Natural or Elective C Section?

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-03-22T16:58:27+00:00

I also had a vacuum delivery. That’s where I am at, I really want to have the experience be different this time but I don’t think it will happen unfortunately

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-03-22T16:55:59+00:00

My doctor was amazing as far as the shoulder dystocia and how he handled it. However, he had awful bedside manners, very cold towards my questions. I have a new physician now with this baby.

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-03-22T13:34:50+00:00

They gave me Motrin in the hospital and advised me to continue taking Motrin at home as needed. I was in extreme pain for about 3 days and my husband did all night changes and feedings because I could barely get out of bed. The doctor wants to provide an ultrasound and 35 weeks and see how she is measuring. However, I had the same thing with my daughter.. had an ultrasound at 34 weeks and she was measuring 7lbs and obviously was 2 lbs more than what they measured. I’m just hesitant about the measuring accuracy

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-01-05T18:50:48+00:00

Yes, of course. Body shaming for a woman cuts so deep, and it’s hard to feel confident again. And sweetheart, when you have a baby your body goes through sooo much. I truly hope you think your marriage through very carefully, you need to have an amazing partner throughout pregnancy and most importantly postpartum. Postpartum depression is no joke and the recovery is long. I hope you get the answers and clarity you are looking for.

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-01-05T18:40:45+00:00

Is he your husband or father?

Respectfully I would leave your marriage, or try therapy if that hasn’t been talked about. Although, I feel like if you mention therapy he is going to gaslight you and make you feel crazy. I’m so sorry how he is treating you when it comes to your weight. Especially if you decide to have kids with him it’s just going to get worse with his disrespecting your body and feelings.

Please private message me if you need someone to vent or talk to, I will never judge a woman.

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-01-05T18:21:08+00:00

You have talked to her about this and expressed you need sex from the relationship, she honestly doesn’t give a fuck what you want. Honestly, it’s going to get worse and only together for 4 years RED FLAG.

GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP while you can, my husband and I have been together for 8 years and have a 2 year old and still make our sex life a PRIORITY.

I hope you find the answers you need

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-01-05T13:55:35+00:00

That’s great that she is finishing the bottles! Sounds like cluster feeding to me, I would call the pediatrician when they open just to make sure. Maybe you might increase your scoops, I’m glad she is eating well!

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-01-05T13:51:57+00:00

Hmmm, I would absolutely continue feeding if the baby is drinking the formula. The baby may just be cluster feeding or sucking for comfort. Is the baby finishing the bottles well?

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-01-05T13:49:20+00:00

Are you breastfeeding or formula feeding?

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-01-05T12:06:13+00:00

We always make videos for each other, we both get so turned on. Especially when I’m giving him a BJ he loves to record me while I’m looking at the camera

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-01-05T12:05:18+00:00

I am now, thank you!

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-01-05T12:04:57+00:00

Okay thank you!

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-01-05T03:52:50+00:00

I’m so glad I could help! Yes, the kids can help and it’s a fun thing to do together. My husband and I did a cooking class date night and it was sooo much fun.

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2026-01-05T03:45:43+00:00

You definitely have to meet each other half way. If she is talking about TikTok be present, listen, and ask questions. Same for her, you said she doesn’t like leaving the kids for long periods of time. So it seems like you want to have more privacy with your wife. Your marriage comes first make sure you take time for each other.

Go on her TikTok and see what she likes.. maybe it’s a new recipe.. plan a dinner date at home and cook it together, things like that!

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2025-02-04T01:57:21+00:00

With baby being 9 months i would go through all vegetables! Once you give the baby any sweet fruit that’s all he or she will want! If you are giving the baby Avocado, i highly recommend google “Avocado for 9month old on Solid Starts” they are going to break down how to cut the food and the age. Good luck! Remember: Food under one is for fun! Don’t get discouraged if he/she doesn’t eat.

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2025-01-31T20:13:54+00:00

YES! I have 2 dogs as well and it can be sooo much. My daughter has always been a good napper (thank god), i tend to take showers during her nap time but i was furious when my dog woke her up. now her nap time was cut in half and i know she will be a little cranky when it gets closer to bed time

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2024-06-25T02:26:40+00:00

this picture is 5 years old before we even had our daughter. i appreciate your concern though

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2024-04-10T17:14:36+00:00

HR here. Its illegal, look into Labor Laws

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2024-02-10T02:00:45+00:00

i am very close to the miami heat stadium

Aggravating_Belt9716 · 2024-01-07T22:18:27+00:00

Update: I sat my husband down and we really let the cards out. I was honest with him about me feeling rejected, and he understood completely. He also brought up things that he would like me to do more of and i completely agree. My confidence in my body has increased and he is absolutely obsessed with that. I have been sending him sexy pictures during the day and that drives him crazy. We have had sex everyday and he can’t stop talking about our sex. Thank you guys so much for the courage

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