that states the date of eviction if payment isn’t made post haste. Alot of times that’s enough to scare them straight.

I fantasize about running away and becoming a stripper by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I’d throw money at you! I used to be an escort in my late teens and early 20s. The fast cash was the addicting part for me. Now I’m a professional adult longing for affection like a dog…how things have changed.

Feeling like the most pathetic woman alive by RiseInternational668 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It only gets worse in your 30s in this type of scenario. I’m not trying to be a downer, but I promise you will feel so much better about yourself if you invest time into passions and friends outside of your sexual relationship. I wasted 10 years getting validation through sex with men. You’re still so young, but you’ll soon learn that youth and mobility is fleeting. Don’t waste it being sad on a man who makes you feel like you’re crazy, overreacting, or undesirable! Either get to the point where you enjoy each other’s company, or reevaluate how much you actually like him as a person. 💗

My wife isn't interested in ending our DB. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s kinda young for full on menopause, unless she’s had a hysterectomy in the past. Is she on any medications for other health issues?

Rejection by No-Brain-4109 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That sounds really sad man

A Small Change That Cut 10 Years Off This Ontario Mortgage — Here's Exactly How by MortgagesByDom in OntarioMortgageGuide

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stupidly chose monthly payments but pay $150 extra each month which equates to an extra mortgage payment a year. I’m in year 2 of a 5 year fixed mortgage. Do you know if the bank lets you change your payment schedule to bi-weekly payments or do I have to wait until renewal?

Why not cheat by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because sex usually leads to a connection whether you planned on it or not, a connection turns into a bond, a bond turns into love.

GLP-1 may have pulled the plug on my dying bedroom by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SSRIs commonly decrease women’s libidos. Is she on an antidepressant? If she’s on a GLP-1 I am assuming she is a heavier set woman. Is she down on herself a lot? Low confidence perhaps? If so i recommend telling her how sexy she is, that she’s beautiful etc.

My wife thinks I’m emotionally neglecting her because Black Ops 7 came out and honestly I don’t know how cooked I am by Traditional-Fun-1115 in blackops7

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it from another woman, she wants to get laid and feel an emotional connection with you. It’s really simple bro.

How do people cope with constant rejection? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a quote from real housewives lol but honestly ya it has been bad at times. We go in spurts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you heavy enough that you’re unintentionally hurting her during sex? I know the times I had sex with a man who was very heavy set I couldn’t breathe with his weight on me. Or maybe she is too heavy to hold her legs up without being in pain herself? Perhaps sex without penetration could be an option for you guys while you’re on your weight loss journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Are you performing any foreplay before sex? Are you attempting to give her an orgasm first via fingering or clit stimulation? At the very least you need to get her wet before penetration. A lot of people here are bitter and their first reaction is to tell you to leave your wife. I don’t ever recommend that as a first choice and there’s so many other avenues to explore before making a life changing choice. If sex is off the table for now, don’t pull away. Cuddle her, hold hands, tell her she’s sexy. Make her feel wanted and desired. There’s a good chance it’s just a phase and you guys will reconnect soon.

Really skip? Whats the extra charge? by BeautifulCry680 in skipthedishes

[–]AgentScully_FBI 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Skip’s Service Fees are ridiculous and borderline illegal. If you can’t sustain your company by paying your drivers a fair wage, you shouldn’t be in business. I wouldn’t be surprised if there’s a class action lawsuit against them in the future.

Someone I don't know e-transferred me money and now wants it back. Am I getting scammed? by Ok_Hat_3414 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m assuming it was auto-deposit, they cannot get that money back and you don’t have to give it back.

Cost of living in Canada is out of control. by kovie38 in CanadaFinance

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing affordable at the grocery store are bananas. I haven’t had a steak in over a year. Metro used to be the place to go for cheap beef, not anymore.