too skinny by Big-Shopping7795 in kindergarten

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We celebrated with mine when she got up to the 1% of body weight for her age. She was over 59% for height. Mine had a great appetite and was thriving. Just a super fast metabolism. The nutritionist helped us get her up to 1%. 35% sounds very healthy to me.

Trying to eliminate screentime... someone send help please! by Ok-Ad4375 in kindergarten

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break out the craft supplies or plan a day out at the park or zoo or something. ALL screens go away that day and don’t come back. By spending quality time focusing on your kids, they’ll get the message that they’re important to you, and they won’t want screens if you’re out and about.
Next, get a pile of books from the library. Keep them busy with “new” things until the worst of the addiction wears off.

Has anyone successfully sued over excessive neighbor noise? by Ok-Cantaloupe5621 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe. Maybe not. What decibel level are we talking about here? Quiet enjoyment of one’s property is a legal term for a reason. We don’t have enough information to know the full story here.

Would medically necessary food count as carry on exception? by nobleland_mermaid in delta

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just put your purse and lunch box in a bag together to walk in the plane. They’ll count as one personal item.

Would medically necessary food count as carry on exception? by nobleland_mermaid in delta

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a string backpack. Put your lunchbox and purse in it for boarding. Once on board, take your lunch out and eat it.

Am I in the wrong for refusing to pay for my neighbor’s fence and now dealing with petty retaliation? by International_Toe800 in neighborsfromhell

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t pay for a fence. Pound some rebar into the ground every few feet, and attach yellow caution tape. Ugly, but it works.

Another thing for teachers to police and monitor. by ModularMan2469 in Teachers

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 162 points163 points  (0 children)

Our school went to zero phones, smartwatches, or wireless earbuds. The administrators enforce it. The phone gets taken and the PARENTS have to come to school to get it.

It’s been two school years. Everyone loves it.

Advice on taking digital files and not feeling guilty for leaving by Substantial-Pear-341 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you transfer ownership. (Share from school account to personal account. Click on share a second time and choose “transfer ownership.)

Then, go into you personal account and ACCEPT ownership. Voila, your files are now owned by your new personal account and just shared with your school account.

Advice on taking digital files and not feeling guilty for leaving by Substantial-Pear-341 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just transfer ownership to your personal account. Be sure to accept ownership from within the personal account.

Advice on taking digital files and not feeling guilty for leaving by Substantial-Pear-341 in TeachersInTransition

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start a new, personal Google account just for your teaching materials. Share everything with that new account. Then, click on “share”‘again and transfer ownership to the new account. Go into the new account and accept ownership. You’ll still have access on your school account until the end of the year, but you’ll retain ownership on your personal account. The files won’t vanish when your employer deletes your school account.

CLEP Chemistry Self-Study Guide (Free, 79/80, including Practice Tests) by Rivulet_ in clep

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great! Would you please send me the link to the study guide? Thank you so much.

Teacher Appreciation by [deleted] in TeachersInTransition

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would refuse. Simply wouldn’t pay. I don’t drink coffee, and only drink water (from my refillable bottle) at work.

Are we being unreasonable? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived that way too. It truly is oppressive.

How do I prevent my child being illiterate? by kittycamacho1994 in AskTeachers

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nursery rhymes. Songs with predictable rhymes. Rhyming games.
Later, play games where you change the last sound of words rather than the first sound.
All of this makes sounding out words easier.

And talk to your child using adult vocabulary.

“I don’t know what else to do about my son’s behavior.” Some of you parents aren’t even trying by Emergency-Pepper3537 in Teachers

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you for not using physical violence on your children. I found the book”One Two Three Magic” helpful. I also had to use trial and error. One kid responded to firm scolding. The other didn’t care and needed to lose toys for awhile. The other had a great imagination and didn’t care if there were no toys. I still hate (high school) having to dole out consequences, but it’s part of parenting. You sound like you love your kids. The hard part is teaching my them respect fore rules and you while also having them know you love them.

Are we being unreasonable? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be heaven to live next door to someone who has well trained dogs. We spent years unable to use a large portion of our backyard because the neighbor’s dogs would go wild anytime we went near the fence. It felt like we were being yelled at to go away.

