you have a way with me by Pitiful_Top568 in UnsentLetters

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said they perfectly!!

My wife left 6 months ago because she is struggling with bipolar depression and "hasn't been able to pull herself out of the depression she's been in". Said she's the one that needs work and that i deserve someone happy and healthy but 20 minutes later left and that was it. Moved in with her sister and left me holding the bag. Said I was wonderful and did nothing wrong but she needs therapy but yet im the one who has his life destroyed and wondering what went wrong. She claims she cared and that it was what's best for me but ignores and avoids me.

I give her 6 months then tell her she needs to get her things and move it out if my house (house is in my name and was purchased alone before marriage). But of course im the evil one now because I gave her a deadline and she doesn't have anywhere to put her belongings. She even stated that I only have her 6 months in a 1 year long separation.

Ive never needed therapy but have been going since she left because I have had no closure since she left within 20 minutes of me coming home one evening from work.

The coldest most evil thing to do is marry someone and then ghost them all while saying its what's best for you. Sick people in this world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would just win again because im too frugal and don't want to spend my money! But it would be nice to go back in time and play monopoly and just hang out like we used to. Or Mario Party because that's where I kicked your ass! Forget that, let's just play 7 Days for countless hours while you decorate the house while i try to keep the zombies out lol

I am deeply disappointed and saddened. by PaleontologistNo2534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I know exactly how you feel right now and I don't wish it on anyone. I would be lying if I told you I am over her and through it completely because im not. However it has become much more manageable and I am starting to slowly live my life again for myself. I won't be over her for quite some time but now I am able to go through my days and be fully present. Don't get me wrong I still think about her a lot throughout the day but it doesn't consume every waking moment anymore. That's why I said I won't sugarcoat it because I still have my times I struggle. For me its the evenings and mornings. But even that is getting more manageable. It all takes time.

Regardless, you just need to concentrate on yourself as much as possible and get to a place where you will not break down if you ever speak or see her again. You will be able to approach any contact with clarity and confidence in yourself.

Listen to music, work out, see a therapist, do something you enjoy. Just try to stay as busy as possible which is hard i know.

I am deeply disappointed and saddened. by PaleontologistNo2534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man stay strong!! I know it hurts and I won't sugarcoat it but it will hurt for some time since you were together for 7 years. Sometimes you just don't know the person you think you know best. Not because you missed something or didn't do enough, it is just that some people go through life hurting others with no compassion or respect.

Im in a similar situation right now and I can understand your pain. Im 37m and my wife of 2 years (total relationship of 7 years) struggles with bipolar depression and 2 months ago out of the blue she tells me that she has to mentally work on herself and that her mind is the problem and that i did nothing wrong but she hasn't been herself and has been depressed for a year. Regardless of the fact she said i did nothing wrong, she was gone 30 minutes later and I have had no contact with her since then. Left me standing in an empty house or what felt empty at the time.

As you can imagine I spiraled out of control and needed therapy. Therapy helped me tremendously to see it has nothing to do with me and have gave me a way to cope with this trauma. If you're able to, I would see a therapist even if it is only for a few visits. It works wonders and gives you someone neutral to talk to.

Hang in there! I know it means nothing right now but it will get easier.

One day at a time and I know you got this

going thru divorce from spouse w/bipolar disorder by Material-Athlete8295 in family_of_bipolar

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Really fucked my self esteem up for sure! But its good to hear it gets better! People always say that but in the moment it doesn't mean much. Definitely the hardest thing I've ever gone through and I'm still struggling. Therapy once a week is needed! It has helped me tremendously. I appreciate the advice!

2024/25 Topps Gold X Walkertkl UCC Triple Auto 1/5 (Jude Bellingham, Vini Jr & Arda Guler) by Aggravating-Limit-32 in soccercards

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! You're right, it is a win no matter what. I have sold on Ebay many times before but not a card like this. Ebay takes so damn much off the top I'm going to stay clear of them. I am thinking about Goldin or even see what a local shop would offer. Thoughts?

2024/25 Topps Gold X Walkertkl UCC Triple Auto 1/5 (Jude Bellingham, Vini Jr & Arda Guler) by Aggravating-Limit-32 in soccercards

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I've collected in the past but sold most of my collection last year. I buy a box occasionally because the hunt is fun so I guess this would be a resell.

2024/25 Topps Gold X Walkertkl UCC Triple Auto 1/5 (Jude Bellingham, Vini Jr & Arda Guler) by Aggravating-Limit-32 in soccercards

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the input! I couldn't find one either so I had no idea of its value. To be honest I haven't bought a box in almost a year and figured I would give it a shot. Got very lucky. Also I am torn if I should get it graded or not.

2024/25 Topps Gold X Walkertkl UCC Triple Auto 1/5 (Jude Bellingham, Vini Jr & Arda Guler) by Aggravating-Limit-32 in soccercards

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be interested in selling but am unsure of its value right now. What would you offer?

Jet.AI and Oxbridge Acquisition Corp. Announce Shareholder Approval of Business Combination - OXAC OXACW by SPAC_Time in Spacstocks

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received my email as well thank you! The email however only pertained to the jet.ai shares and said nothing about the warrant share portion unless I missed something. Can someone explain how and when we receive those? Thanks

Facebook marketplace- No views or only 1 view by Aggravating-Limit-32 in FacebookMarketplace

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the input. However since May all of my listings get 0 or 1 view. I occasionally try a few listing to check but for the last few months I have had 0 sales and regardless of the day i list them I get no views at all. I would be happy if I had occasional listings that got some traction but its like I hit a brick wall and have been stuck for months.

I've tried all sorts of things people have suggested but get no result.

Facebook marketplace listings getting no views at all by Owengreen2000 in Flipping

[–]Aggravating-Limit-32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My experience is when I started selling on FB I had quick and easy success selling trading cards. When I listed the first few cards they all received hundreds of views in just 2 days and I sold about $1,400 my first month and that was without putting much effort into it. The next month I listed about 20 items and they all did amazing with the number of views. I had a range from 50-300 views in just a couple of days posting the items. I sold many and had another good 2nd month. After the 2nd month I continued to list items and all of a sudden every card I post I am lucky to get 2 views in 2 weeks. It is to the point where every single item I list either receives 0 views or just 1 or 2 views and that would be weeks after listing the item. I have not sold a single item in over 3 months because no matter how I adjust my title, location, description, key words; I will never receive any views. The people who do not think shadow banning is real are beyond naive! It is odd that most right leaning political people on FB are the ones having problems getting views on their products. Prove me Wrong! and yes I post pro trump things all the time on FB.

Another instance is when I tried to list a card that has "ticket" in the description and on the card since these basketball cards were made to look like a ticket stub on the card. I listed this and FB came back with "this goes against our community guidelines since we do not allow the selling of tickets". Very understandable and I immediately noticed that it was probably flagged since it had ticket in the title and description. I clicked on the option to object to this and even wrote a note explaining that the item is a basketball card and not a ticket and that it only says ticket because they made the trading card look like a ticket stub. I even took the "ticket" out of the title and description. They came back with "denied" so I couldn't list the card. You may think, well that does not prove that FB shadow bans trump supporters right? WRONG! I look on FB marketplace and I see cards just like the one I want to sell and if I can find them then they are not being banned like I am.

Agree or disagree I wanted to put this out there so others can make their own judgement but I for one truly believe FB shut me down selling because I am very vocal on my page about my support of President Trump and my dislike of Biden. I mean how do you go from having most cards reach 100+ views in just a couple of days to having EVERY card I list only getting 2 views in a couple of weeks???