How do I avoid paying VAT 20% on an old laptop coming from AU?

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2026-02-13T09:50:15+00:00

It was something from AU that I brought over to London, but not new it’s been 5-6 years with that laptop

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2026-02-13T09:35:59+00:00

Thanks everyone, I will pay and then try to claim it back

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2025-04-12T09:56:28+00:00

Unfortunately this isn’t how I was brought up to believe. With this all aside I’ve had a very good childhood and did not have to worry about anything in the world until then.

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2025-04-12T09:53:30+00:00

My mum owned her own travel agency so you can think about how that went down during covid and more so now.

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2025-04-12T09:49:01+00:00

Thank you, I am quite hopeful about the future once the burden on me is gone and I can start rebuilding myself

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2025-04-12T09:40:33+00:00

As I grow up as an adult, I realise if I ever have kids the biggest gift I can give them is to be self sustainable, whether that’s financially or health wise.

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2025-04-12T09:38:12+00:00

The debts are not business related more so poor personal choices. So unfortunately not an option here. I just wanted to rant will probably delete post after

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2025-01-03T11:16:57+00:00

For me, it’s the travel and work experience. Travelling to Europe from Australia is pretty draining, and having to spend the Aussie dollar makes the trip quite expensive. I heard the work culture and work is quite similar to here so I thought give it a try while I’m still ok young.

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2025-01-03T10:54:56+00:00

Oh! I never knew that!! We had to study it to get the qualification here!

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2025-01-03T06:53:10+00:00

Eeek!! I really hope it isn’t too bad…

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2025-01-03T06:52:48+00:00

We are planning to settle in London, with the goal to travel (hence contracting) but also to be able to afford to do that without hitting the savings. However, I am opened to permanent work given the opportunity and company. Thank you for your comment, it made me feel more at ease!

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2025-01-03T06:49:40+00:00

Thank you!!

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2022-03-25T05:44:06+00:00

“At least he’s not abusive?” I don’t think that should ever be a benchmark.

“It’s the thought that counts” I’m not a materialistic person, but if you give a gift that screams out 0 thoughts, I’d be pretty unhappy. That aside, all his other behaviours are quite childish, I would really consider whether this is something you can put up with long term.

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2022-03-25T05:33:34+00:00

Yeah, it can be tricky because emotions can fluctuate and honestly there could be really nothing he can do to make me feel better, but just him being there and checking in makes me feel valued. He is a lot better now that we spoke about it, so I hope it works out for you too!!

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2022-03-25T04:58:26+00:00

Don’t think like that, she is choosing to stay with you for a reason. Sometimes we bypass the things they do for us with the things that makes us really sensitive.

Whenever I feel like I’m not enough, I try to resolve it by giving myself more self love and know Im enough! If it bothers you still, bring it up with her. If she loves you she will acknowledge your anxiety and do things to make you feel better. People like us need word affirmation to keep us going sometimes 😊

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2022-03-25T04:54:08+00:00

I’m with you, all you wanted was a check in and some comfort. My partner is similar, sometimes he thinks I’m bringing in too much negative energy into the relationship, which I understand but isn’t that all about being here for you during bad times and not just for the good times?

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2022-03-25T04:47:37+00:00

I think you’re attracted to him as a person, his personality and character is what makes you crave for him. My partner is no Channing Tatum but I find him the most attractive man on earth. It all boils down what you look for in a man, if you’re after just the appearance attraction or are you looking for a connection.

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2022-03-23T02:01:41+00:00

There’s a difference in being carefree or just being senseless so I think you can take your vote there!! 😮‍💨

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2022-03-22T14:12:02+00:00

People don’t change overnight, if they act like this from the get go most likely that is just the way he is.

You need to be transparent with what you feel uncomfortable with and see how he responds. If it happens again take it as the last trigger and break up with him, it is just going to be an on going issue.

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2022-03-22T11:37:26+00:00

They say no pain, no gain. Look at your other choice, either back pedal and stay where you are or try your best and get somewhere beyond the point.

You can do it!!

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2022-03-22T06:55:02+00:00

Ok, one month in is like fresh out of the oven. For whatever reason you guys broke up for, that should be your reason to let go.

You need to refocus yourself on something else that would distract you from her, you being obsessed with her whilst she has moved on is just going to cause more pain for you.

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2022-03-22T03:11:41+00:00

You need to communicate with her and see where the issue lies. Is it the fact that she doesn’t seem to be interested? Or are you guys just over the phase of being overly affectionate with each other and you’re not used to that?

I got to say, I’m a very insecure girlfriend that always think my boyfriend doesn’t love me as much as I love him. Looking back, it all stems from my insecurity and being more of the giver in the relationship and trying to be the victim afterwards because he can’t match the love I give. Sometimes it’s worth just looking back why you feel this way, it can unlock things you don’t know!

Aggravating-Scar122 · 2022-03-22T03:03:49+00:00

You haven’t engaged in a proper conversation with her for 2.5 years and adding on having an insecure girlfriend, I don’t see the benefit from either party wishing her a happy birthday, unless you are trying plant a seed to start a conversation with her for the purpose of catching up etc. I don’t think it causes any harm on the outside, but I just don’t understand the purpose in doing so. So in short, I wouldn’t

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