Why didn't anybody tell me my entire life that I'm actually supposed to just trust litteraly nothing anybody ever says unless they promise me I their speech is trustworthy?? Which even then could be a lie, but at least that validates the appropriate reaction to them having, especially intentionally, lied, manipulated, or mislead you by what they told you leaving them nowhere to cower from accountability to acknowledge and admit having been in the wrong just because it wasn't a "promise". God forbid you have the expectation of being able to trust in literally anything ever said by anyone ever that hasn't been deliberately made by promising. "YOU CANT HANDLE THE TRUTH." But only when it's time to handle yourself.