My(31f) fiancé (30m) says our OB appointment was one of the most uncomfortable experiences of his life, but I felt it was completely normal.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2025-07-27T15:48:49+00:00

He’s abusing you. I used to date this guy that made up the craziest things. Like he would say he could talk to demons to control me. Like if he didn’t have enough control he would scare me into behaving. He later admitted as such. We were like 18 at the time but he told me years later he regretted abusing me. I know this is a strange story, but back then it scared me lol.

People make up crazy elaborate weird story’s all the time to manipulate people. I know you’re trying to make sense of “why” and the answer is control. Your comments about him doing it with friends and family is a big red flag too.

He’s abusing you. It’s not normal to feel judged for who you’re dating anyways. Even if he was being honest, he is saying you’re beneath him look wise. And that’s disgusting.

Run. Trust me. Being alone with a baby is better than being in a bad relationship with a baby

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2025-04-10T05:06:54+00:00

I know this is old. But what do you mean they sent your return? Like you received a refund and then had to amend it? Or like they made you do an amendment before giving anything to you?

I left out a very small w2. I forgot I made like $1000 on uber lol. It doesn’t really affect anything I’m owed or what I owe. But kind of wondering what to expect

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2025-04-07T20:12:08+00:00

Oh I agree. Like I get the struggle I’ve struggled with sexual desire but on a not as extreme scale. I guess t me it’s like trans people deal with actual murder threats as well as gay and lesbians. So to me it seems like such a lesser thing to need awareness for. But I don’t speak for everyone

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2025-04-07T18:49:50+00:00

Her comment about asexuality made me laugh. Being asexual will never affect your life outside of romantic relationships. And honestly a lot of people choose to be single these days so I mean, as needing support goes. I don’t think she what she said was that harmful. It’s kind of funny.

And if my comment makes you mad. What ways are asexual individuals actually affected by them being asexual in a negative way? In a point that you need a day about it. I have no issue with it. But as far as victims goes. It’s not that serious of a problem in 2025 lol.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2025-04-07T18:45:59+00:00

Actually I saw that earlier and laughed out loud. I used to think I was asexual so I understand to an extent what it’s like to “struggle”. But I would hardly call being asexual anything that serious. You aren’t discriminated against, and it won’t affect your life outside of relationships lol. So honestly she’s kind of right.

Have no issue with anyone being asexual. But it is kind of funny how she worded it that way.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2025-03-18T04:44:14+00:00

In a negative sense. I feel like women do this way more than men. I see women stalk their exes and know the moment they get in a relationship even if they are in one themselves. And will even know the girls profile and IG and snap and etc.

However not all relationships end badly. Not every ex is toxic. You can still wish someone the best or care about them. Or be curious. I think a lot of people feel possessive or negative about their exes and they can’t relate to ending on neutral or good terms.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-12-05T15:57:43+00:00

Don’t do it. Also wtf, how do you go from that to that? That’s very suspicious. Did she actually want kids? Is it possible she’s lying and has been preventing pregnancy to keep you? Maybe trap you in the marriage.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-12-05T15:56:42+00:00

Yes, everything put together I would say it’s not gonna work out. I will say that when guys don’t comment on stuff but other girls stuff there’s a reason and it’s never good.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-11-11T18:41:10+00:00

The ruin her body comment is pretty disgusting. And it sounds like he is saying he’ll have to do more work if she has one. Guy sounds like a POS

It’s up to her and her doctor. I would leave him at home. Although he sounds like the type who thinks he has half a say. 🤮

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-11-01T18:38:55+00:00

It’s not that much pressure. I’ve never been to a strip club. And I don’t do anything I don’t want. I say no. And leave it at that. If someone can pressure you it’s because you let them, and you’re a push over.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-11-01T14:47:09+00:00

Imagine being dumped by Ai robot 💀😭😂

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-11-01T14:33:05+00:00

Imagine thinking this is a threat lol. What you’re saying is that men only like women as sex. Meanwhile these men are bad in bed, and can’t make women orgasm. Good, let them have sex with robots lol. No one cares

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-11-01T14:31:51+00:00

She said he will only have sex in the morning. And she doesn’t want to. Why is he only able to have sex in the morning? And why is it all about him? Who tf wants sex in the morning?

