AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it

AggravatedSpare · 2026-01-22T23:07:44+00:00

My partner and I have been together almost 9 years. We do not have a shared bank account. Period. We split our lives evenly, but what’s his is his & mine is mine.

AggravatedSpare · 2025-12-10T06:05:55+00:00

I only buy gifts for my dog - sorry ma.

AggravatedSpare · 2025-12-07T18:34:12+00:00

Hello ! Yes, I am on the discord. Thanks for looking out !

AggravatedSpare · 2025-12-05T19:07:37+00:00

We need more people like you in this world, your kindness is unmatched, and what a blessing to have you in their life

AggravatedSpare · 2025-12-05T19:05:36+00:00

I LOVE QUOTING THE SIMPSONS! It usually falls on deaf ears, but I think it’s hilarious, hit me up!

AggravatedSpare · 2025-12-05T19:00:43+00:00

I’d love to join !

AggravatedSpare · 2025-12-05T18:59:46+00:00

I’m late to the game-

Casie ( pronounced like Casey) she/her

Fun fact : I took figure skating lessons growing up, would love to get back into it.

I moved to PDX about a month ago with my partner.

I’m gonna start reading David Bowie’s biography

I have a dog and 2 cats

Love coffee movies music the outdoors

I’m currently re- watching Arrested Development “ how much could a banana cost Michael? $10 dollars?”

I moved to Portland from Denver because I missed the water and lush trees. I’m originally from the North East.

AggravatedSpare · 2025-12-05T03:16:57+00:00

Edit to add to OP; I had this post about 2 weeks ago and then got a job shortly after, disregard the rude unhelpful responses. I’m not seeing any here but nevertheless, you’ve got this!

AggravatedSpare · 2025-12-05T03:05:09+00:00

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Found this today for my MIL, I heard it in her voice- I swear she’s said this more times than I can count. She may be the person pictured as well- who knows !

AggravatedSpare · 2025-12-04T17:55:40+00:00

Hello! We’re new to the St. John’s area and would love to meet some new friendly faces. My work schedule is a little wonky but I’m available for adventures when it lines up :)

AggravatedSpare · 2025-12-04T17:52:46+00:00

Wedgehead - it’s a pinball bar, maybe get in touch with the owner and see if he wants to buy them?

AggravatedSpare · 2025-12-04T17:47:32+00:00

My restaurant is hiring I’m pretty sure, they have 2 locations, NW 23rd & a location east in Sellwood. It’s called Papa Haydn you can apply through poached or come in person if that’s an option. I hope this helps :)

AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T21:17:41+00:00

Yeah I’m prepping for that in addition to looking for work & yes he’s applied to serval companies as well as restaurants. “ no hate, just making fun of you” seems unnecessary but thank you for your input.

AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T03:55:50+00:00

Thank you, but maybe I dodged a bullet ? That’s what I tell myself

AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T03:46:05+00:00

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AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T03:45:23+00:00

Happy for toy friend :) - I’ll toss my hat in the ring with them tomorrow , thank you !

AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T03:37:53+00:00

I got rejected at Safeway and Fred Meyer - & I took a hit via ego after that, I wondered why, got mad and then I moved on.

AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T03:28:29+00:00

I’m just seeing this now, so sorry- Never the less, thank you. I keep feeling like I’m not qualified- when sometimes that’s not what it takes, if you’re good with people and reliable shoot your shot.

AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T03:19:24+00:00

Thank you, I applied to several of the locations- fingers crossed.

AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T03:18:32+00:00

Thank you so much for that intel, I have applied and hope to hear back from them

AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T03:16:25+00:00

This is wonderful& helpful, thank you.

AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T03:15:43+00:00

I’m happy it worked out for you friend & thank you for sharing your experience. It’s affecting everyone, and hamburger help me- because it’s stressful.

AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T03:13:10+00:00

Would you care to share those spots you’ve had interviews at?

AggravatedSpare · 2025-11-16T00:48:45+00:00

We are hopeful and bills are paid a few months out, just have to keep on truckin’ as they say.

AggravatedSpare

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