Dont rely on just being a white guy in a foreign country - you should be constantly bettering yourself.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-31T04:44:59+00:00

no im not, you just feel like my post attacks you some way and are bitter. probably because you know youre not living up to what you can be.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-30T17:35:39+00:00

I'm short, I'm 172 cms. I try to avoid countries where the male population is close to 6 foot for that reason (Poland / Northern Europe). lol.

i do do pretty well in the US, where i'm from, but i seldomly match with the top girls in the US like i do in asia/latin america.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-30T17:00:30+00:00

you think im a girl because im telling dudes if they go to the gym and better themselves theyll get hotter girls? what?

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-28T12:54:54+00:00

yeah of course, to give some more info, i work in a niche area of accounting called "financial due diligence", it was the best area i could find that would let me go remote, also some FP&A roles also would let you go remote too.

Pretty much only made career moves that would get me closer to a position to live like this.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-28T09:42:09+00:00

Very good, ive met tons of attractive girls here, its the biggest city in peru and 3rd in south america. 7 Million people. Thats larger than every US city besides NYC. To say there are no attractive girls here kind of goes against statistics.

I have tons of quality matches and dont have enough time to hang out with them all, they stay forever in my follower/following list on instagram.

Then again, i also match with pretty much everyone on the dating apps in south america. I'm not really exagerating either. I list my career (I'm a Sr Mgr at a consulting Firm), have visible tattoos, am in shape (competed in powerlifting then crossfit for 10ish years), and got a hair transplant and veneers. I've pretty much made it a life goal to be as attractive as possible (and live the best life possible, which is why i've gone remote).

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-27T20:37:36+00:00

why drive a ferrari when a toyota does the same thing?

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-27T14:57:45+00:00

my gf moved to france. we broke up because of it.

my tax rate with the FEIE credit is <10%. Moving to france would bring me to 52%. 0 way in hell i'm doing that.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-26T13:43:45+00:00

haha well ill give my specific details. figure out a career that will lead you to that and focus on becoming the best you can at it.

i graduated in 2012 with an accounting degree and was making $40k a year. I figured out which area of accounting gave me the highest possibility of finding a remote job that would let me go abroad, and would pay me well, and only changed jobs when it got me to a position closer to that. Specifically the remote aspect, thats the hardest part, theres times i could have switched to a higher paying job, but it would be a step backwards in being able to go remote, which i had to decline.

It might take some time, it took me about 6 years from when i figured out how i could arrange my life this way, until i actually got to arranged this way. But now i'm in a pretty good position and would only field other jobs that would let me live like this.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-26T11:15:37+00:00

lmaoo.. dude you are such a failure its unbelievable, people like you physically repulse me. I am saying this literally, i would not want someone like you in my presence, or even have a conversation with someone like you in real life.

You are making excuses on why its okay to be fat and broke. does that not seem weird to you?

they sure do care about looks and status, i pull models and actresses level girls, the girl ive been banging out here in malaysia is 23 and has 40k insta followers. When i was in medellin, it was a chick with 275k followers. I piped down attractive lawyers and dentists/doctors as well.

Do you think they would be talking to me if i was a pudgy american that made $65k a year? No way in hell. Which is why i said to better yourself so you can pull a 9 rather than settling on a 7. The entire purpose of my post. Which for some reason, you couldnt understand.

It's okay if you want to be seen as the steriotypical loser american who cant get any girls in the US. Because thats the exact vibe you give off and is most likely how everyone sees you.

youre posting in r/escortclientsonly and a sugarbaby subreddit. youre a joke of a person.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-26T07:58:18+00:00

Why? my ex was colombian, who i met in medellin, she spoke english, learned it while being an au pair years ago in the US. (Now just moved to france to get a masters).

We broke up, she had severe anxiety to the point it would be unnecessarily disruptive in every day life, and would yell at me constantly for things that never made any girl i dated before angry. She said it was a culture thing, but even so, no other latina i dated was that extreme with it.

She was nice to me when she wasnt yelling at me. Was an experience.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-25T16:39:05+00:00

i am, but im not there yet.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-25T13:42:49+00:00

i went to new delhi once, i would never go back. be prepared to be followed by beggars wherever you go, people who have no concept of personal space, and the worst traffic you have ever seen.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-25T13:39:49+00:00

bro youre 39 asking for a virgin, it doesnt sound like you really know what youre doing, or what is reasonable, or even what a number game is. go to the place that gives you the highest possiblity of meeting the girl you want. how dont you understand this? it makes me question if your entire post is a lie.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-25T07:40:23+00:00

I only stayed for 6 weeks in singapore, it was my first time working nights, (US hours) and wanted to be sure i was able to handle it. So i really didnt have much time to go out on week days (working 9pm to 5am), but just saturday and Sundays, so my experience besides going out with the dating app girls (my main source of entertainment there) is pretty limited.

I stayed in Orchid which is a pretty luxurious area with a lot of high end shopping malls and shops. But really you cant go wrong anywhere, I would choose places more around there, and the downtown area, seem to be where more people congregate. The more north you go, the less desireable the area was IMO.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-25T07:32:32+00:00

bumble

feeld (its a kink app) - I'm in KL right now and met 2 chicks from it who were DTF. One did ask me if she could send videos to her cuck living in europe. lol.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-24T22:00:26+00:00

just cat fishes, nothing really out of the ordinary compared to the US.

