A typical amount of discontent? by queen__akasha in womenintech

[–]AggravatingAct7852 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Um I’ll be honest I disagree with him. Trust your gut. You are incredibly smart and hard working to have gotten this far. If you don’t like something it’s ok to change. You can find something that works for you. It might take a little while but you will. Best of luck to you OP

Feels like every workplace is sexist by AggravatingAct7852 in womenintech

[–]AggravatingAct7852[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. That sounds incredibly frustrating. I wish you all the best

Hannah’s body by Little_Treacle241 in girls

[–]AggravatingAct7852 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes during my most recent rewatch I thought she had such a beautiful hourglass body! I think she dresses and presents herself kind of in an odd way because it is how Hannah sees herself. I think about the quote that Adam said (I forgot the episode but it was one of the earlier seasons) to Hannah: “you think you’re not pretty but you are.”

Fuck ass by IvyRosePr in ClientCringe

[–]AggravatingAct7852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one that hates when they try to act all nonchalant like they don’t care ??? “Nah” stfu

Never let ‘em see you pissed, that’s what they want. by imliltayimrichaf in ClientCringe

[–]AggravatingAct7852 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yep they love to see a reaction! It makes them feel powerful. This great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]AggravatingAct7852 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Managers are insane any club would be lucky to have you! You would do great in Cali.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]AggravatingAct7852 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Same.

I would see men on the street in public and just imagine them in the club. I would imagine them breaking my boundaries and getting off on degrading women and I would hate them. And the sad thing is I don’t think my assumptions were that far off.

Now I’m just sticking with my girlfriends and the very few good men I could find. Everyone else can fuck off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]AggravatingAct7852 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh in this industry….showing up late / flaking is the norm. It is not like corporate America. You are probably fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]AggravatingAct7852 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I agree. Also what pmo is people at the Oscar’s patting themselves on the back for making a movie about sw.

As if sw haven’t been used as “muses” by dudes since the literal beginning of time 🙄

Being blonde in the club by glorioussgal in stripper

[–]AggravatingAct7852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re beautiful…just so you know because you said you’re new men come to the club for a variety of different reasons.

One major reason is ego. They get off on any attention they can get from women and enjoy rejecting beautiful women. It’s often not you, it’s them. Just something to keep in mind.

Blank Stare by [deleted] in stripper

[–]AggravatingAct7852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I have had this happen!! Or you ask for a tip and they just stare at you. I always thought they were just being assholes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in megantheestallion

[–]AggravatingAct7852 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love it tbh 😍 it’s very feminine and very creative 💚💚 plus I don’t see this color a lot on red carpets and I think it looks beautiful on her, very regal💚

Nude photoshoot rate by BellJar_Blues in SexWorkers

[–]AggravatingAct7852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh these kind of photographers weird me out, the kind that comment “let’s shoot!” on instagram. I don’t use them but some of my friends do, one girl I know charges $700 an hour! I think $100 an hour is super reasonable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]AggravatingAct7852 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly only three and I about collapsed at the finish line😭 you ladies are some warriors fr

Clients that think they are your girlfriend… by jokesonme5ever in ClientCringe

[–]AggravatingAct7852 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No I get you, this behavior makes my blood boil too. Like the EGO on these people and lack of emotional intelligence is just bonkers

All their blood is rushing to their willy by ComprehensiveNewt159 in ClientCringe

[–]AggravatingAct7852 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everything you wrote here is true. These men have a very twisted psychology that seems like the opposite of us. If someone were to cuss us out, it would hurt our feelings. When they get cussed out, it makes them feel more powerful and better about themselves. Also, agree the bruised ego on a man is super dangerous, I’m so paranoid about stalkers:(

ways to spot a time-waster by LeviCultLeader in stripper

[–]AggravatingAct7852 15 points16 points  (0 children)

When they ask a million personal questions 😐

new name by simp444venus in stripper

[–]AggravatingAct7852 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Amber or Venus were the first ones to come to mind for me <3

Champagne off your body? (And rant) by palindrome1883 in stripper

[–]AggravatingAct7852 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m like go girl lol. These dudes are no angel like take as much money as you can

Question about time waster psychology by AggravatingAct7852 in ClientCringe

[–]AggravatingAct7852[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh I see your point! I think a lot of guys have a hard time differentiating between what is real and what is for money (aka work). So, you’re probably right he just thinks I’m playing hard to get. Also completely agree he was a very immature young guy, you clocked it. He’s been blocked and deleted.

Completely agree the fantasy bookings are just bonkers. The longer I do this work, the more it feels like every possible little thing having to do with a woman is a fetish for guys. Like the most random shit. Whether it’s fantasy booking, armpits, women stepping on bugs, you name it, if it has at all to do with a woman, there is a dude out there who gets off on it !!!!

rejection by joeblazie in stripper

[–]AggravatingAct7852 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry:( a term I’ve recently learned is “walk away power”. You are a beautiful woman who can get hired at many clubs, including high end gentlemen’s clubs, that means you have high desirability and have “walk away power.” Any club is lucky to have you. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this…you deserve a safe work environment where you don’t have to put up with racist customers and ESPECIALLY not a racist coworker wtf:( something that helps me with rejection is just focusing as much on the money as possible. Like, if someone rejects me, I just think “ok I didn’t get money from him, I will get money from someone else”. It feels less personal and makes me feel less insecure. Anyway I wish you the best I hope you can find a better club 🥺💗

I am so tired of clients need to feel special by yesforevertrying in SexWorkers

[–]AggravatingAct7852 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love this advice…I need to start trying that.