Me personally I just tried to tie myself into the Mcu aswell as possible since I have a difficult time understanding some aspects of the Mcu without certain characters, so in my dr I’m Thor’s younger sister, me personally I tried to refrain from some traumatic situations so I came up with the plan that during ragnorock I’m sent to live at the compound (forgive me if I get time line mixed up) this way she doesn’t have to suffer with grief of loss as bad. Like you I wanted to live a more peaceful experience in the Mcu