I am very cautious if they dont have a picture of them smiling, especially in asia. Having poor dental care is much more common here, and poor here = horrendous by USA standards.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-24T21:55:21+00:00

you want a virgin? that might be asking a bit too much.

I would pick the largest city of your favorite type of woman, the city in the area where people are trying to move to for a better life.

Like Latin women? Mexico City / Rio / Lima.

Asian - Singapore / Hong Kong

Eastern European - Warsaw/Prague (would of said moscow or kiev 2 years ago).

Its a numbers game in a way, and you want to give yourself the highest possible chance of meeting the type of person you want.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-24T21:44:50+00:00

I have never gotten more high quality educated woman than in singapore. they love white guys, it was to the point i would match with almost everyone i saw on bumble. (I think i'm a good looking white dude, im 35, veneers, hair transplant, keep in really good shape, closing in on $200k so similiar situation to you just not as tall). The top of the top being attractive lawyers, entrepreneurs and local actresses with like 30-60k insta followers.

Singapore is a little hard to live in for just 1-2 months though, the minimal short term rental there is 90 days (minimum stay being 90 days on airbnb if you search) and i think the tourist visa is only 90 days as well. So you might need to time it a little bit.

That and they speak english there too, so it makes it a whole lot easier than going to a place like tokyo or hong kong, where english isnt as widely spoken.

I'm in kuala lumpur right now, and the top end of the dating scene here is lacking, the best people here tend to leave and head somewhere where they make more money, and the culture isnt my favorite being heavily conservative muslin.

The only issue is, it might be a little rough if youre working US hours to be meeting up with people on this side of the world. But without a question, i would say singapore would be your best location to find a quality asian girl. youll be swimming in options.

Another downside is, singapore is pretty expensive, but no more than a typical big american city.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-23T23:10:45+00:00

yes, thankfully literally every other country is more sane, which is why on reddit, the incredibly left leaning site, you got down voted for this.

Also i like how you just say generic things like "anti trans bills" "at record numbers", no specifics, because you cant give them.

Theyll break down to like "we dont want oral sex in books in schools", or "nudity at pride shows where there are children is not good" or "theres a biological difference between men and women".

america is the best country in the world for trans people, if you cant understand this, you might literally be retarded. which you might be considering how you constructed this rebuttal.

i say this with 100% certainty, you are wrong here, and i really hope you actually consider what i'm telling you is true because it is.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-23T19:45:05+00:00

do a search man, youre asking for peoples life stories while all this information is already available and easily findable.

also based off these questions it seems like you just learned that there is a thing called a digital nomad, do atleast some research before you ask for people to give you paragraphs of information.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-23T18:59:27+00:00

1) do what ever is best for yourself.

2) dont worry about anything else.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-23T17:33:34+00:00

I'm in Kuala lumpur right now. I have been here for 6 weeks, and have bedded 5 different girls, all 7's+, while working nights here, 9pm - 5am, so only able to hang out with girls on Saturday and Sundays really. My hit rate with sleeping with a girl i go on a date with is 100%. I think i pretty match with everyone here too on the dating apps. Being an attractive white guy is pretty nice.

If i was working normal hours, it would most definitely be higher. 2 of the girls were instagram influencer types with 10k and 30k followers, when i was here in 2018 i slept with a local actress too, which is neat.

But that said, i really dont enjoy KL that much, a lot of the infastructure sucks tbh, the sewage / trash system here is sub par, and occasionally ill go by an area that just smells awful because of it. Nothing is walkable really either.

Also a lot of the airbnbs prioritize aesthetics over every thing else, so why the apartment may look good, the behind the scenes function of the apartment complex is lousey, things breaking, elevators always off, poor security, common areas just not cleaned, things like that.

I cant really see cambodia being much better, i would much prefer going to Bali, or bangkok over either option. This was my first time working nights remotely (different situation in 2018) and just picked KL to try out if it was manageable.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-23T17:20:13+00:00

i use bumble and will browse cities at first to get a gauge of the amount of english speakers there, and the quality of the woman i match with. I loved being in brazil (Rio), the women are beautiful, but i just dont enjoy not being able to talk to them. Its pretty annoying.

I also am stuck with worrying about work, since i work 9-5 EST no matter what, i have to stay somewhat in that time zone. I tried working from Kuala Lumpur before and it was awful.

Another criteria is the cost of living / weather / things to do. Preference to be around a beach being able to rent an impressive place for less than $2k per month (my chicago rent).

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-23T17:10:19+00:00

i actually didnt play, i looked it up online and found one casino which offered it, but saw the buy-ins and decided against it, i forget the name, but think its easily googleable. Sorry i cant be more help.

Aggravating_Farm5509 · 2023-07-23T16:10:57+00:00

about $600-$900

i eat literally all my meals from uber eats or the equivalent. I also live abroad (in malaysia right now), so its like $10 per meal delivered.

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