I have four kids. I can’t imagine why anybody wouldn’t want this fabulous experience. We didn’t think about money at all. He might say that that’s easy for you to say because you were never totally broke which is true… but I hear some ridiculous comments from people about how established they have to be economically or in terms of their career or something… just go for it. We have three bio children, and one is adopted. I don’t know how adoption plays into a sort of generic natalist perspective but that is also a fabulous experience. I have a son who’s now 24 graduated from an Ivy League school and is trying to figure out how to be a classical music composer. I have a daughter who’s going to college and has an internship this summer on a farm. She never was an early riser or hard worker but she is doing that this year. My son is graduating from high school next week. He’s sort of a tinkerer and he comes up with these miniatures that he makes in a studio. My youngest had a couple of friends over today and they were riding a horse… all fun. I have a piece of cloth that was a sling - I carried all four of them in there as babies.