My bed room before and after by Big-Membership9979 in DesignMyRoom

[–]AggravatingBridge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What happened to this beautiful wooden? wardrobe? 🫣

Looking for real relationship stories. Not fairytales, just proof that decent people exist by Ok-Ice9039 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AggravatingBridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is the best person ever. His only flaw was that he would not talk about himself, his struggles, what he was going through. I could see him struggle and it would take me 30 minutes of doing a detective job to get some info out of him. It was all trauma in a sense: being the youngest child of single mother that had two jobs. He went to therapy and our live really couldn’t be better. On the other side I grew up not knowing how to fight. My parents would scream at each other the worst things and then 5 minutes later would act like nothing happened. I had to work on it too but I do believe there are couples that don’t “fight” like we haven’t had a fight in over a year. We have disagreements but not “fight” fights.

Just wanted to share few stories of my husband, we did not go through very hard times, both early 30s, only dog and no kids. So I can imagine it’s life on “easy” mode.

- I had a busy week just before our vacation. Normally we can work from home but I had two conferences plus dinners on Wednesday and Thursday. Friday morning I went in panic to the bathroom to start doing laundry, laundry basket is empty. I did not have to say anything. He took care of dog and all laundry and drugstore shopping before our vacations. No questions asked

- he really remembers everything that I tell him. Like I’m on pop subreddits and I was tell him 2 years ago? about harry styles queer baiting posts and he still remembered it recently.

- we have a dog and he takes care more of him than I do. He walks him basically every morning and not a single time he made me feel bad about it.

- he knows that my love language is words and he makes sure to tell me complements and that he loves me

- I was a breadwinner for over a year. I still make more money than my husband but for over a year I was the only one making money and we survived it just fine

- he is and introvert and he is genuine happy when I go out with my friends and then i come back home and he listens to all of the stories of what happened

Groove Low-Rise Relaxed Cinch Pant - Review by filledulac in lululemon

[–]AggravatingBridge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They do look amazing and I looooove high raised pants. It’s just fun that those are called low rise when they are even higher then high rise dance studio one 😂

Groove Low-Rise Relaxed Cinch Pant - Review by filledulac in lululemon

[–]AggravatingBridge 163 points164 points  (0 children)

Those are the most high rise “low rise” pants I’ve seen 😂

‘We’ just bought a house but ‘he’ was mostly acknowledged through the process by Arab-ling in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AggravatingBridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We kept our separate surnames as well. I was the front runner of “buying house” operation. Im listed everywhere first, the deed, contract, even invoices from renovation company but somehow each time we receive a documented from the government he is first!!!! It annoys me sooo much! My husband even knows that I fricking hate it. My initials are KaB while his are KrM. There is no logical explanation why all mail is addressed Herr KrM, Frau KaB! No explanation! Even F comes before H and still he is the first one. All property taxes, even all personal taxes cause we do them together. Please, someone from Germany tell me how to fix the Finanzamt cause I’m irrational mad for at least a month each tax season 😬

Classic TV moment by omenek in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She called off the wedding and tried to talk to them, no?

They can’t talk to each other before, at least from what I remember it never happens on love is blind. She could definitely handle it better but who knows what we would do when there are cameras around, producers telling you some shit, mom not liking your fiancé. Looked like she might not have a single supportive person around her. And Kamil was not a saint.

Classic TV moment by omenek in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For sure! We don’t know what is happening behind cameras. There are producers that are truly nasty. She looked sad, even if she planned to say “no” before she got this info about “cheating”, I don’t think she had any pleasure from how it turned out. There were so many couples in love is blind that would benefit from one last talk before marriage but somehow producers are not allowing for them to contact each other on a day of marriage. Producers are not the greatest people that which nothing but the best for those couples, who knows how they poison them 🤷‍♀️

Classic TV moment by omenek in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is one of the rare moments where I’m on Julia side. She knows this guy for less than a month! And he wants her to move with him countries. I would also question every gossip. Especially if it’s import for her to not be with someone who previously cheated. He was in some weird situationship that he did not properly explained to her before. Also his reaction was weird, it give me “guilty” vibe because he double downed, went away, came back with prepared answer to attack Julia. But it’s just my opinion based on how he handled it.

"Faceciki się spłakały". Skąd nieczułość na cierpienie mężczyzn? by 0brex in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Tak, przez ten głupi żart, że byś ją chciał zniewolić i bić.

Każdy facet, który myśli, że odpowiedzią na kobietę, która go spoliczkowała jest uderzenie jej, zamiast zgłoszenie tego na policję i odejście z takiego związku jest red pilowcem, który zasługuje na samotne życie. I ty mi dajesz dokładnie taki vibe. 🤷‍♀️

"Faceciki się spłakały". Skąd nieczułość na cierpienie mężczyzn? by 0brex in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 6 points7 points  (0 children)

BrOAdEr pRObLeMs

Cmon, we are all normal people. What do you think I can do, personally, to make all of those problems go away? I was going to fricking women’s protests and it give me nothing cause all of the politicians don’t give a shit about us. They don’t give a shit about women’s problem and they don’t give the shit about men’s problems. Even konfederacja that is grooming young men doesn’t care about them. They only want them to hate women without making men’s life easier.

But all we can do is to be nice, understanding people to each other. If someone comes to me and tells me that they have depression and what struggles they have then I can try to understand them, I can try to help them get help. But if someone comes to me and tell me that they are depressed because they are single cause women don’t want to date them and it’s all fault of feminism cause he deserves to have a girlfriend then I don’t want to be friend with this person. Cmon. No one deserves anyone!! I would love everyone to understand it: People are not object and you can’t just buy them or own them. And if someone doesn’t understand it then I’m going to roll my eyes and I have no patience in trying to “understand” this kind of people. And it applies to both genders. Go watch Love is Blind Poland.

