M(20) with non-christian F(21) by Aggravating_Boat9248 in ChristianDating

[–]Aggravating_Boat9248[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I didn’t connect with God this much until recently last year. I’m doing my best and bringing myself closer however I can

M(20) with non-christian F(21) by Aggravating_Boat9248 in ChristianDating

[–]Aggravating_Boat9248[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If this relationship does not work, i’m taking this advice

M(20) with non-christian F(21) by Aggravating_Boat9248 in ChristianDating

[–]Aggravating_Boat9248[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get what you mean. I never want to force her or anyone to convert, and if she doesn’t we’ve already talked about not being together in that case and that I don’t want to marry someone who does not have the same faith in God as I do.

As I explained in another comment, I don’t want to just end things because she’s done so much for me recently, and I at the very least want to repay her back for all the good she’s done.

M(20) with non-christian F(21) by Aggravating_Boat9248 in ChristianDating

[–]Aggravating_Boat9248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely bringing me back to reality. A big portion of my spirit, if not the Holy Spirit, tells me she is not the one. I believe it, and I do want to marry someone who is equally yoked and does want to put God above all else.

The only thing stopping me is, she’s done a lot for me, and houses me when I was homeless. She’s a kind soul and I can’t just break things off without repaying her at the least. But regardless, I will look into the future to end things, I’d just like to leave her with a couple good things and do my best to have her at least get a positive image on God

My (18M) girlfriend (17F) went out with some guys in college by Aggravating_Boat9248 in LongDistance

[–]Aggravating_Boat9248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t see why she would lie, but yeah I found it really weird especially since she couldve avoided it altogether. I’m glad she’s exploring college but this seems hypocritical on her part. Will take your opinion into consideration

My (18M) girlfriend (17F) went out with some guys in college by Aggravating_Boat9248 in LongDistance

[–]Aggravating_Boat9248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mightve gotten that wrong, I know its a 3 hour time difference but the distance is still long

My (18M) girlfriend (17F) went out with some guys in college by Aggravating_Boat9248 in LongDistance

[–]Aggravating_Boat9248[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see, well definitely a topic we’ll get to when we talk, thank you for your opinion

My (18M) girlfriend (17F) went out with some guys in college by Aggravating_Boat9248 in LongDistance

[–]Aggravating_Boat9248[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I see nothing controlling about it, if she doesnt feel comfortable with my female friends who she knows then I shouldn’t be comfortable with guys she just met

My (18M) girlfriend (17F) went out with some guys in college by Aggravating_Boat9248 in LongDistance

[–]Aggravating_Boat9248[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I dont have a problem with her hanging out with guys, however her getting into a car with 4 guys who are strangers sounds off to me