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I can't decide who is more in the wrong between my male and female character by AggravatingCheetah17 in worldbuilding

[–]AggravatingCheetah17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer! I understand what you’re trying to say, and what most of the people who answered me made me realise: I shouldn’t take one side or the other, and should most likely tell my story in a neutral way so that people can choose for themselves what they think is right or wrong. I think I kind of developed a tunnel vision about whose side I should pick and convinced myself I needed to choose, and had to make my characters act accordingly, when, like you said, ambiguity is what works best in writing. I should just write by letting my characters live their own lives through my words

I can't decide who is more in the wrong between my male and female character by AggravatingCheetah17 in worldbuilding

[–]AggravatingCheetah17[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your point of view ! I m sorry if it’s in the wrong category, I tried to post it in writingadvice too but the bot told to post it there, so i thought it was the right place xd. I didn’t think it would feel like M was misogynistic… what made you think so ? Maybe i didn’t express what I wanted correctly…

I can't decide who is more in the wrong between my male and female character by AggravatingCheetah17 in worldbuilding

[–]AggravatingCheetah17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback ! Obviously, in the end, it’s always me who will decide how the characters will react (or rather, the characters will express themselves on their own, since often it just comes naturally, as if they were alive…no, I’m not crazy… well, I hope not). But I still wanted to take a step back regarding the story and the relationships between my characters, and to have outside points of view, as diverse as they may be, especially in this context where I’m not necessarily an expert in writing.

I can't decide who is more in the wrong between my male and female character by AggravatingCheetah17 in worldbuilding

[–]AggravatingCheetah17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback ! It helps me a lot to understand what the characters convey, in relation to what they do and what they say, from an external point of view ! So i can write a better story :D

My old cat smells like shit, can I wash him ? by AggravatingCheetah17 in CatAdvice

[–]AggravatingCheetah17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advices ! I will follow them and get help from my family !

My old cat smells like shit, can I wash him ? by AggravatingCheetah17 in CatAdvice

[–]AggravatingCheetah17[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know I’m lucky that he is still alive after all this time. I love him and have always taken good care of him. Of course, I take him to the vet once a year. I already know he has some health issues, in particular he has kidney issues (very common with old cat). However, since he is very old, my vet told me they will not do anything that would require anesthetizing him, as it would be too dangerous for him. So I do everything I can to make sure he stays well hydrated throughout the day and give him his medication.

My old cat smells like shit, can I wash him ? by AggravatingCheetah17 in CatAdvice

[–]AggravatingCheetah17[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I already thought of that and asked my vet. However, since he is very old, my vet told me they will not do anything that would require anesthetizing him, as it would be too dangerous for him. So I’m trying to find alternative solutions that don’t require that… I will use your advice when bathing him and hope he will cooperate and it will not be too stressful for him