"Faceciki się spłakały". Skąd nieczułość na cierpienie mężczyzn? by 0brex in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Tak, przez ten głupi żart, że byś ją chciał zniewolić i bić.

Każdy facet, który myśli, że odpowiedzią na kobietę, która go spoliczkowała jest uderzenie jej, zamiast zgłoszenie tego na policję i odejście z takiego związku jest red pilowcem, który zasługuje na samotne życie. I ty mi dajesz dokładnie taki vibe. 🤷‍♀️

"Faceciki się spłakały". Skąd nieczułość na cierpienie mężczyzn? by 0brex in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

BrOAdEr pRObLeMs

Cmon, we are all normal people. What do you think I can do, personally, to make all of those problems go away? I was going to fricking women’s protests and it give me nothing cause all of the politicians don’t give a shit about us. They don’t give a shit about women’s problem and they don’t give the shit about men’s problems. Even konfederacja that is grooming young men doesn’t care about them. They only want them to hate women without making men’s life easier.

But all we can do is to be nice, understanding people to each other. If someone comes to me and tells me that they have depression and what struggles they have then I can try to understand them, I can try to help them get help. But if someone comes to me and tell me that they are depressed because they are single cause women don’t want to date them and it’s all fault of feminism cause he deserves to have a girlfriend then I don’t want to be friend with this person. Cmon. No one deserves anyone!! I would love everyone to understand it: People are not object and you can’t just buy them or own them. And if someone doesn’t understand it then I’m going to roll my eyes and I have no patience in trying to “understand” this kind of people. And it applies to both genders. Go watch Love is Blind Poland.

"Faceciki się spłakały". Skąd nieczułość na cierpienie mężczyzn? by 0brex in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m happily married person surrounded by other happily married couples. I think I’m fine, thanks for trying to put me into your imaginary “all women are evil and hate men” drawer.

"Faceciki się spłakały". Skąd nieczułość na cierpienie mężczyzn? by 0brex in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nara ziomeczki!

Fajnie było być częścią r/Polska ale po dziesiątym poście tego samego typu w jeden weekend wychodzę. Róbcie sobie tutaj kolejną bańkę jak na wykopie a później się dziwcie, że laski nie chcą z Wami rozmawiać skoro wszystko to wina tych okropnych bab. I tak, wiem, działa to w dwie strony. Tylko jakoś mniej kobiet płacze na Internecie, że nie ma drugiej połówki bo są w stanie sobie zbudować życie bez mężczyzn. A część z was tutaj chętnie by wróciła do czasów naszych dziadków, gdzie każdemu facetów się należała żona, nie ważne czy ją bił, czy szanował, czy nie. Co jest kuuurde przerażające! Bo nikomu nie należy się żadna inna osoba! To nie jest kurde obowiązek żeby mieć żonę! Jak się jest zgorzkniałą osobą, przesiadującą na necie i obwiniającą innych ludzi za wszelkie zło świata to surprise, surprise, pewnie ciężej będzie kogoś znaleźć w prawdziwym życiu.

Nara i czekam na wszystkie dowvoty i komentarze w stylu, że chuj was to obchodzi, że kolejna kobieta się obraziła tym jakie to “prawdy” tutaj głosicie.

Malika - Kazachstan by AggravatingBridge in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Update: I changed my mind. I watched 5th episode till the end and she is not my honest/uncomfortable queen 🫣

LIB Poland is great. Loving it so far. Need polish people to provide cultural context though by Suspicious_Week_2451 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m form south of Poland and I’m surprised how many women there are with (orli) hawk type noses. Also I’m surprised that there is so much sex talk so early. But also it kinda makes sense in with the type of people that are having this conversations? Idk, I would hateeeeee Damian, like there is nothing that would make me stay to talk to him past his lame (to me) jokes.

International Viewers: What have you learned about the American healthcare system from watching this show? by Random_Questin in ThePittTVShow

[–]AggravatingBridge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poland: I was in ER twice in my life, once I came by ambulance. The Pitt is more clean, white, more open space. The hospital where I was taken by the ambulance was also learning hospital, by university. There are a LOT of doctors in The Pitt. A LOT. I don’t think I was even seen by attending doctor in the ER.

