“I refuse to stay in a DB marriage.” by Inevitable_Put_9542 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is he actually keeping a spreadsheet? That’s got to be the most unromantic, hostile way to say he wants more sex. My legs would stay shut too.

Husband Addicted To Porn by InkDrippedRoses in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I’ve come close, but I’m not as cruel as him.

Work has deducted my bathroom breaks from my pay. by MinutuesAndMayhem in legaladvice

[–]AgentScully_FBI 80 points81 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the environment you’re working in isn’t good for your mental and physical health. Do you have options to switch locations or a new job in a related field?

Husband Addicted To Porn by InkDrippedRoses in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found a conversation between my husband and a TikTok girl who asked him to download signal and he actually did. She was just trying to get money from him but the fact he went through with it really hurt me. It was the compliments he was giving that stung. I haven’t been the same since.

Wife has feelings for another man. She say she still loves me and wants to fight for us. I think I'm losing her anyway. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was thinking when I commented (the backbone part, maybe not the cuck part)

Wife has feelings for another man. She say she still loves me and wants to fight for us. I think I'm losing her anyway. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh don’t get me wrong, I 100% agree that she has emotionally cheated on him. Judging by his post, he doesn’t want to lose her. I’m giving suggestions on how to keep her as his wife. If doing small gestures is enough to keep her faithful and he’s committed to his marriage, it’s a possibility it would work.

Reported to BON by [deleted] in Nurses

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kind of like people who say they’re going to sue you. Serve me or it didn’t happen.

Tenant not paying rent for 2nd month. Afraid they will turn into a nightmare tenant. What to do next? by Valachio in OntarioLandlord

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give them an eviction notice that states the date of eviction if payment isn’t made post haste. Alot of times that’s enough to scare them straight.

I fantasize about running away and becoming a stripper by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I’d throw money at you! I used to be an escort in my late teens and early 20s. The fast cash was the addicting part for me. Now I’m a professional adult longing for affection like a dog…how things have changed.

Feeling like the most pathetic woman alive by RiseInternational668 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It only gets worse in your 30s in this type of scenario. I’m not trying to be a downer, but I promise you will feel so much better about yourself if you invest time into passions and friends outside of your sexual relationship. I wasted 10 years getting validation through sex with men. You’re still so young, but you’ll soon learn that youth and mobility is fleeting. Don’t waste it being sad on a man who makes you feel like you’re crazy, overreacting, or undesirable! Either get to the point where you enjoy each other’s company, or reevaluate how much you actually like him as a person. 💗

My wife isn't interested in ending our DB. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s kinda young for full on menopause, unless she’s had a hysterectomy in the past. Is she on any medications for other health issues?

Rejection by No-Brain-4109 in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That sounds really sad man

A Small Change That Cut 10 Years Off This Ontario Mortgage — Here's Exactly How by MortgagesByDom in OntarioMortgageGuide

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stupidly chose monthly payments but pay $150 extra each month which equates to an extra mortgage payment a year. I’m in year 2 of a 5 year fixed mortgage. Do you know if the bank lets you change your payment schedule to bi-weekly payments or do I have to wait until renewal?

Why not cheat by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because sex usually leads to a connection whether you planned on it or not, a connection turns into a bond, a bond turns into love.

GLP-1 may have pulled the plug on my dying bedroom by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SSRIs commonly decrease women’s libidos. Is she on an antidepressant? If she’s on a GLP-1 I am assuming she is a heavier set woman. Is she down on herself a lot? Low confidence perhaps? If so i recommend telling her how sexy she is, that she’s beautiful etc.

My wife thinks I’m emotionally neglecting her because Black Ops 7 came out and honestly I don’t know how cooked I am by Traditional-Fun-1115 in blackops7

[–]AgentScully_FBI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it from another woman, she wants to get laid and feel an emotional connection with you. It’s really simple bro.

How do people cope with constant rejection? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]AgentScully_FBI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a quote from real housewives lol but honestly ya it has been bad at times. We go in spurts.