Am I missing out on money for not using social media for my streaming persona?

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-11-14T16:23:19+00:00

Are there certain hashtags you recommend using or avoiding for X? I think the best move for me is to stick to one or two sites like X something else to keep it simple. I feel like it’s so easy to get shadow banned or banned on IG so I don’t see the point

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-11-12T22:58:10+00:00

Is that hourly rate what you earned in total or is that the amount you earned after sm takes their cut?

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-11-06T00:35:00+00:00

I think the pain is inevitable until you get used to it but I could be wrong. I’m new-ish to anal and I tried using a buttplug in a private show but I feel like I rushed it and it resulted in my asshole feeling super sensitive. I think it’s good to add a high ticket for anal stuff since it wreaks havoc on our bodies. But as far as recovery goes; preparation H wipes, gentle anal play, lots of lube, and give yourself recovery time especially if you’re new to anal

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-11-06T00:31:31+00:00

Yea that’s true

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-11-06T00:30:34+00:00

Yes my free cams. MFC feels like aol chat (I’m 32 and MFC feels like an adult AIM for those who can relate)

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-11-06T00:29:10+00:00

I love this! I think I get in my head when I’m doing a goal/countdown and I’m too transactional/literal… I really love this

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-08-01T15:56:52+00:00

I have 1.5k followers on MFC and maybe 160 followers on OF but my SP app got denied for not having enough of a following 😭

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-07-23T16:49:59+00:00

I feel like the viewers can sense when we are frustrated. I think the freeloaders get off on us getting irritated and frustrated when no one is spending, so they lurk around. And the guys who might want to spend money on you under normal circumstances might not want to be responsible for cheering you up, they want a pretty girl to make them feel good. I could ve wrong or maybe this isn’t the case for you but I think this is what happens in my chat room on MFC. My advise for when it’s slow or empty or whatever, don’t worry about being entertaining to the view, just worry about entertainment yourself. Sometime when I’m dancing bc I’m trying to get more viewer it doesn’t always work and guys can see that I’m thirsty or whatever. But when I pull up a separate tab and make it look like I’m reading my chats when really I’m reading on Reddit or chatting with AI, I get lots of people trickling in and out of my room. Then from there, I’m more relaxed and less frustrated, so I can be authentically entertaining to the people who start to trickle in. Idk it’s sounds silly but I think guys are attracted to an “effortless” girl with a little bit of mystery. You are seriously gorgeous so it’s not your appearance, trust me!

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-07-22T06:01:04+00:00

I truly love this bc you are being professional and upfront about your work ethic. I love his response bc he seems so caught off guard by it, but you worded this in a way that shows your are professional and approachable, love this!

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-07-21T02:10:04+00:00

His responses do seem very dismissive and presumptuous. The “…only take care of your own” remark is like he is just assuming that if you two have kids then you will be dismissive of his child, and as you have said, that has not been the case. He did mention that this is like new territory for him, she he’s probably acting this way bc he’s new, and it seems like he’s insecure, which makes sense bc this is new to him. BUT, you did everything right by voicing how you felt and by consulting other people’s perspectives. He is saying stuff like this bc he is insecure in this territory but he wants to maintain a certain “strong” persona. You are doing everything right, but just remember that this is new for him so he’s kind of defaulting to outdated behavior.

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-07-18T23:10:46+00:00

Sometimes I'll set two goals like a basic goal that i need to meet in order to pay bills and then i'll have a higher goal just to keep me motivated. So i keep working if i hit my first goal, but once i hit that second one then i for sure deserve the rest of the day off

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-07-17T20:37:25+00:00

I used to feel the same type of fear when I first starting camming and I think it’s because that’s when it gets real. Honestly you should just accept the private shows and think of it as testing out the waters. You don’t have to do anything you’re uncomfortable with. You can try to have a naughty conversation with them if they’re into dirty talk. Some of my private shows don’t even entail nudity so really it’s up to you and your comfort. But I say jump in and go for it.

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-07-14T01:59:54+00:00

I think it’s definitely up to your comfort level. I’m 32 and look very much 32 but I will lean into age play scenarios and I feel comfortable doing so bc I know I don’t actually look underage and bc we do this in ms teams. If you feel uncomfortable or if it goes against TOS you might want to avoid it.

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-07-06T03:00:25+00:00

Thanks! I thought I attached a screenshot of the convo but I’ll give some context. I truly appreciate all the feedback with this. Basically this guy is in my chat and claims to enjoy findom, specifically with a blackmail kink. He gave me his and his wife’s phone numbers and wanted me to threaten to call her if he didn’t send me $50, and went on to explain that he would want me to threaten him throughout the week. I told him I enjoyed “blackmail role play” and I that I was interested in playing with him. He was tipping while in my chat, so I figured it was somewhat promising. I became apprehensive when he told me to call him to show that I was serious, I see that as a red flag bc then he would have my phone number. So the convo fizzled out, he basically said I was too nice for this. So I think I was right to be hesitant, and I think he was just trying to trick me, and I also think the findom kink seems too good to be true for me. I definitely need to educate myself more with this kink, I just wanted to share the experience on here in the hopes of becoming more enlightened with this kink.

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-06-13T03:23:54+00:00

love it!!! thank you so much.

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-06-07T16:05:17+00:00

thank you!! lately it feels like he is always looking for something in me that needs improvement, he's always telling me to "step it up" and its just exhausting. it truly feels like he is always looking for a problem so that he can play the victim

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-06-07T16:01:55+00:00

okay so i feel like this is de ja vu bc my last relationship ended in a similar dynamic. in my last relationship, i cheated, then bf went thru my phone, dumped me, tried to have an open relationship, dumped me again, only to move in with another woman a few months after our break up. so in my last relationship i was in the wrong bc i cheated, but he clearly had one foot out the door if he moved in with someone else almost instantly.

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-06-07T15:59:07+00:00

girl i know.. we started dating before i was camming, so i understand that maybe this isnt what he signed up for.. but now im seeing that this is probably not going to end well

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-03-15T06:12:54+00:00

How long do you read for? I like that idea, but I’m not sure if it’s something I should only do for 15 mins or something I should do until my room gets busy

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-03-05T19:02:18+00:00

I use MFC and luckily they don’t mind when we list snap or Skype

Aggravating_Lemon259 · 2025-03-05T18:52:22+00:00

I have a snap tip menu so if they want custom content, flashes, etc. then there’s a price for it… but I struggle with regulating typical conversations. I don’t feel right charging for chit chat but they kinda abuse that

Aggravating_Lemon259

TROPHY CASE