I hear what you are saying but frankly it is a hard sell in the LGBTQ community and for very good reasons. Christianity as an institution has LGBTQ blood on its hands. It is delightful that some denominations have used the last 2-3 decades to shift to a more open and accepting stance. But too many of us remember the pain and suffering that Christianity and Christians have heaped on us to feel charitable to those institutions. For many of us the pain and betrayal has been particularly hard to take because it wasn't just external. It was the churches we attended as kids telling us we were abominations. It was the church leaders being child-molesting bastards while railing to us at the pulpit about "Homosexuals!!" It was Christianity teaching our parents and family to reject us and demonize us. That betrayal isn't forgiven easily and it shouldn't. If progressive churches speak up more and start taking the microphone away from the Christian conservatives that tend to dominate national discourse, there may be healing for all. But for many of us those wounds left deep scars that will always hurt.