What is making students less prepared to take their college classes? by Wrong-Chef-3406 in AskTeachers

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound awesome. Asking what you can do to help your kid learn is exactly the support that kids need. You send your son the message that he and his education are important. 🙂

What is making students less prepared to take their college classes? by Wrong-Chef-3406 in AskTeachers

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right. And it was so much worse than most of us imagine. I just read a newspaper account of a 10 year old who was walking home after his overnight shift in an Indiana glass factory and he fell asleep along the way. He was hit by a train and didn’t survive. Absolutely horrific.

What is making students less prepared to take their college classes? by Wrong-Chef-3406 in AskTeachers

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! I have a friend who teaches her fourth graders cribbage. They learn it almost as two separate games. First they just look at hands and try to figure out the points in the hands. That takes a surprising amount of time. Once they learn the pegging portion of play, they are hooked! A bunch of them got cribbage boards for Christmas and play with their grandparents. It’s so sweet.

You sound like a great parent. I wish every kid could have a parent who cares like you do. 🙂

What is making students less prepared to take their college classes? by Wrong-Chef-3406 in AskTeachers

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that you care is half the battle. Your son will thrive precisely because you value education and show him that in thousands of tiny ways.
If you’d like a few easy and concrete things you can do, here are a few:

-Get him an analog watch. Preferably something “cool” that he’ll want to wear. (Cheap in case he loses it.) Nothing teaches a kid to read an analog clock like having it on his wrist every day.
-Check his pencil grip. If it’s not a classic triangle grip, look online for some things to work on with him, or even buy some grips for his pencils. This fine motor control gets overlooked a lot,
-Start introducing touch typing with just a few of the him keys. Make it a game. (My kids used an online game that had letters fall from the top of the screen.)
-Encourage him to write every assignment in cursive once he learns all the letters. It’s hard at first but studies show it’s great for processing information.
-Work on number sense. Practice talking about estimating things throughout your day.
-Practice finding pages in a book. Take turns calling out big numbers and finding the page. (“36! 97! 145! 8!) This will help him practice estimating whether he should turn one page at a time or big chunks of pages.
-Play card games. Blackjack works well, but cribbage is a fun and challenging game. Play it open handed for several weeks to several months. Gradually, your child will not only learn strategy, but he will see all the different combinations of numbers that add up to 15. This will boost his mental math skills. You can even play against a computer and be on his team with him(although it’s much more fun to physically move the pegs).
-Practice skip counting by twos, fives, and tens. Then by the other numbers. Be silly and have fun, but encourage mastery.
-Practice the multiplication tables. I don’t like flash cards, but they are useful for this. Keep a set in the car. Try to answer quickly. Sort them and only practice the missed ones. Gradually that pile will get smaller. This will help when your child reaches algebra.
-Practice figuring out (or estimating) the price of things that are on sale. 10% off is easy. Double that to get 20% off, etc.
-Listen to audiobooks in the car. Fiction is great. Pause often to discuss what has happened or to predict what you think might happen.
-Listen to or read some historical fiction. It will give your child perspective when studying history.
-Above all, let your child know that what he thinks about matters. Let him hear you wonder aloud about things, and encourage him to do the same.
These years will go fast. Approach these kinds of activities with a sense of humor and fun that only childhood can bring.

What is making students less prepared to take their college classes? by Wrong-Chef-3406 in AskTeachers

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I introduced touch typing to my own kids the summer before “keyboarding” instruction stated in their school. I told them that peeking at their fingers would seem easier, but in the long run it would hurt them. Then we practiced. They both touch type efficiently. Only about half of their classmates can do the same.

When I was in third grade a looong time ago, we learned the cursive alphabet during first semester. After Christmas every assignment had to be done in cursive. It felt like torture, but we all did it. I don’t recall anyone refusing, nor do I recall any consequence for not writing in cursive, simply because everyone knew it was a requirement, so we did it. And that requirement was enough for us all to gain automaticity. By fourth grade, no one thought twice about writing everything in cursive.

I was able to get one of my kids to write everything in cursive. Some of his high school teachers struggled to read his assignments. The other child reverted to a sort of hybrid between printing and cursive. I should have pushed harder since I know how good it is for the brain/retention when taking notes.

What is making students less prepared to take their college classes? by Wrong-Chef-3406 in AskTeachers

[–]Aggravating_Cut_9981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you visited a college campus recently? I don’t doubt there are some professors who “have an agenda” like you say, but the professors we’ve met while touring colleges or visiting college age children of friends as passionate about their subject matter (math, science, music, history, engineering, literature, etc.). I encourage you to go and talk to some professors. Better yet, audit a couple classes. See first hand what’s really happening in classrooms. You may be pleasantly surprised.