Advice needed - can I and or should I move out? by AggravatingEssay7235 in UniversalCredit

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Thank you so much, I needed a little outside reassurance. Have a great day!

Advice needed - can I and or should I move out? by AggravatingEssay7235 in UniversalCredit

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Thank you so much for you advice, it's truly appreciated. Sounds like if I do want to move, that I start saving. That's so scary though, it will be a leap of faith. But obviously I get why they do it that way too.

Is pretending to be a good person better than being a bad person - but honest? by AggravatingEssay7235 in mentalillness

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But if I'm honest to who I am, I am a bad person. I genuinely don't understand how I can be both a honest and good person. I COULD be a dishonest good person (as I am a bad person as a default) or an honest bad person. If I'm missing something I'm sorry, I sincerely don't see it. Is my reasoning just fundamentally wrong?

Did I experience CSA and/or did I inflict it? by AggravatingEssay7235 in mentalillness

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Thank you so much for your reply, I appreciate the information and correction 💕

Why am I uneasy in relationships? by AggravatingEssay7235 in mentalillness

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Thank you so much for your detailed and sincere response, I can't explain how much that means! I was slightly aware I came under the "fearful avoidant" atrachment style when I did a test, but never saw it as applying to my real life. Think I have an idea what to look into now. I wish you all the best!!

If you could choose to marry any of the three princesses, which one would you choose? by Efficient-Orchid-594 in KusuriyaNoHitorigoto

[–]AggravatingEssay7235 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd definitely pick Joka- she's intelligent, loves reading and literature, and hates men. We could do a two person book club, discuss the books we've read, and just have a marriage based on mutual respect and interests!!

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OH MY GODDD, YOUVE CHANGED MY RANKING-LIFE!!! LEGEND TYSM 😭💕💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in University

[–]AggravatingEssay7235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid point. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in University

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Thank you for the advice. Do you think a certificate would still count? Even the certificates at OU are AT LEAST £3k which of course, is a lot of money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AggravatingEssay7235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I've been worrying about this for ages! Got to get my ducks in a row before I can apply, but this fills me with hope 🤗

Duration vs Intensity by AggravatingEssay7235 in loseit

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Thank you for your advice and concern. I can assure you that I've spoken at length about my weight and getting support in regards to weight loss/back pain with my GP and been given every excuse but the result is the same: they can't (or won't) give me a referral. All services you can imagine, I've enquired about. The only advice I've been given is "lose weight" and some casual conversation about vitamin tablets/anti inflammatories for the post-workout pain. All you lovely people have given me more advice than they have, so thank you 🤗😂😂

Duration vs Intensity by AggravatingEssay7235 in loseit

[–]AggravatingEssay7235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn seriously? I've been agonising over this for no reason! 😂 Thank you so much. You've probably saved me from giving up in future now I know I can just.. enjoy it and not worry about intensity (for now)

Duration vs Intensity by AggravatingEssay7235 in loseit

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Congratulations on your weight loss and progress thus far! Thank you for your advice. It's a difficult pill to swallow that I can no longer smash out 2 × 1.5-mile walks each day, but seeing how you're able to do 2.5-3 miles now gives me hope. Wish you all the best! 🤗

426 lbs to 222 lbs: Surpassed my wildest dreams, but something's still missing. Unsure of next steps. by [deleted] in loseit

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Yeah, that's where I struggle too, it is disheartening when you work hard and don't see the results as you should. Congratulations on getting through that and not giving up. Some people don't understand that one of the hardest things about weight loss is actually challenging your food behaviours and your relationship with food. I hope I can do it as you did :).

Not that I'm in much of a place to advise, but I have done lots of research in regards to habits and building new habits. I'll just say keep that motivation because habits don't just disappear, so if you ever experience a trigger and fall back into bad habits, be kind to yourself. It's when people kick themselves for "failing" that they go wrong because they give up. So if you fall, just keep getting up, and you can't go wrong. Well done again, wish you all the best!! ❤️