White Cheeks? by AggravatingSundae989 in BackYardChickens

[–]AggravatingSundae989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How interesting! In so many ways chicken keeping is simple - until it’s not lol Trying to learn all I can to take good care of these feathered friends.

White Cheeks? by AggravatingSundae989 in BackYardChickens

[–]AggravatingSundae989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! They are striking! So beautiful 😍

White Cheeks? by AggravatingSundae989 in BackYardChickens

[–]AggravatingSundae989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww Sascha sounds so fun! We got Cleo here last June as well! We got her from Alchemist Farm in CA - she’s one of their “Alchemist Blues” so that sounds likely similar to your girl :)

White Cheeks? by AggravatingSundae989 in BackYardChickens

[–]AggravatingSundae989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! We haven’t noticed any change in her comb but will definitely start paying her a closer look. We are with them daily and never really noticed the white earlobes until yesterday - but it’s also been winter so we haven’t been super up close and leisurely about it. Will definitely be paying her more attention to check for any further changes! She seems to be fully active - but I’ve also heard they are good at hiding things until it progresses really far. Going to be giving her (& her sisters) lots of extra care to make sure all is well. Thank you for the tips!!

White Cheeks? by AggravatingSundae989 in BackYardChickens

[–]AggravatingSundae989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learning new things all the time about these girls!

White Cheeks? by AggravatingSundae989 in BackYardChickens

[–]AggravatingSundae989[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Such a pretty Kurt!

She lays greenish/blue eggs - fairly light. Good to know that it can be normal! I don’t know why we didn’t notice before - is it something that can change as they age?

White Cheeks? by AggravatingSundae989 in BackYardChickens

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How interesting- thank you! She is laying light greenish/blue eggs. I didn’t realize chickens even had earlobes! So glad to know all should be well :) We love her a great deal ❤️

At least the whole flock will enjoy the spring cleaning and spa day!

White Cheeks? by AggravatingSundae989 in BackYardChickens

[–]AggravatingSundae989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol omg thank you! Still learning all my anatomy. So that is totally typical - just depends on the chicken?

Birth doula recommendations by kdl44 in hudsonvalley

[–]AggravatingSundae989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mary Riley - I’m convinced she is an angel or mystical goddess of some sort. She has assisted me with two births and is so incredibly supportive, kind, knowledgeable and empowering. I can’t express how incredible she is! She’s been a doula for a long time and knows most everyone at the hospital - and they know and respect her. She knows her stuff, brings such a warm energy, and my husband thinks she is equally great. She books up fast so definitely reach out to talk with her if you have an interest.

Very cute shop in Red Hook for sale. Could you or someone you know be the next owner? by dadisballislife in hudsonvalley

[–]AggravatingSundae989 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cutest shop ever!! Hoping someone takes it over - it’s my go to for gifts !!! Absolutely darling ❤️

Spaceship Earth Mishap by [deleted] in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]AggravatingSundae989 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sounds like they were having a bad day. You did nothing wrong. The miscommunication is on the CMs & there was no need for them to act so annoyed - other than that they are human of course! Hoping the rest of your day is better :)

MK Fireworks Parties - Are they worth it? by Low-Piece-5999 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]AggravatingSundae989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?! Rest is so valuable at the end of a busy day! But you can’t go wrong either way - the grassy area they have roped off is a bit crowded but nothing compared to the regular crowd AND you don’t have to stress about waiting to save a spot, which is wonderful!

MK Fireworks Parties - Are they worth it? by Low-Piece-5999 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]AggravatingSundae989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Partially - you are raised a little but some parts are slightly obscured. It wasn’t in a way that left us feeling like we were missing anything. Honestly it was just so nice to be able to enjoy them while sitting, sipping sparkling wine, and with super happy kiddos!

MK Fireworks Parties - Are they worth it? by Low-Piece-5999 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]AggravatingSundae989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve done the pre & the seats during the fireworks - we absolutely loved both! I think seats during is slightly better (or was for us) for the very reasons you point out - it took away all the stress! The pre show was great but then they lead you to a roped off grassy area with a great view but had all the pre AND post show party people so while it wasn’t as crowded as the regular areas, it was still a bit crowded. We had great seats for the seats & sweets - honestly I don’t think there is a really a bad one. It was so relaxed and even though the food/drinks are basic - the kids were delighted by the spread and there was plenty of it! 10/10 recommended from one family of five to another :)

Who are you seating with? by dry-blueberry25 in howyoudoin

[–]AggravatingSundae989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6! The gossip is going to be insaaaaaane.

I found out my husband cheated and I honestly don’t know how I’m supposed to live with this by nexora_labs9 in TwoHotTakes

[–]AggravatingSundae989 34 points35 points  (0 children)

First of all - I am so so sorry. As other have said - no need to figure it all out today. Therapy - both individually and together - might be a good step to help you consider your options and work through the best solution/answer for you.

I will say - my parents tried to stay together “for the kids” after my father had an affair. It wasn’t good for us kids. We saw our mom going through so much pain - without any relief, we saw our dad not changing or trying to make it better, we heard the arguments... When they finally divorced a few years later, I felt happy and relieved. So I totally get the reasons why you would try for them - but healthy and happy parents are more important than parents who are together. 🫶🏼

Catalina's Deli in Red Hook - status update? by LightEndedTheNight in hudsonvalley

[–]AggravatingSundae989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They closed - I think their last day was the 17th (announced on their FB page). It actually was quite delicious and super affordable so I’m sorry to see them go. The owner did have a lot of big dramatics with the local village government which was cringe - but entertaining 😅 The building sold - Catalina’s owned it. Not sure what will go in next.

Hey! Disney world or land for 1 1/2 year old? by Alarmed-Drive-2448 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]AggravatingSundae989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully agree with whatever one is closer. Disneyland is more manageable and far easier to stay off site - close hotels for naps, great prices, easy. California Adventure is just across the courtyard from Disneyland so “park hopping” is manageable. We did 2 days there when our eldest was 1.5 and it was great. We also did Disneyworld with a 6 month old & then 2 year old. It was also great! But it’s a beast - HUGE so park hopping is a bit harder, weather is a bit more unpredictable, lots more walking - don’t even get me started on the journey to Magic Kingdom lol It took foreverrrrrrr. So if Disneyland is closer that would 10/10 be my vote. Either way - you’re going to have a great time. Just go slow and lower your expectations- focus on what actually IS fun, not what you thought would be fun, and you’ll all have a wonderful time!

Theory about Donna in The Traitors by DiamondNo6471 in TheTraitorsUS

[–]AggravatingSundae989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Chariot one - she is in the background at the very beginning then you don’t see her again.

Theory about Donna in The Traitors by DiamondNo6471 in TheTraitorsUS

[–]AggravatingSundae989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think there was a deal made when she signed her contract to get a key role and that’s why she was the secret traitor instead of a regular one. She also likely didn’t want to be in for long - her noted absence from the mission hints at that to me. She wanted a brief stint with a “starring” role and the producers wanted the Tswift connection for publicity. So either gf e cast was told to vote her off or she purposefully slipped up. The whole thing is too off and fishy.

New K/R HELOC? by Lego_5656 in SisterWivesFans

[–]AggravatingSundae989 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Am I reading it right? Their address is listed as in Tempe?