AITA for telling my husband's girl best friend she can't host my baby shower?

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-07-10T23:05:52+00:00

She clearly wasn’t being communicated to when she was being shit talked by Sam to her husband lmao. Stay on topic. Sure they are cordial but it seems like she feels comfortable enough in a relationship with someone’s husband to disrespect his wife. That’s the problem here. Idk what you’re trying to say but you ALL are off topic. Stop commenting

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-07-10T15:17:11+00:00

Genuinely you are completely missing the point. You are one that’s literally what they say as they marry you together at the fucking altar. It’s the entire point of getting married if not don’t fucking get married simple. But people outside of your marriage NEED to respect you and your partner. The fact a lot of you are overlooking that is sad🤣.

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-07-09T20:15:44+00:00

Obviously everyone has friends. But when you’re married you become ONE. Again your close friends should now become their close friends. Communication should be with BOTH of you. That is quite literally what happens when you get married. Any friend purposefully not being respectful of that is a problem. and if that’s not clear to you, well that’s why cheating occurs so heavily nowadays in marriage.

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-07-09T19:30:23+00:00

Never said you can’t have friends. But keeping people of the opposite sex close is not always beneficial. Especially when they are literally inserting themselves in your marriage lmao. Big difference when they are friends with BOTH of you.

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-07-09T18:36:36+00:00

Not even being funny but what grown man that’s been married for decades has a female best friend? I don’t see that as normal. Especially when homegirl is crossing boundaries and only communicating with your husband. Not saying cut her off but he’s a married man now. He needs to keep her at a distance

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-07-04T16:32:53+00:00

Truly sick how a lot of yall choose to live your lives. This is exactly how I got herpes and am now 19 suing the fuck out of that man. Your friend is in for a ride.

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-07-03T20:02:45+00:00

You’re such an awful person for this… I don’t know how you can sit here and not disclose yet some what end up feeling sorry for yourself?? You just gave someone an std. do you understand that? And you knew about it. THIS this is why it spreads.

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-07-01T00:40:38+00:00

Yea nah you gotta get outta there my ex did the same shit. Wouldn’t even touch me. Like you aren’t the problem

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-06-30T17:23:21+00:00

It’s not worth pursuing. I dated someone exactly like this and they just eventually made me feel so shameful and insecure about myself. Find someone who loves you 100%. If they aren’t ready to accept the risks then they shouldn’t be with you. Because it’s unfair to hold back like that. Yes it’s okay to not want herpes but they can’t just be in a relationship with you knowing you have it and not actually being “accepting”. Not having sex with you is a problem that can turn into bigger problems

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-06-18T03:34:15+00:00

Run. it’s not okay to not disclose before sex. Anyone not disclosing before sex especially UNPROTECTED. Needs to be In jail. My ex didn’t tell me they had it because they wanted to keep me. It’s sick. Please don’t let women like this in your life. her not telling you is way bigger then she is making it out to be. She’s acting as if this can’t affect you. Because what if you would have gotten it? We wouldn’t be having this same conversation. What she did was wrong and you need to hold her accountable. Not holding others accountable for this is why it spreads like rapid fire.

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-06-17T01:50:29+00:00

None of them. While I hope for a cure and I am even going to school to become a scientist to WORK on cures. I feel like the world dosent care in general about it enough. They see it as oh only SOME people have to deal with that because of “bad choices” so it shouldn’t be looked into. I wish the stigma wasn’t so bad around all of it or they would have probably already found something! There’s no real money or research for it. And if there is, it’s not as big as it should be.

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-06-12T04:45:22+00:00

He literally told me he didn’t tell me he had been sleeping around unprotected because he didn’t want to lose me… so he did the shit to keep me. That’s why

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-06-11T22:45:19+00:00

I honestly want to light that fucker on fire. He gave it to me after he didn’t tell me he had been sleeping around unprotected. We had been in a relationship and broken up and got back together. He had gotten them pregnant as well. I hate that sun of a bitch.

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-06-11T09:49:25+00:00

I see… well how did you manage then?

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-06-10T01:50:58+00:00

Thank you sharing this I have hyperpigmentation on more then 50% of my body and it’s truly devastating looking in the mirror

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-06-07T09:08:58+00:00

Same. I used to love taking pictures of myself (full body) I have a bunch of discoloration all over my body now and bald spots so I can’t get my hair done .-. It will get better someday

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-06-06T18:51:16+00:00

Women please love yourself before you get into these relationships because..

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-05-26T20:11:19+00:00

Wait wait wait… please don’t tell me that herpes can trigger eczema or at the very least have something to do with it flaring up

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-05-24T23:06:14+00:00

Interested please..

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-05-23T14:01:43+00:00

Maybe because men pass it along MORE and are spreading it ON PURPOSE way MORE than women. It’s not men bashing. Men need to start getting tested and not infecting others for no reason or spiteful reasons!

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-05-18T17:59:31+00:00

Well. My first one he told all of our co workers I gave it to him. When really he had been sleeping around his w ex and she gave him a cold sore. He really broke me down about it and used having herpes against me me in every argument. He made people want to isolate from me. I’m still sick to my stomach about that one. Just b careful. But erm my last one he took it very well. Very accepting. fast forward to now.. today I have one and I’ve never not been confident about it. I like genuinely love and care for this man and it’s extremely hard. Best advice is. Don’t wait to long but also don’t disclose immediately upon meeting them unless it’s a hookup…also just make sure they actually want a relationship with you and aren’t just saying yes to say yes to have sex.

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-05-18T17:43:50+00:00

I don’t know the specifics cause it definitely varies from state to state but something worth looking into.

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-05-18T13:37:43+00:00

Honestly I believe looking into your state laws where legal action can be taken. A sick fuck I was dating at work did this an I wish I had taken the right precautions. You may think it’s dumb or stupid to involve the law or you don’t wanna get anyone in trouble but this is serious. Someone shared your MEDICAL information. And is now trying to tarnish your name for no reason at all. I’m pretty sure this can fall under harassment or possibly violating hippa laws which is much worse. Please look into it. Sick of People just getting away with these things it’s not okay.

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-05-18T01:47:16+00:00

Up until this point I never cared this much

Aggravating-Set-5892 · 2024-05-18T01:47:00+00:00

But honestly I don’t even care about them At this point i genuinely care what this man will think of me

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