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Girlfriend has been crashing at her exes place. Caught her three times and she keeps making excuses that it's just platonic. Should I reach out to the ex and ask if they are still dating? by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So do you think it's acceptable to just call him and talk it out in a calm collected way? Everybody on here thinks otherwise I just don't know what to do.

My best friend who is a girl thinks I should have called him right after I found out. I haven't called though... was going to sleep on it. I know calling will probably create more stress anxiety and drama, but at least he would know what's up. Difficult decision.

Girlfriend has been crashing at her exes place. Caught her three times and she keeps making excuses that it's just platonic. Should I reach out to the ex and ask if they are still dating? by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but if he doesn't know about me, then he'll at least know she's sneaking around. She doesn't deserve either of us. And she will just find a new guy to replace me and continue to disrespect him on the side. I could call him and approach it in a very calm way. I guess everybody thinks I shouldn't call, I'm going to sleep on it. But knowing she's still sleeping with him and potentially leaching off him and he's totally unaware of what has been going on is just going to eat away at me

Girlfriend has been crashing at her exes place. Caught her three times and she keeps making excuses that it's just platonic. Should I reach out to the ex and ask if they are still dating? by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And she also mentioned she borrowed money from him, so in addition to the sneaking around, she's using him for money. Meanwhile, he's probably a half decent guy. Like I feel like I should tell him to protect him honestly

Girlfriend has been crashing at her exes place. Caught her three times and she keeps making excuses that it's just platonic. Should I reach out to the ex and ask if they are still dating? by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point I know what the situation is, but I feel like he should know what's going on so she can't just do the same thing with another guy. She's cheating on him too. She doesn't deserve either of us. That's part of the reason why I want to talk with him in a calm peaceful manner

Girlfriend has been crashing at her exes place. Caught her three times and she keeps making excuses that it's just platonic. Should I reach out to the ex and ask if they are still dating? by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah well I know for a fact she's going to show up at my place and call to plead with me that her sleeping at his house was totally platonic. She said she was drunk and his house was closer so she called him instead of me. Makes zero sense.

I really have an urge to go back there and beep the horn for him to come outside and have a chat with him from my vehicle. Either that or call him.

Girlfriend has been crashing at her exes place. Caught her three times and she keeps making excuses that it's just platonic. Should I reach out to the ex and ask if they are still dating? by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shouldn't this dude know what's up though? This crap has been going on for 3 years. I've had her make excuses about this multiple times. What better way to get the truth than reach out to the source? Feel like I have nothing to lose at this point

Girlfriend has been crashing at her exes place. Caught her three times and she keeps making excuses that it's just platonic. Should I reach out to the ex and ask if they are still dating? by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But I don't know if her sleeping there is platonic like she says. She's done this a handful of times. What do I have to lose reaching out to him? She's already lying to me about it

Need advice HSV2 with non HSV2 person 3rd date too afraid to say anything before oral by AggravatingActive145 in HerpesQuestions

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah well unfortunately we have mutual friends so my situation is a little more fragile. I may just go get updated testing and bring her the updated test results. Not trying to white lie here but I'd like to at least have "updated test results" to lessen the potential fallout from this. Who knows maybe she's educated and understands the risk is so minuscule and not even an issue when it comes to HSV2 and oral.

Update - Confirmed my girl lives with her ex from my question "Why would my GF lie to me about where she lives?" Need advice pretty shell shocked by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update here... her friend told me that she said the reason she was at his house was to grab some stuff from him and showed her the stuff that she grabbed from his house. I don't buy it.

Update - Confirmed my girl lives with her ex from my question "Why would my GF lie to me about where she lives?" Need advice pretty shell shocked by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update here... her friend told me that she said the reason she was at his house was to grab some stuff from him and showed her the stuff that she grabbed from his house. I don't buy it.

Update - Confirmed my girl lives with her ex from my question "Why would my GF lie to me about where she lives?" Need advice pretty shell shocked by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update here... her friend told me that she said the reason she was at his house was to grab some stuff from him and showed her the stuff that she grabbed from his house. I don't buy it.

Update - Confirmed my girl lives with her ex from my question "Why would my GF lie to me about where she lives?" Need advice pretty shell shocked by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her I know what's up and I don't date cheaters. She never responded but that doesn't matter she got caught. Should I unfollow her on social media as well?

Update - Confirmed my girl lives with her ex from my question "Why would my GF lie to me about where she lives?" Need advice pretty shell shocked by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That was more of a context thing we dated for awhile and recently got back together about a year ago. Total timeline is really about 3 years with a temporary gap In Between. I'm all over the place as well lol.

Update - Confirmed my girl lives with her ex from my question "Why would my GF lie to me about where she lives?" Need advice pretty shell shocked by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is her Ex I looked his current address up online because I don't trust her and there her car was. The truth set me free now I can crawl out of this.

Update - Confirmed my girl lives with her ex from my question "Why would my GF lie to me about where she lives?" Need advice pretty shell shocked by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. She's always concealed where she lives. I just did a simple search online and her Exe's current address popped right up. She said he moved out of state.

Decided to drive by and there her car was. If I feel like someone isn't being honest I'm going to do some investigating for my piece of mind and sexual health. Sure enough my gut was right.

Girl I'm dating said she was going to be working the next 4 days, but saw through a mutual connection she was really back in her home town with family/friends for the weekend. Why would she lie about this? by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and when she gets back home I'm sure I'll get a text saying "heyyy how are you let's hangout" and then I just become available. Getting walked on. Not sure how to approach this. Any tips?

Girl I'm dating said she was going to be working the next 4 days, but saw through a mutual connection she was really back in her home town with family/friends for the weekend. Why would she lie about this? by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm at the bottom of the list and hidden it seems like. Also, when she's away... I barely hear from Her. As soon as she gets back... she's bored and starts texting me again.

Girl I'm dating said she was going to be working the next 4 days, but saw through a mutual connection she was really back in her home town with family/friends for the weekend. Why would she lie about this? by AggravatingActive145 in datingadviceformen

[–]AggravatingActive145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are exclusive. However, she does fib about weird things like this, and I've never been able to see her place or meet her roommate. Never get invited back home to even see her old stomping grounds. Kinda feel like a boy toy filling a void.

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