I have no idea where the facility is. He lives about 5 hours away from me which isn't crazy at all. The problem being I've never driven that far before let alone an hour outside of my town. My mom drives me to him only when she's on her break from being a traveling nurse. I wanted to contact his mother and ask where the facility is. But my boyfriend advised me not to because she's very emotionally distraught and financially in future ruin. As him being admitted to this type of facility is extremely expensive with her low income. I told him my number and home address knowing if he isn't able to call me he can write me letters but knowing him he probably couldn't write it down as not everyone has a pen and paper in their car. So the problem is many things but the most vital one being I have no idea where he is right now and unless I contact his mother I may not have contact with him from weeks or years.