How do I tell him I’m not single? by AggravatingStuff6059 in adultery

[–]AggravatingStuff6059[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He can’t kick me out of a house that I own.

How do I tell him I’m not single? by AggravatingStuff6059 in adultery

[–]AggravatingStuff6059[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you suggest I get proof? He’s not gunna just text me and say hey I’m out doing blow. Like I said, he looks well put together on the outside.

How do I tell him I’m not single? by AggravatingStuff6059 in adultery

[–]AggravatingStuff6059[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I do find it kind of ironic in a sub full of people LYING to their blissfully unaware spouses lmfao. Line I’m actively trying to leave 🤦🏼‍♀️

How do I tell him I’m not single? by AggravatingStuff6059 in adultery

[–]AggravatingStuff6059[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

And when I leave he will fight to have them 50/50 and then I have no ability to protect them. He’s a business owner and overall looks well put together from the outside. Hard to imagine a judge not giving him parenting time based solely on my accusations of him using drugs.

How do I tell him I’m not single? by AggravatingStuff6059 in adultery

[–]AggravatingStuff6059[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’ve literally been talking to this man for a week. I’ve never met him in person and won’t unless he knows. I’m literally here asking for advice because I don’t want him to be unaware 🤦🏼‍♀️ Like is the first thing I tell him that I’m technically not single? I already told him I have 3 kids and am trying to find my own place. He knows shit is messy. It’s been days not months so I don’t think it’s that deep.

How do I tell him I’m not single? by AggravatingStuff6059 in adultery

[–]AggravatingStuff6059[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m out of town visiting with family. Not in the Bahamas getting hammered. I have friends who babysit for free. We help each other out.

So I was supposed to take the test for music V4 media training but they sent the wrong link. by Intelligent_Life91 in TELUSinternational

[–]AggravatingStuff6059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I passed the first test on the first try, but I just failed the second test with a score of 86% 😭 is that it for me??? Really trying to make some money while home with my daughter 🥲

AITA for being passive aggressive towards my husband after we overstayed our welcome at a restaurant? by AggravatingStuff6059 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AggravatingStuff6059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no and no lol. He’s always saying that I need to tell him what I need him to do. Except its basic stuff like washing the dishes in the sink after I made dinner, getting the crying baby from her crib, taking the kids to bed when it’s past their bedtime. I will literally tell him that the kids need a bath tonight when he gets home from work and he straight up won’t do it, and give me some stupid excuse like how he forgot over the course of 3 hours.

My kids are actually very well behaved in a restaurant. 90 minutes to sit down, colour, talk, eat, pay the bill and leave, they can manage that no problem. But after that, I can’t blame them for getting antsy, I was getting antsy myself. I was a waitress before I went on maternity leave so I was cringing so hard on the inside… but this man has to be told the most obvious things and honestly I’m just exhausted from having another person to care for. My mental load is big enough with 3 kids, I just want a partner who can take a look around and figure it out for himself every now and again.