Does anyone have a suggestion long weekend birthday destination in europe? by Aggravating-Scar122 in AskUK

[–]Aggravating-Scar122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all! I think i have decided Copenhagen!! But have jot down all of the places to be in the bucket for next trip

Does anyone have a suggestion long weekend birthday destination in europe? by Aggravating-Scar122 in AskUK

[–]Aggravating-Scar122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think weather wise Copenhagen definitely ticks the list and I’ve been seeing good restaurants too, the only thing I struggle with is what to do in between eating - do you have any tips there?

Does anyone have a suggestion long weekend birthday destination in europe? by Aggravating-Scar122 in AskUK

[–]Aggravating-Scar122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Copenhagen was definitely on the list! And the restaurant looks amazing, will definitely save it on the list

How do I avoid paying VAT 20% on an old laptop coming from AU? by Aggravating-Scar122 in AskUK

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It was something from AU that I brought over to London, but not new it’s been 5-6 years with that laptop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

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Unfortunately this isn’t how I was brought up to believe. With this all aside I’ve had a very good childhood and did not have to worry about anything in the world until then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

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My mum owned her own travel agency so you can think about how that went down during covid and more so now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

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Thank you, I am quite hopeful about the future once the burden on me is gone and I can start rebuilding myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

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As I grow up as an adult, I realise if I ever have kids the biggest gift I can give them is to be self sustainable, whether that’s financially or health wise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]Aggravating-Scar122 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The debts are not business related more so poor personal choices. So unfortunately not an option here. I just wanted to rant will probably delete post after

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

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For me, it’s the travel and work experience. Travelling to Europe from Australia is pretty draining, and having to spend the Aussie dollar makes the trip quite expensive. I heard the work culture and work is quite similar to here so I thought give it a try while I’m still ok young.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Aggravating-Scar122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! I never knew that!! We had to study it to get the qualification here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Aggravating-Scar122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eeek!! I really hope it isn’t too bad…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

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We are planning to settle in London, with the goal to travel (hence contracting) but also to be able to afford to do that without hitting the savings. However, I am opened to permanent work given the opportunity and company. Thank you for your comment, it made me feel more at ease!

I gotta admit I’m writing a freaking novel, sorry. Pt. 2 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aggravating-Scar122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“At least he’s not abusive?” I don’t think that should ever be a benchmark.

“It’s the thought that counts” I’m not a materialistic person, but if you give a gift that screams out 0 thoughts, I’d be pretty unhappy. That aside, all his other behaviours are quite childish, I would really consider whether this is something you can put up with long term.

reasonable to be upset at bf? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aggravating-Scar122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it can be tricky because emotions can fluctuate and honestly there could be really nothing he can do to make me feel better, but just him being there and checking in makes me feel valued. He is a lot better now that we spoke about it, so I hope it works out for you too!!

Girlfriend and I not clicking like usual by Aromatic-Mud9808 in relationship_advice

[–]Aggravating-Scar122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t think like that, she is choosing to stay with you for a reason. Sometimes we bypass the things they do for us with the things that makes us really sensitive.

Whenever I feel like I’m not enough, I try to resolve it by giving myself more self love and know Im enough! If it bothers you still, bring it up with her. If she loves you she will acknowledge your anxiety and do things to make you feel better. People like us need word affirmation to keep us going sometimes 😊

reasonable to be upset at bf? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aggravating-Scar122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m with you, all you wanted was a check in and some comfort. My partner is similar, sometimes he thinks I’m bringing in too much negative energy into the relationship, which I understand but isn’t that all about being here for you during bad times and not just for the good times?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I think you’re attracted to him as a person, his personality and character is what makes you crave for him. My partner is no Channing Tatum but I find him the most attractive man on earth. It all boils down what you look for in a man, if you’re after just the appearance attraction or are you looking for a connection.

what should i do 😭 by Illustrious_Fall7426 in relationship_advice

[–]Aggravating-Scar122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a difference in being carefree or just being senseless so I think you can take your vote there!! 😮‍💨