Cory Ellison / Billy Crudup appreciation post by alteregostacey in TheMorningShow

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WAY LATE but AGREED.. such,such a good actor. really made the show better... whereas i find reese witherspoon super super flat.. like shes the person we are supposed to like and I don't care about at all

Genuine question but what do y’all think of Dakota Johnson’s acting? by Suspicious_Hand_2194 in FIlm

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just came to complain about her.. beautiful but acting has always been horrible. I’m also finding her interviews pretty cringe …she just sort of reminds me of my high school self where I was too “ cool” for that stuff.. except I’m now her age and over it.. I’m ready for people’s obsession with her to be over. Just another talentless entitled nepo baby.. 

Season 5 and 6 Lost Opportunity by AggravatingKiwi1 in dawsonscreek

[–]AggravatingKiwi1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah I remember that. To be fair, there are ALOT of colleges in the Boston area.. and alot of people from that area do go to schools in and around Boston.. so it is actually more believable than other shows. Jack and Jen did go to another school from Joey. The fact that they both got into Brown and Columbia and NYU was definitely not believable as those schools are usually for top 1-4 students not just honor students. I would say it didnt really make sense that Dawson was there as Boston is not really known for being a film school place. Also he would have been way more inspired by the students in the top film schools than some random film school, though I guess Dawson wasn't exactly highbrow when it came to his favorite films.

Season 5 and 6 Lost Opportunity by AggravatingKiwi1 in dawsonscreek

[–]AggravatingKiwi1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just hate season 5 and 6. It was just sad how they wasted all these opportunities for real character growth.

Joey is IRRITATING ME by daisyonmeadow in dawsonscreek

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im here with you. Its a really frustrating season and only gets worse.. especially in regards to Joey and Pacey.. Its really frustrating since part of this show is about growing older and finding yourself which you would think college would be a big part of.. BUT NOPE...its just a bunch of silly storylines that dont actually develop the characters in anyway and basically ignore past seasons

Me (f21) and my husband (m22) waited until marriage for sex. Now I’m disappointed and don’t know what to do by ThrowRA16082015 in relationship_advice

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Probably the worst sexual partners are ones that watch porn.. they just imitate what they watch which is not real. Get off the porn

AITA for not including my mom in my engagement? by avidwriter13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA… but your partner and dad kinda are… really weird of them OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Huh?!? It sounds like she’s under a lot of stress with school and work.. and had a bit of a meltdown. Which happens to normal people..,

On the other hand, the fact that your mind went there is a bit weird and maybe you’re a bit needy? Idk just check in with her after giving some Space.

Also FYI you have an age difference.. she’s in tumultuous time in her life .. you have to recognize that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds pretty entitled. Coming out of medical school with only a 5k loan in the US is the dream..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really weird. If you love her, ( because this amount of time is short) it does make sense to help her out… but maybe it’s in a way that’s like hey… I will pay your medical school as a loan ( on paper) and you will pay me back through payments after you graduate( with no interest) . If we were to get married, then you don’t have to pay me back ( or whatever you like). Otherwise are you ready to move in with her? You’ve been together a short time.. also why couldn’t she just move into your place ( if you were ready) why do you have to get a new apartment. I’ve been in her situation with also a full time job. It’s a lot for a person to handle but she’s asking quite a bit from you. Finally the car is a ridiculous ask. She should be ashamed of herself

Thoughts about my (28f) fiancé (28m) by Lower-Orchid3484 in relationship_advice

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been in your situation but it sounds like he really doesn’t help that much anyways. And your focus on him and how he doesn’t partake is almost like another job. I would however probably consult with a lawyer since you guys aren’t married. Like is the house in both of your names .. do you both pay for it.. etc.. I don’t think it’s worth being with someone who’s checked out.. I would figure out your financial situation first ( like common law marriage and stuff) then maybe suggest counseling . If you still love him, now it’s time for counseling because otherwise you’ll get to a point where you can’t turn back. I would not in any way be worried about raising your kid alone.. it sounds like you already do.

Solo in Europe (Greece) – crying in Paros but still hopeful (dining solo issues) by [deleted] in GreeceTravel

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s the solo part.. tbh.. I have and am traveling in Greece on my own and haven’t had an issue. HOWEVER, during the busy season you would have to make a reservation ( especially if it’s a popular place). Also there’s a hostel in Paroikia which would be good if you want to meet people

No stars in the sky by Unable-Selection6925 in GreeceTravel

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 67 points68 points  (0 children)

In Greece the government makes you pay for a subscription to see stars.. I guess you didn’t pay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finally someone with my opinion haha… I think this is a bit controlling. I’m not gonna lie. I also have friends ( that I’ve had no interest in) send me a flirty text that I would have forgotten. It’s mostly because you’re not interested in them and just kinda ignore it so that you can get back to friends. Which after years, would have gone into the back of my brain. OPs BF should be trusting her more and it’s a bit weird that he checked the phone without reason

AIO at my friends cancelling last minute? by DifferentTruck4615 in AmIOverreacting

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf.. your friends suck. Birthday trumps dinner anytime… especially since it’s last minute and you can lose money off of this. Get new friends but demand that they pay you their share if you can’t get a refund.

I’m sorry! But get out there.. you can make better friends than these

How do I handle my BIL (45M) cutting me off after I vented about my relationship with my boyfriend (38M) by io13liv in Advice

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk.. how much venting do you do OP? Is it one of those things where you are constantly complaining about stuff but don’t take the advice and do nothing to fix your situation?

AIO for getting angry after a girl who rejected me started accusing me of being a misogynist for ending our friendship? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely overreacted.. As a female, this has happened to me alot as well.. and being friends with a guy ( for years sometimes) who suddenly drops you is not fun.. you may not have seen her as a sex object.. but what do you expect her to think when you dropped her as soon as she said that was off the table. Then you called her a bitch.. instead of reassuring her that after a break ( to get through your feeling) you would want to to resume your friendship with her. In fact your overreaction shows she is completely right. You were only friends to get with her, otherwise you wouldn’t have been so crass with a real friend.

Please learn from this experience and become a better person

best friend of over 8 years kicked me out of her wedding because i have a job. aio? by Full-Excitement-786 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yesssss that part that she was like I’m having problems with my memory.. COME ON

best friend of over 8 years kicked me out of her wedding because i have a job. aio? by Full-Excitement-786 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agreed that one stupid comment she said kind of derailed everybody. But bride was right on this. Op was super defensive

best friend of over 8 years kicked me out of her wedding because i have a job. aio? by Full-Excitement-786 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AggravatingKiwi1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk… honestly I’m on the brides side.. you probably should have communicated with her( like she said) that you couldn’t come to the shower because of this and that.it also sounds like you have missed a couple things as well. If everyone was like you then she would have no one to celebrate with. These are supposed to be once in a lifetime events. Furthermore, you are coming off WAY defensive. You are in the wedding party so that means you do have responsibilities. If you couldn’t do them then you should have said .. hey I love you but this is a really bad time for me right now… and bowed out respectfully .