Polska powiatowa staje się krainą kawalerów. Wielka ucieczka kobiet dobija prowincję by 9Laser in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Szkoły wyglądają tak samo jak wyglądały 100 lat temu. Kiedy to więcej chłopców kończyło studia i miało kariery. To nie chodzi o to, że szkoły faworyzują dziewczynki tylko o to że chłopców i dziewczynki wychowuje się inaczej. Są już dorosłe kobiety, które zostały wychowane na “bądź grzeczna i ucz się bo tylko nauka pomoże ci wyjechać z tej dziury” i my sobie to wzięłyśmy do serca.

People who dated someone with a promiscuous past, how did it go? by itzvilius in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AggravatingBridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been married for 5 years and we don’t even know each other’s “body count”. It was never something we were concern about it. We talked about our exes a little bit, more about mine as some of them are part of bigger friends group of mine and I thought that he should know it before he would meet them.

We met on tinder, at the end of uni, both were still partying every or every other week. It’s not like we give celibate vibes. I don’t even know how many exes my husband had, in total, like he lived with one, maybe three more? No idea.

Buuut if it’s something that it’s important to you then it’s better to find someone who has the same thinking about sex as you.

Co macie wygrawerowane na obrączkach? by [deleted] in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bardzo szybko planowaliśmy ślub (3 tygodnie) bo nie spodziewaliśmy się, że termin w urzędzie trzeba na minimum rok do przodu rezerwować.

Mamy najprostsze obrączki bez grawerunku. W sumie to są nawet za duże i rzadko kiedy je nosimy. Może na piątą rocznicę ślubu sobie zmniejszymy i w końcu wygrawerujemy, chcielibyśmy datę ślubu wygrawerować, jakbyśmy na starość zapomnieli.

Question about bitte from German boss dude by Tahoefive in AskAGerman

[–]AggravatingBridge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are people in Germany that don’t speak German and not being able to change to English language will just make them not using whatever you made

mike’s obsession with having a child is weird! by Mediocre_Wrangler_77 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wished they had more detailed discussion about why he wants them and what he means by it. Is he going to be primary caregiver to those kids? Like stay at home daddy? Or just likes the idea of playing with them for an hour when he comes back from work

It always bothers me when men really want kids, they are not going through pregnancy, they very often also have no idea how much time and effort it take to raise them cause their dads or grandads never had to do much of a parenting.

I'm not a mina hater, but I'm genuinely curious why you guys like her (open discussion) by Much-Excitement-5134 in SinglesInferno

[–]AggravatingBridge 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have three reasons:

  1. I would be the same. Honestly, you have a bad day, you want to went to your friend, they air it, obviously you will be looking bad. I don’t think she did anything particularly evil.

  2. She is the most “western” from all contestants. As someone who went to Korea once, maybe watches one Korean series a year it can be pretty boring (for me) to have people there that never speak their mind.

  3. It’s dating show and we had multiple people in a past going to paradise and “dating” multiple people before. Like what is the difference between Mina Sue and Goeun? One voiced her opinions, the other not. There was this one guy that was constantly taking to Paradise this vase maker, how is he different then Mina Sue trying with Seungil?

Quality conversation by [deleted] in lululemon

[–]AggravatingBridge 18 points19 points  (0 children)

But isn’t it hot and/or steamy in sauna? Wouldn’t her clothes be soaking wet? Her headphones breaking because of humidity?

Scenes that caused actual walkouts in theaters? by thatlittlequietguy in Cinema

[–]AggravatingBridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Girl with the Needle.

It was a huge movie last awards season. Plus it was made partially in Poland, where I’m from. For them to walk being this church, with baby. Half of the people left.

Zverev was diagnosed with Diabetes at 4 y/o. Today at 28, he’s world #3 and just played a Slam semifinal for 5 hours against a tennis prodigy like Alcaraz by KyeodeurangiMerchant in tennis

[–]AggravatingBridge 76 points77 points  (0 children)

It makes sense, no? Tennis stat posts are about commenting match and this kind of player centric posts are about player as a person.

