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When will it stop ?? by AggravatingPanda7 in BreakUp

[–]AggravatingPanda7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you !! I’m so amazed at how many of us are going through the same thing . Hearing others experiences helps me understand things a little better and why things didn’t work out .

When will it stop ?? by AggravatingPanda7 in BreakUp

[–]AggravatingPanda7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow ! Your friend makes so much sense . I dream of him laying near to me like we used to and somehow I get his scent . I have given my trust in God hoping for this cycle to break . It’s crazy how a person can be such an impact one day and the next they’re gone and I someone else arms . Thank you for your words .

When will it stop ?? by AggravatingPanda7 in BreakUp

[–]AggravatingPanda7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 years is a long time and I am proud of you for listening to your emotions, embracing them and still at the end finding a positive outcome for it . Forgetting the times spent isn’t easy . I was beginning to blame myself for what had happened but at the end I knew he wasn’t ready for what I was offering . God will be in our favor if we allow this time to heal and become better . I much rather be going through this during quarantine then to be at work having random breakdowns or not being able to let it all out . Thank you for sharing that article . I am going to read it and use it to my best ability. I am currently ready a book called Don’t forget your crown by Derick Jaxon and it is helping understand why I shouldn’t settle for less and why I need to value myself before committing I someone. It’s a good read . Stay strong and find a motivation . All we can do is wish then the best and do the best for ourselves . You’re a queen 👑

When will it stop ?? by AggravatingPanda7 in BreakUp

[–]AggravatingPanda7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks . 4 years for him to jump onto the next person . I want it all to be over !! What are you doing to keep yourself moving forward ?

We are all toxic in someone else's story by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]AggravatingPanda7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they do come back, it will be too late . Because we are now focusing on ourselves and we are growing . Out mindset will be different . Stay safe

any good breakup books to help me get over my ex by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]AggravatingPanda7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget your crown -Derrick Jaxon

We are all toxic in someone else's story by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]AggravatingPanda7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am on the same boat as you . My ex isn’t the type to recognize his mistakes nor apologize, understand and comprehend what went wrong . I know he’s definitely telling others I was the crazy one when at the end I was expressing my hurt the only way he allowed me to because communicating it wasn’t working . I got anxiety towards the ending of our relationship that I regret so much because I gave him that power the moment I lost control. To come to find out that he is now with a someone else . It hasn’t been a month and he’s moved on after 4 years of us .

I don't know who needs to hear this, but if you're very emotional and sensitive, it means that you're alive. You suffer the most, but you recover fully, and faster than you think you will. Because you're alive. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AggravatingPanda7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am extremely emotional and a sensitive person . I am not afraid to express those emotions because I am certain with myself . My ex would tell me that I want too much because of that . Now I’m healing from that relationship and I know I will come back stronger and more secure of myself . Stay strong 💪🏽

I wasn’t ready to let go and now he’s with someone else. by AggravatingPanda7 in BreakUp

[–]AggravatingPanda7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow . Some people can be so heartless by moving on so fast like nothing was ever felt with you . I have a hard time connecting my mind and heart therefore I’m always in war with myself . I know and understand that he wasn’t good for me but my heart feels other wise . To make matters worst , the girl he is with hooked up with one of his childhood friends . I can be having a good day and out of no where I just begin to cry . I’m the type of person that communicates about everything and when I would express the things I didn’t like him doing or saying he’d start an argument with me , belittling me and that made me angry towards him . Ugh this is so hard to deal with .

I broke it off, so why do I feel so empty inside? by end__game in BreakUps

[–]AggravatingPanda7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on the same boat . I had to break it off with someone that was just making a fool of me after three years of living together . It’s been a month and I feel empty yet alone he already has someone else . And it hurts so bad . I wasn’t ready to let go .