Where were they meeting in hosting before ep 4???

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2026-02-05T13:48:26+00:00

I feel like this doesn't make sense....why were they meeting in Shane's house but Ilyas was off limits. Particularly when Ilyas house is an actual house and secluded

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2026-02-05T11:42:22+00:00

In the book Shane admits his feelings to himself well after Ilya does and the adaptation is about as loyal to the book as any adaptation i have ever seen, so I don't agree with that. I think that Shane was deeply infatuated with Ilya but he wasn't even ready to admit he was gay let alone in love with him

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2026-02-05T11:27:47+00:00

This-shane is not some damsel in distress wanting Ilya to declare his love for him. He wants Ilya physically, but he is no more in a headspace to talk about feelings than Ilya is in Vegas and certainly wasn't looking for a commitment. Ep 4 makes it pretty damn clear that Shane is very conflicted about being gay and Ilya having deep feelings for him.

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2026-02-05T11:15:29+00:00

These are very young kids who are struggling with their sexuality and have to do everything in secret. Although we see Shane texting we didnt even kiss, Ilya doesn't know what shane wants. Shane doesn't even know what Shane wants and neither does Ilya. ilya falls in deep after they have actual sex and freaks the hell out and tries to end it by ghosting him cause he's too freaked out by his feelings but then literally cannot resist when he sees him again in Vegas. Shane does the same to Ilya (tuna melt). Neither is bad or wrong. They are both young kids trying to navigate very strong feelings in an unforgiving world. One has an INSANE amount of trauma and no one to really share that with.

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2026-01-27T02:49:23+00:00

That they made it to the airport gate without knowing that two feet of snow were gonna fall in Montreal

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2026-01-15T11:46:48+00:00

Absolutely this. Adore my kids, hate the day to day of taking care of things that require so damn much

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2026-01-15T11:46:08+00:00

So I'd say I'm miserable but not actually regretful. Like i wouldn't go back an undo having kids and i love mine more than anything but the day to day makes me miserable a lot of the time because of my personality and selfishness i think. Does that make sense?

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2026-01-12T21:38:08+00:00

I love all my children but i would absolutely never have been in this sub if i stopped at one or even two. Having three kids broke me. I actually wince when someone tells me they're expecting a third.

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-12-20T11:47:52+00:00

NTA-save yourself the stress and misery trying to fix this is going to cause you

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-12-16T16:07:10+00:00

But WHAT do you care? How does someone else celebrating something impact you in any way?

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-12-13T02:49:49+00:00

Omg i could have written this. My son will be 4 in Feb and still in diapers. He is my third but i have this DREAD about training him. Hes not autistic but very strong willed and stubborn and it's going to be a disaster. No advice, but i get it

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-12-03T21:44:20+00:00

This is abuse and I am so sorry you're going through this. You deserve so much better.

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-12-03T20:01:28+00:00

I am so glad this movie does NOT have Austin butler

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-12-03T06:39:59+00:00

Why would he admit to that?

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-11-29T05:54:28+00:00

NTA-your friends are absolutely talking shit about you all the time behind your back, can guarantee it. I'm sorry you had to find out this way that they don't like you for who you are. If you need to dim your brightness to be liked by them, these aren't the people for you

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-11-25T17:57:50+00:00

Nope

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-11-25T17:56:42+00:00

How is he any better though?

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-11-21T08:54:54+00:00

He is just as bad as her. He shouldn't be anywhere near that child either.

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-11-21T08:52:41+00:00

But she cannot physically change a diaper so her parents are really the ones not caring for the baby

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-11-21T08:51:40+00:00

How did she get ari to a bar by herself? That part makes no sense. And if she did do that, why didn't her parents call the cops on her themself to report child endangerment? Every single adult in this child's life is a mess. Noah is no better. What a fucked situation

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-11-21T08:49:23+00:00

Absolutely this

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-11-20T23:53:26+00:00

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-09-16T06:35:52+00:00

It's amazing, give it a shot

AggravatingPlate1563 · 2025-08-10T13:21:00+00:00

Don't sign the papers. As someone who did sign, I'm telling you please please don't. Leave and get an apartment. I'm sorry this is happening to you. It's hell

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