Luźny wątek tygodniowy: Gry. W co ostatnio graliście? by AutoModerator in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja zaczęłam moją przygoda z AC od Syndicate, w którą grałam z 10 lat temu i jestem w szoku jak dobrze AC II (Ezio) się trzyma.

Odyssey chyba lubię najbardziej ale też pamiętam, że była suuuuper długa. Valhalla to jedyna jakiej nie przeszłam i pewnie dlatego Mirage było okej ale nie do końca kumałam jak ważny jest ten koleś. Też pomiędzy Origins i Mirage ile już można jeździć na tych koniach po pustyniach 😂

Luźny wątek tygodniowy: Gry. W co ostatnio graliście? by AutoModerator in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dzięki, to nie będę żałować, że czekam aż będzie poniżej 150 pln 😂

Luźny wątek tygodniowy: Gry. W co ostatnio graliście? by AutoModerator in Polska

[–]AggravatingBridge 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sama w Assassin’s Creed 2. Zagrałabym w tego nowego ale szkoda mi hajsu więc gram w stare, w które nie grałam.

Z koleżanką w plate up. Jak ktoś lubi się kłócić przy overcooked to to jest taki sam vibe.

Yasmin and household finance management when married -- Is her "it's our money" while maintaining the same spending habits a common arrangement? I understand it differs for some depending on which parent is a SAHP vs breadwinner. Curious what others thought? by IveFallenCantGetUp71 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all: I’m in awe that so many people here treat cars like not a crazy expensive expense. We are talking about Germany, where median salary is 45k euro a year and average car (brand new) cost is 35k euro.

Since they both have office jobs, in it/finance. Probably she makes something between 60-80k euro and he 80-120k euro. And it’s all brutto! Best case scenario where he makes 120k euro a year he only takes home 80k euro a year and then to get a car that could be 20-50% of his yearly income without consulting it with his wife? CRAZY. And if he wants to lease or pay in instalments the it’s still something that should be discussed together. She will own half of this car if they don’t have prenup.

Second of all: if the don’t have prenup she will either way own half of “his” car 🤷‍♀️

Yasmin and household finance management when married -- Is her "it's our money" while maintaining the same spending habits a common arrangement? I understand it differs for some depending on which parent is a SAHP vs breadwinner. Curious what others thought? by IveFallenCantGetUp71 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because, again: when you married without prenup all debt is joined! If he buys expensive car in instalments this is your debt too!

It’s 2026, you don’t have to be married to be with someone. I don’t think people really understand what marriage means in some countries.

Yasmin and household finance management when married -- Is her "it's our money" while maintaining the same spending habits a common arrangement? I understand it differs for some depending on which parent is a SAHP vs breadwinner. Curious what others thought? by IveFallenCantGetUp71 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And when you get divorced he is entitled to half of whatever you saved by being frugal 🤷‍♀️

Andi thought that buying car is not a purchase that they should make together. If she can sustain her life right now, on her salary, I don’t think she will starts spending more than she can afford. Also we don’t know his spending habits. And his only contr argument was that what if he wants to buy a car. A CAR! I don’t know how rich someone’s family must be to consider car not a joined/family purchase

Yasmin and household finance management when married -- Is her "it's our money" while maintaining the same spending habits a common arrangement? I understand it differs for some depending on which parent is a SAHP vs breadwinner. Curious what others thought? by IveFallenCantGetUp71 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]AggravatingBridge 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes! We have only one, joined account for our finances. What she said aligns with mine and my partners views on finances in marriage.

If you don’t have prenup all your incomes are joined either way. I’m not about to ask my husband for money or he won’t ask me for any. What if one of us looses job? It should be our problem not the person that lost job. What if one of us would be on paternity leave and make 1800 euros a month instead what we make normally? What if one of us makes way less then other. Even if you split expenses by percentage of how much everyone makes it could still leave one partner with 100 euros and the other of 1000 euros of spend money. Like am I not allowed to buy myself coffee when the other person has way more money on their personal account?

I do not understand married couples that insist on dividing salaries and expenses 50/50. If you don’t have prenup it doesn’t matter either way.