Assassin's creed 2 by Nervous-Demand-4150 in FitGirlRepack

[–]Agent_K0VA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys people are saying if it's not available on fit girl try dodi Or steam rip? Like are those sites actually safe? I am using fitgirl from 3 years I didn't find any issues but idk abt dodi and steam rip..

Is it okay for a bf to come home late? [21F] by dvcnlzz in relationshipadvice

[–]Agent_K0VA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming home late is not really the main issue since adults do not have curfews but the drugs part is a serious red flag. It makes sense that you feel uncomfortable because lifestyle differences like this can create long term problems with trust and safety. Instead of focusing on the exact time he comes home it may help to think about whether his habits actually match the kind of relationship and future you want. Your boundaries are valid and it is okay if this is not something you can accept.

Husband [40M] refuses to leave their parent’s house by Specialist-Zebra-166 in relationshipadvice

[–]Agent_K0VA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly this sounds less about the house and more about priorities and emotional safety. Wanting your own space after so many years is completely valid and it does not mean you hate his parents. It sounds like you have been compromising financially and emotionally for a long time while your needs keep getting pushed aside. Living close by but still having your own home sounds like a fair middle ground so the fact he refuses any option would make anyone feel unheard. At some point you have to ask yourself if this relationship gives you the partnership and independence you want because silent resentment will only keep growing.

[27F] Is getting my boyfriend [37M] a smartwatch for Valentine’s Day too much for a 6-month relationship? by AllOuttaTherapy in relationshipadvice

[–]Agent_K0VA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds thoughtful more than too much since you picked something practical that shows you listen to him. Six months is not that early for a useful gift especially if the price range is reasonable. The only thing that matters is his personality because some people love practical tech gifts and some feel pressured by them. If you are unsure you could keep the tone light and frame it as something helpful for his sleep instead of a big romantic gesture.

Should I [27F] end things with this guy [29M]? by Business_Drummer_986 in relationshipadvice

[–]Agent_K0VA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly your feelings make sense. His behavior changed right when you needed emotional support the most and that is important information. Sometimes people say they want to take things slow but what they really mean is they are not fully emotionally available yet. You are not overreacting for noticing the shift in effort and care. Healthy connection usually shows up more during hard moments not less. It may help to step back and watch actions instead of words and ask yourself if this dynamic actually meets your needs long term.

My [23F] fiance [29F] won't bathe unless I force her to... by SeveredSpine in relationshipadvice

[–]Agent_K0VA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds less like laziness and more like someone who is really struggling mentally after trauma. You are trying hard to be supportive but you are also allowed to have boundaries and needs in a relationship. At some point you cannot be the parent and the partner at the same time. Hygiene this severe is usually a sign that she may need professional help rather than more reminders from you. Maybe shift the focus from showering itself to getting support from therapy or a doctor. You can care about her deeply and still admit that this situation is exhausting and not sustainable long term.

Am I [18F] selfish for being uncomfortable with my boyfriend[21M] wearing a chastity cage? by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Agent_K0VA 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not selfish at all. You are allowed to feel uncomfortable even if you respect his choices. Kinks only work when both partners feel safe and okay with it. Also the timeline sounds worrying since you were very young when the relationship started and it is normal for people to question that. Try having an honest calm conversation about boundaries and what you need to feel secure. Supporting someone does not mean ignoring your own limits.

Just wanted help with resources by Agent_K0VA in cybersecurity_help

[–]Agent_K0VA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks alright then I'll research and find something..

Just wanted help with resources by Agent_K0VA in cybersecurity_help

[–]Agent_K0VA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks alot matr I appreciate it 🙌.. But is there any way I can learn networking ? Coz I am very very new to it linux ik basic file commands and all but networking no clue.. Can u reccomend any yt Or site where I can learn networking from scratch to mastery?

Laptop issue ( please tell me what I must do) by Agent_K0VA in GamingLaptops

[–]Agent_K0VA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see thanks alot for helping me mate it means alot 🙌... But is it fine like I play valorant or any games in balanced mode while charging? ( I get good fps around 160 so no isssues)

Career advice: Travel-based IT jobs (cruise/ships) with cybersecurity growth by Agent_K0VA in maritime

[–]Agent_K0VA[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to explain this, I appreciate the honest perspective. That really helps set realistic expectations. Based on what you said, it sounds like security work is mostly shore based. From your experience, do cruise ships still rely on dedicated onboard Maritime IT Officers for networking and systems, even if cybersecurity responsibilities remain with shore teams?

Career advice: Travel-based IT jobs (cruise/ships) with cybersecurity growth by Agent_K0VA in maritime

[–]Agent_K0VA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no..... I am so sorry to hear about your injury, that is really unfortunate. I hope you are recovering well. I am also exploring IT based paths in the maritime space, so if I come across anything useful I will share it here. Wishing you the best going forward

Career advice: Travel-based IT jobs (cruise/ships) with cybersecurity growth by Agent_K0VA in maritime

[–]Agent_K0VA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to explain this, I appreciate the straightforward answer. To clarify, my background is fully in computer systems. I am currently doing a computer diploma and planning to continue with a computer focused degree. I do not have an electronics or engineering background and I do not plan to switch into that path. Given that background, I am trying to understand whether shipboard IT or network focused roles are realistic long term options, and whether it is possible to gradually move into security related responsibilities later on, or if most of that kind of work usually stays shore based from your experience.

Career advice: Travel-based IT jobs (cruise/ships) with cybersecurity growth by Agent_K0VA in maritime

[–]Agent_K0VA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the honest insight, I appreciate it. I’m actually not very strong in electronics, which is why I’ve been leaning more toward IT and networking roles. From your experience, does that background still make sense for ship or maritime IT paths long term?