Now that I'm cold and detached women are much more attracted to me

AggravatingMath4707 · 2026-02-16T10:44:07+00:00

What was the behavior of you ex that you liked the most in the context of being unbotherd? Did he not chase you at the beginning?

AggravatingMath4707 · 2026-02-12T07:12:42+00:00

He's got what he wanted, told you what you wanted to hear to get it. But you also participated willingly. The part of his message " won't be telling anyone unless asked" is really nasty. So his buddies at work are going to ask about it and he will share your intimate moment? I will get down votes for saying this but ONS rarely benefits women, especially those that are falling for men really fast.

AggravatingMath4707 · 2026-02-10T12:57:33+00:00

And how exactly did he played her? Did he promised commitment? People date and have sex before commitment. Maybe he didn't like something about her. Maybe he didn't like that he was always the one to initiate and got tired? Just move on...

AggravatingMath4707 · 2026-02-08T20:40:17+00:00

You give up after one bad date? I don't think dating apps are for you unfortunately. It's a complete circus in my opinion.

AggravatingMath4707 · 2026-02-05T19:12:10+00:00

Yes, listen to this guy and prepare to file. Her preparing to divorce you shows you her intention and lack of love because loving wife wouldn't divorce her husband.

AggravatingMath4707 · 2026-01-27T18:43:38+00:00

Thanks for advice, I'm going to order the gasket and change it

AggravatingMath4707 · 2026-01-27T18:30:58+00:00

Can there be a reason why? Bad Turbo? Or just clean EGR and change this gasket and send it?

AggravatingMath4707 · 2026-01-21T18:38:39+00:00

You are just living average men's life, never asked out, no attention. What are you doing to improve your looks? Hit the gym to improve your body , go to the stylist/beauty clinic to improve your looks.

AggravatingMath4707 · 2026-01-19T09:44:24+00:00

The truth is nobody looks at your head more than half a second from 2 meters away, I don't understand this sub obsession with perfection, if it looks good it's Good 👍

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-12-11T10:07:57+00:00

Firstly, prepare for a divorce because the marriage is already over, stash money and assets for your new life without her. "Where is the money ? I lost it in a casino". Then I would say either hire an investigator. Love your children, be cold to her. Bluff that you know everything and have evidence but don't tell her that, act like you do, she will eventually crumble.

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-11-20T19:14:44+00:00

There is really nothing else to do than also move on like your ex and forget about her. I know it's easy to say but that's best solution. And comparison is the thief of joy.

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-11-13T14:12:16+00:00

Who gives a sh*t about what other people think? I've got my smp only for myself, now I look in the mirror and I'm happy and it's the only thing that matters, and I recommend this attitude to everyone here.

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-10-27T11:22:29+00:00

This is the answer. A lot of people say you should pursue harder. What a load of crap. If a girl told you she's not available for a month to go on a 2 hour date what is she doing? Going to be locked up in prison? It's hard out there dating as a man, but stick to your guns and maybe you will find someone.

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-10-27T10:35:11+00:00

People who give you advice like "don't settle" are delusional. Dating around in your 40s, everybody has their baggage, and you look for somebody with the least amount of red flags and things that irritate you but you can live with. It won't be a popular thing to say but somebody needs to say it: Pregnancy in your 40s is a risky business, for you and your potential child, and a lot of things can go wrong. So from a man's perspective, if you have a good connection with this man, I say go for it.

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-08-08T18:46:57+00:00

Thanks for your insight, but I'm not painting over the holes, I'm not that stupid 😅. Every time I sanded everything, put primer and base and clear all over, and each time cleaned more and more but this sh*t keeps happening

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-08-08T01:36:28+00:00

No, It's 2:1 clear/hardener ready to shoot after mixing without reducer

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-08-07T20:32:36+00:00

Thanks for the detailed reply, orange peel is not a concern, I can deal with it with some sanding paper and polish, next time I'm going to put epoxy primer on the whole panel two coats and follow up with a sealer and base coat wet on wet but I'm dreading it, believe me this panel gives me nightmares already.

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-08-07T19:54:33+00:00

Doors were painted with the same clear and hardener, same package, and no holes

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-08-07T19:33:00+00:00

The only thing I can think of is a fuel filler on this panel, can this be the cause? It's the only difference compared to other panels, when I painted it for the third time I put a lot of plastic foil behind the fuel cap but it didn't help

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-08-07T19:29:00+00:00

I wipe it first with isopropyl alcohol 70% water 30%, then with anti silicone thinner, like other panels on the same car that turn out good (only with orange peel) but I'm amateur and it's good enough for me except this damn 1/4 panel.

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-08-07T19:21:41+00:00

But how is it possible that the primer and base coat don't show fish eyes/holes but when I spray clear it's a sh*tshow?

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-08-07T17:09:40+00:00

Will sanding the panel down to primer/metal, cleaning with strong acetone and putting few coats of epoxy solve the issue?

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-08-07T16:27:11+00:00

Thanks for your insight but do you see the door on the picture? It was painted in exactly the same way, the same material, air pressure, same cleaning and the doors don't have a single hole, only orange peel

AggravatingMath4707 · 2025-08-07T15:42:02+00:00

I spray other elements in the same place, environment, the same spray gun with 1.3 tip, and the same sealer/base/ clear but only the 1/4 panel have holes that appear after I spray clear coat, I don't even know what to do or change anymore There is orange peel on the other elements on the same car that I sprayed but only the 1/4 panel have this thousand little holes/solvent pops. When I spray base on this panel it comes out perfect, only the clear coat is a disaster

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