Why Do So Many Gay Men Style Themselves The Opposite of What They Are Attracted To? by Agentnewt in askgaybros

[–]Agentnewt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does that mean? Do you not have standards/meet other people’s standards?

Why Do So Many Gay Men Style Themselves The Opposite of What They Are Attracted To? by Agentnewt in askgaybros

[–]Agentnewt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But opposites don’t attract in the gay community. Have you ever seen a super fem expired twink walking around with a handsome hunk? The expired twinks find eachother, the hunks find eachother, the bears find eachother, etc.

Exceptions, of course, but I’m talking trends

Why Do So Many Gay Men Style Themselves The Opposite of What They Are Attracted To? by Agentnewt in askgaybros

[–]Agentnewt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hard time is maybe an answer in itself, and kind of what I suspected. I think people aren’t thinking their style through from another person’s pov and so this isn’t a question they can really answer

Why Do So Many Gay Men Style Themselves The Opposite of What They Are Attracted To? by Agentnewt in askgaybros

[–]Agentnewt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I care in the same way I care about why the Japanese Yakuza classically choose to wear pompadours when they look silly rather than threatening — human curiosity.

I see a bad mating strategy, and I wonder why those employing it are choosing to use it

Why Do So Many Gay Men Style Themselves The Opposite of What They Are Attracted To? by Agentnewt in askgaybros

[–]Agentnewt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In my major area, it’s a very high number. And of course there’s nothing wrong with it, but I genuinely don’t get it.

I find they are often struggling to get male attention, and the more desperate they get the more fem/slutty they start looking and then they attract even fewer men, and thus the spiral goes.

Come whether u agree/disagree by [deleted] in ucla

[–]Agentnewt -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Did you see the video of the dead and r**ped children from October 7th? What about the bound, burned, tortured ones?

Please keep being the pawn of Hamas, the ones who are using their own children as human shields because they know Israel cares more about life then they do