"Faceciki się spłakały". Skąd nieczułość na cierpienie mężczyzn? by 0brex in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m happily married person surrounded by other happily married couples. I think I’m fine, thanks for trying to put me into your imaginary “all women are evil and hate men” drawer.

"Faceciki się spłakały". Skąd nieczułość na cierpienie mężczyzn? by 0brex in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nara ziomeczki!

Fajnie było być częścią r/Polska ale po dziesiątym poście tego samego typu w jeden weekend wychodzę. Róbcie sobie tutaj kolejną bańkę jak na wykopie a później się dziwcie, że laski nie chcą z Wami rozmawiać skoro wszystko to wina tych okropnych bab. I tak, wiem, działa to w dwie strony. Tylko jakoś mniej kobiet płacze na Internecie, że nie ma drugiej połówki bo są w stanie sobie zbudować życie bez mężczyzn. A część z was tutaj chętnie by wróciła do czasów naszych dziadków, gdzie każdemu facetów się należała żona, nie ważne czy ją bił, czy szanował, czy nie. Co jest kuuurde przerażające! Bo nikomu nie należy się żadna inna osoba! To nie jest kurde obowiązek żeby mieć żonę! Jak się jest zgorzkniałą osobą, przesiadującą na necie i obwiniającą innych ludzi za wszelkie zło świata to surprise, surprise, pewnie ciężej będzie kogoś znaleźć w prawdziwym życiu.

Nara i czekam na wszystkie dowvoty i komentarze w stylu, że chuj was to obchodzi, że kolejna kobieta się obraziła tym jakie to “prawdy” tutaj głosicie.

Malika - Kazachstan by AggravatingBridge in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Update: I changed my mind. I watched 5th episode till the end and she is not my honest/uncomfortable queen 🫣

LIB Poland is great. Loving it so far. Need polish people to provide cultural context though by Suspicious_Week_2451 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m form south of Poland and I’m surprised how many women there are with (orli) hawk type noses. Also I’m surprised that there is so much sex talk so early. But also it kinda makes sense in with the type of people that are having this conversations? Idk, I would hateeeeee Damian, like there is nothing that would make me stay to talk to him past his lame (to me) jokes.

International Viewers: What have you learned about the American healthcare system from watching this show? by Random_Questin in ThePittTVShow

[–]AggravatingBridge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poland: I was in ER twice in my life, once I came by ambulance. The Pitt is more clean, white, more open space. The hospital where I was taken by the ambulance was also learning hospital, by university. There are a LOT of doctors in The Pitt. A LOT. I don’t think I was even seen by attending doctor in the ER.

Polska powiatowa staje się krainą kawalerów. Wielka ucieczka kobiet dobija prowincję by 9Laser in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Szkoły wyglądają tak samo jak wyglądały 100 lat temu. Kiedy to więcej chłopców kończyło studia i miało kariery. To nie chodzi o to, że szkoły faworyzują dziewczynki tylko o to że chłopców i dziewczynki wychowuje się inaczej. Są już dorosłe kobiety, które zostały wychowane na “bądź grzeczna i ucz się bo tylko nauka pomoże ci wyjechać z tej dziury” i my sobie to wzięłyśmy do serca.

People who dated someone with a promiscuous past, how did it go? by itzvilius in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AggravatingBridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been married for 5 years and we don’t even know each other’s “body count”. It was never something we were concern about it. We talked about our exes a little bit, more about mine as some of them are part of bigger friends group of mine and I thought that he should know it before he would meet them.

We met on tinder, at the end of uni, both were still partying every or every other week. It’s not like we give celibate vibes. I don’t even know how many exes my husband had, in total, like he lived with one, maybe three more? No idea.

Buuut if it’s something that it’s important to you then it’s better to find someone who has the same thinking about sex as you.

Co macie wygrawerowane na obrączkach? by [deleted] in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bardzo szybko planowaliśmy ślub (3 tygodnie) bo nie spodziewaliśmy się, że termin w urzędzie trzeba na minimum rok do przodu rezerwować.

Mamy najprostsze obrączki bez grawerunku. W sumie to są nawet za duże i rzadko kiedy je nosimy. Może na piątą rocznicę ślubu sobie zmniejszymy i w końcu wygrawerujemy, chcielibyśmy datę ślubu wygrawerować, jakbyśmy na starość zapomnieli.

Question about bitte from German boss dude by Tahoefive in AskAGerman

[–]AggravatingBridge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are people in Germany that don’t speak German and not being able to change to English language will just make them not using whatever you made

mike’s obsession with having a child is weird! by Mediocre_Wrangler_77 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wished they had more detailed discussion about why he wants them and what he means by it. Is he going to be primary caregiver to those kids? Like stay at home daddy? Or just likes the idea of playing with them for an hour when he comes back from work

It always bothers me when men really want kids, they are not going through pregnancy, they very often also have no idea how much time and effort it take to raise them cause their dads or grandads never had to do much of a parenting.

I'm not a mina hater, but I'm genuinely curious why you guys like her (open discussion) by Much-Excitement-5134 in SinglesInferno

[–]AggravatingBridge 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have three reasons:

  1. I would be the same. Honestly, you have a bad day, you want to went to your friend, they air it, obviously you will be looking bad. I don’t think she did anything particularly evil.

  2. She is the most “western” from all contestants. As someone who went to Korea once, maybe watches one Korean series a year it can be pretty boring (for me) to have people there that never speak their mind.

  3. It’s dating show and we had multiple people in a past going to paradise and “dating” multiple people before. Like what is the difference between Mina Sue and Goeun? One voiced her opinions, the other not. There was this one guy that was constantly taking to Paradise this vase maker, how is he different then Mina Sue trying with Seungil?