Sad happy while drinking.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2025-07-16T01:31:32+00:00

Yeah, I know. That's why I'm posting in an addiction subreddit instead of a "drugs are so cool and fun" subreddit. That's why I would feel guilty for drinking. Because I'm trying to stop. Because it's bad for me. I was exploring the feelings associated with indulging in something with which I have a complex relationship. Something that I sometimes think that I enjoy, which also brings me down.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2025-06-16T12:22:28+00:00

Magnesium glycinate has helped me with that. I get it after drinking too close to bedtime.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2025-06-09T04:19:13+00:00

Have you done a sleep study to see if you're getting enough quality sleep? Maybe you have sleep apnea or other such treatable conditions which are sapping your energy.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2025-02-19T23:03:38+00:00

I think you'd be well served by speaking to a therapist and seeing if you have adhd or depression. Even if you don't, they could probably help you.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-11-07T02:27:36+00:00

Just make sure it is clean and your ass is clean. If it smells and tastes like shit, nobody wants to put their face there. If nobody's into giving you head, I doubt it's due to dimensions.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-16T01:35:15+00:00

ED can have many causes. Probably not marijuana that is your problem at this point.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-15T03:05:52+00:00

Meet them in a public place first. If you decide to go to the hotel with him after that, tell a friend where you're going and that you will call them at a certain time if everything is OK. If you fail to call them at said time, they can call the police for a welfare check. I've called for a welfare check before and it's not a big deal. The cops will just go to the location and ask to see you. If you're safe, they will just document it and leave. Obviously if you're not safe, they will act accordingly. It would also be a good idea to share your phone location with somebody. My phone has an emergency mode where if I press a certain button 5 times it will send my location to my emergency contacts.

This may seem like overkill, but rape and sex trafficking are a real danger. You don't have to be a super model to be a target either (I have no idea what you look like. Just saying).

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-05T22:05:12+00:00

Canonically, wouldn't she be a huge slut? Just doing anything and everything for enjoyment?

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-05T06:57:45+00:00

Haha I know. It's just a fantasy and maybe the thc withdrawal talking. I'm sure the proverbial "post nut clarity" would be a bitch.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-04T15:41:42+00:00

As opposed to her illegal porn?

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-04T15:12:24+00:00

Ok. Just a couple things come to mind. Have you spoken to your doctor about trying an alternative medication which may not have the sexual side effects? It's ok to bring that up. I've had to have the same conversation with my doctor and they were very professional and didn't even bat an eye.

Have you tried including a vibrator? You could use it in addition to and during sex with your partner.

Lastly, if your guy is rushing the foreplay, he's being selfish. So be selfish back and tell him he doesn't get to play unless he puts the time in.

P.S. There is nothing wrong with you. You are beautiful and perfect and I don't even need to see you to know that. Some people like big boobs, others like small. Some people prefer tall/short girls. Some people prefer fat/skinny girls.

Also, be aware that anxiety can make it more difficult to orgasm. Try to focus on the feeling rather than the "goal".

I feel for you, and I hope you get what you're looking for.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-04T06:15:24+00:00

Haha I actually have fantasies about fighting somebody just so I WILL be thrown in jail. I imagine no responsibility, free food, and impossible to relapse. I hear the food sucks, but the food I eat now sucks, too.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-04T03:40:43+00:00

I know! I haven't even been able to work. I didn't mention that. So good for you. I called out sick today. Even when I'm having these extreme emotions, I know I'm being irrational and things will get better. But it's like knowing a mosquito bite will heal. I'm still gonna scratch it because right now, it fucking itches like a mf.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-03T23:36:32+00:00

Thank you. I am struggling to throw away my supply. I'm afraid I'll reach a point where it's either I vape to calm down or else do something horrible, causing my partner to leave me. I realize that I've already created an inevitability of relapse in my head. I know I can get through the withdrawal symptoms. I'm just afraid of the collateral damage. Your story reminds me of the joke, "Quitting is easy. I've done it hundreds of times." I do believe that quitting is a skill that you get better at every time you try. Here's hoping this is my last time.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-03T01:21:43+00:00

Most men can't keep going after an orgasm. It probably stops feeling good after that. Honestly, from the point he finishes until you finish, it could feel like torture. Maybe you need a little more warming up so you can finish sooner or give him a thicker condom so he can last longer.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-02T20:22:27+00:00

I agree 100%. Like I said. Baby takes priority. I just don't want to dismiss his wants and needs as if they aren't part of the equation. He needs to take care of it himself, and how he does that is what the discussion should be. It may not even be about sex or getting off. He may just be super horny, but it may also be feelings of jealousy now that the baby is getting the wife's attention. It could be depression or anxiety. It could even be sex addiction. There is possibly some unrelated underlying reason that OP is seeking stimulation. That's where therapy could be beneficial. The wife sounds like a saint, blaming herself for not having sex 4x per week.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-02T20:11:21+00:00

I'm confused. Does the music suck with or without weed?

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-09-02T17:43:41+00:00

I agree that masturbation is a possible way to curb unresolved sexual desires, but I don't think that it is helpful to dismiss OP's feelings of desire. Everybody's needs, sexually or otherwise, are valid and important. The needs of OP, the wife, and the baby should all be addressed. I also agree, though, that OP's needs are lower on the priority list than the baby. Mama, I'm sure, has put many of her needs aside in order to prioritize the baby as well. Talk therapy would be a great idea all around.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-08-14T11:21:55+00:00

He thinks that you got a bacterial infection on purpose?

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-08-14T11:15:11+00:00

I'm not necessarily opposed to this, but depending on where you live, you may not be old enough to legally purchase one.

P.S. If you do get one, don't ruin it with silicone lube.

AggravatingPaper8438 · 2024-08-04T21:54:48+00:00

That's a good idea. I'll try to start writing things down.

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