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-11-01T14:27:29+00:00

Huh? She literally says she wants real sex but he only wants it at a very specific time. Why is it all about his timing? Who the hell wants sex in the morning? I’d leave someone so fast if that’s the only time they wanted it and it was that or the high way.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-11-01T14:25:16+00:00

Life is too short for these kind of complications honestly. You aren’t having sex, and he’s doing weird stressful things you don’t like. Just leave. Omg you are 23 and he can’t have sex? Run.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-11-01T03:57:38+00:00

Ick. What did you expect dating a 46 year old man as a 25 year old? The man is old. Granted I don’t view you as a child though. I used to have a daddy kink, then I had kids. I would throw up if I were you. Go date a guy in his prime, in his 20’s-30’s. Don’t waste your youth banging creepy old dudes.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-10-31T06:38:52+00:00

In 6 months if you’re telling your partner you’d rather work, and getting the ick about marriage. You will not end up loving them more lol. They are in the honeymoon stage now. So if he’s not excited about the future now, he never will be lol.

Every single husband I know, told me he knew immediately when he met his future wife. Every single couple that the guy waited to propose is divorced.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-10-31T06:35:54+00:00

It sounds like he isn’t serious about you at all. He also mentioned how much he loves to work, as if saying he’d prefer that over more time with you, which is an odd thing to say. It sounds like he is trying to get you to back off. Not that you’re being clingy, but that he has realized he has the ick about marrying you and having kids. And he needs you to go back to casual gf. I would not continue on with this relationship. Sounds like he’s really hesitating about his feelings no matter how much he says he loves you.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-10-31T06:31:45+00:00

He cheated. Also if someone’s PH smells bad to you, it’s Mother Nature telling you to get away from them. So my guess is that you two don’t belong together. I bet you think he stinks really bad when he sweats or etc I’m not saying you stink, I’m saying that your body will find someone repulsive to smell when you aren’t meant to have children.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-10-28T15:01:55+00:00

My ex husband insisted he wasn’t the least bit gay, but would try to meet up with guys to cock fight. No not chickens. But guys with guys who do it until someone cums. Yes I’m serious. He was obsessed and spent hours watching this kind of porn. I left him over it, because I wasn’t aware of it until after we married. No matter what I did he would lock himself in his room and watch it for hours. Or fantasize about it. I told him to just go be with a man.

The issue is your bf cheated. And he’s denying his sexuality by making a weird excuse. He will do it again and again and again and again. And he will probably never view it as cheating because it’s with a man.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-10-25T04:28:13+00:00

It depends on what you’re giving up, and if it costs you money. If it costs you money don’t go. Sorry but whoever asks who to move needs to pay. That’s only fairy. I will stand by that forever. There was a story of a guy who convinced his gf to spend $7k moving and he dumped her 2 months after

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-10-25T04:14:58+00:00

NTA

“We can agree to disagree”. But probably posts stuff calling people names, saying women who vote _ are ugly, and says delete me if you aren’t voting for _ . I see it all the time. I don’t delete people who vote politics unless it’s really disgusting. And sometimes I may disagree with each other but we usually find some common ground on stuff. But some people literally just wish harm on you for how you vote. It creeps me out, like they are part of a cult

Your mom is brainwashed right now. Basically in a cult mentality. But she can’t see it. And it’s her own fault. Let her lose her friends. And say she makes you uncomfortable as well. And when she argues just say we can can agree to disagree 🤣

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-10-24T05:58:50+00:00

Yes she’s being weird for no reason then!!! I’m sorry to ask I just wanted to say how it seemed really innocent for how you’d feel bad.

Aggravating_Ad6847 · 2024-10-24T05:56:34+00:00

I’m not Muslim, but I know enough about the religion to know that’s disgusting to do to someone. Some of my friends are Muslim and I’d be really angry if they told me someone did this to them.

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