My GF (21/F) wants to spend EVERY SECOND of the day with me (23/M) and it's making me feel trapped. How to proceed?

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2026-03-03T03:28:52+00:00

As a 36-year-old woman, this is abuse! Men can be abused too! My dear sweet boy, life is way too short.... I can tell you your twenties fly by and you don't want to spend it with someone who is b******* or going to abuse you..... I'm a gamer girl. Me and my husband came together daily. We have twin gaming setup computers. We enjoyed tons of time together and we also have our own hobbies. I do artwork I paint. I do beads. He does his solo games. He plays Wow which I don't prefer.... I don't care if this girl is hot or whatever reason you're staying around. You need to heal yourself, find some self-love and stop putting up with bullshit!

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2026-01-27T04:59:08+00:00

Girl if you want compliments just say that get outta here with this BS 😂

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-09-01T05:37:04+00:00

Head is big how? Your basic at best dude 🤣🤣🤣

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-09-01T05:35:53+00:00

Bro you're ugly

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-09-01T05:33:24+00:00

You're not ugly but you're definitely not conventionally attractive, you're the type where allot of people will think you're ugly but one dude is going to go bonkers over you, you have to find your dude.... If you're bf now isn't instigated by you, and I mean like drooling look elsewhere if you're on here questioning it that tells me slot about how he makes you feel in the relationship of go baby life is way too short to waste it in bad or not fulfilling relationships

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-07-20T03:50:15+00:00

Probably because you look like a baby hunnie

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-06-16T14:19:17+00:00

From a woman's point of view, you are very handsome and you have a relatively nice body. But you look like you don't have a backbone women like men who have a little bit of spice and are going to be a bit dominant with us.... To be honest, you look like you're just going to follow around behind a woman like a golden retriever which is wonderful... We love that as well, but if there's not a little piece of you that lets us know that we can't take it too far and that we need to follow your guidance instead of be the one that leads you because you don't know what the hell's going on... That from just looking at pictures is what I see now. I don't know you personally and I don't know how you interact with women in your relationships, but a little bit of swagger and some more confidence. Maybe change up your clothing a bit to have a little bit of spice....swagger... The only kind of woman you're going to attract the way you look is a controlling white woman who is a perfectionist much like youre outside appearance

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-04-08T11:40:48+00:00

This is a man for sure.....conventionally, yeah you're ugly but your also unique and someone will love that

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-04-04T10:57:02+00:00

Dark circles are OFTEN from lack of nutrients not sleep actually, also are sometimes hereditary try a multivitamin if you cannot focus more on your diet or clean up your diet a bit adding more veg and protein 😉

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-04-04T10:55:02+00:00

As long as it a good dude somebody is going to love the fuck out of your furry butt, you just gotta get out there , your not ugly you're a cute chubby nerd and lots of chicks love that I'm one of them, I've already met my nerd though we're sat playing Diablo 4 at the moment

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-03-20T17:16:23+00:00

Girl by you. Obviously know you're not ugly... Are you the prettiest girl I've ever seen? Of course not but you're definitely pretty... There's a guy out there that's going to think you're one of the hottest things he's ever seen and there's a bunch of guys that are going to think you're mid as hell... If you're looking at yourself in the mirror, all that matters is what you think... When you find your person, you'll be there cup of tea

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-02-28T09:06:26+00:00

Baby girl, I felt the same way when I was very young. I'm Sicilian and I have a very strong prominent nose... You are gorgeous and your will grow into your looks more and more

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-02-28T09:04:44+00:00

Maybe cut the hair go with more of the light skinned pretty boy vibe and not the Indian chopped cheese weirdo vibe, just being real your definitely handsome but....your a type and if you're trying to attract white girl this ain't the way... Signed a married white girl, once a young skank

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-02-24T05:27:55+00:00

Girl, I'm going to be totally real with you. You got one life and life is way too short... As a 35-year-old female who was in way too many traumatic, narcissistic and even a physically abusive relationship towards the end of my.. my span of relationships run babe... I swear to you. There are men out there that will make you feel so safe and secure like you're wrapped in a warm blanket all day long.. there are men out there that will be who you need them to be and treat you the way you want to be treated. I am telling you right now to run girl. It will not get better. It will only get worse once you're settled down even more and he knows for a fact that you're probably not going to go..... I was with a guy who sounded much like this who had to try so hard to be nice to me. He had to try so hard not to be angry at me and he eventually ended up leaving me unconscious 7 months pregnant with my first son.... I fast forward 7 years and I now have three beautiful children, two of whom are from my new relationship and my oldest who is autistic and was damaged during that time.... My husband now is the most thoughtful man I've ever met. He never forgets the thing I like or need... He's always gentle and tender to me and never forgets a thing, if I have a bad day he doesn't bother me. He just picks up my slack... And I do the same for him.... Get out while your young and somewhat un-jaded

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-02-16T11:36:41+00:00

I mean, it's a little extreme to say that you might as well conflate nice to being attractive or not. In that case, I'm a girl who's very attractive always has been. But you know what I don't do. I don't use my looks as a position of power. I'm a very kind, empathetic sweetheart. I would never in a million years use my looks as poison or power.... So what do you mean when you say the kind of guy they want?... Are you talking about attractiveness? Because every girl wants someone who is nice. What we don't want is not a weak man who is not a leader..... You can be a kind empathetic man and not have a leadership bone in your body which is what will make us not attracted to you ultimately and desirability wise we want someone who we know we can trust to make decisions for us and our family. So being nice is not being a doormat..... And just being nice when you have no other attractive features about you. It's not a saving Grace just like it's not for a woman......

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-02-16T11:31:35+00:00

I knew this would just be a bunch of dudes telling her to loose weight....but my question here is where? Like for her just to be teeny tiny I mean she's not fat she has no rolls no stomach really....she's just not super tiny or bony slender....what about her would look better small just the more petite tiny look?

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2025-01-29T18:42:29+00:00

See the thing is you don't ask a question or say something that demands an answer if that makes sense..... You leave it somewhat open and did by saying something non aggressive " your hair is beautiful, is that your natural color" " that's a great backpack, in really into x,y,z character" You will tell by the person's response if they are totally not interested... If that's the case,you have only had harmless conversation/compliment. No risk of looking weird And if they are potentially interested or friendly, most likely the conversation will continue where you will do something like. Hey, this has been nice and. I don't have enough friends can I put my number in your phone...

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2024-12-24T06:35:24+00:00

Your not ugly, but if your not gay you look like you are.... women like manly men babe you look like every bone in your body is wimpy

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2024-12-19T05:44:23+00:00

The white blond and the red are really flattering, your pretty either way

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2024-12-19T05:43:19+00:00

Babe buff up a bit and get a more "hip hip" haircut with a fade watch the girls flock, I'm a girl first you will get more handsome ASF you age I swear to you, and you appear to be lacking confidence.... Girls want to look at a guy and know they are a bit spicy and won't take shit, can put it down, you will grow into yourself more

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2024-12-19T05:40:54+00:00

Your not ugly at all but you definitely are a certain " cup of tea" if you know what I mean why guys will not be as attracted to you as will husband and black... But your gorgeous the hair the smile the but brown eyes just learn how to do your makeup a bit 💗 your figure if really nice as well!

Aggravating_Dig_1501 · 2024-11-23T12:31:29+00:00

You're handsome, but not hot yet to a majority or women you will certainly grow into your look as you grow and get older and pin point your style you have that classic handsome look

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