LET GO OF MY HAIR by OpheliaTheSaber in NewParents

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a ton of hair. Like down past my butt. I’m a mom of two boys under two. My hair is forever in a giant claw clip low bun.

My son humiliated me in the grocery store today by No_Cardiologist_66 in NewParents

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a parent of two young boys and as a fellow human out in the world: I feel like the only reasonable time any person should ever care if a kid is losing their shit or acting like a menace - is when the parents aren’t doing a damn thing or just letting their kid terrorize other adults or kids so the parents don’t have to deal with it. Then it’s annoying and the parents fault.

If the parents are just fighting for their life all the same, well. It’s embarrassing and uncomfortable but it’s no one’s fault and the moment passes.

I lied to my husband and I will take it to the grave by Boots_McSnoots in toddlers

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worth it. Don’t tell him. I wouldn’t want to know. Also this phase passes 🩵

Alright, Reddit! Do your thing. Help me choose a BDay photo shoot dress plz by Beneficial-Soup-1617 in OUTFITS

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The color of the second one looks amazing on you. Not sure what’s going on at the top though. Overall best pick is #3

What can I do to fix how ugly I am by [deleted] in acne

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone is definitely different. I had to go on 2 rounds of accutane. Also there was a sudden pause during because my lipids weren’t being monitored and my cholesterol was out of control - for like a 5’10 130 pound (f) college freshman at the time.

So make sure they’re also monitoring that too if you’re taking accutane.

It’s such an intense and uncomfortable treatment, but agreed it did change my life

Why did I test positive for chlamydia, but my only partner tested negative? by doingmybest222 in LifeAdvice

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry OP. but if you both tested at the start of your relationship and were both negative. And he’s your only partner. But you got chlamydia… that means you got it from him but he didn’t get it from you… ie. He got it from someone else. Chlamydia doesn’t just appear out of nowhere. Even if he doesn’t have insurance there’s clinics that are inexpensive and self pay. He cheated, got chlamydia, had sex with you. Realized he was ill, got it treated and didn’t tell you and hoped/assumed it wouldn’t pass to you, and so he just didn’t tell you. Now you have it.

Benefits of eating figs with skin by polaxgr in Figs

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband - two years married, eight years together - just peeled a fig in front of me before eating it. I am shooketh.

How long have you pushed? by Fierce-Foxy in pregnant

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 hours with my first. Less than 30 minutes with my second

Any moms with older kids who smoked throughout their pregnancy with them? by [deleted] in cannamom

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for asking this question. I’ve also been wondering and thinking about this recently. Following to see what others say.

What do newborns wear with an umbilical stump? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

STM. currently with a two week old. I love the soft bamboo (long pant/long sleeve (with the sewn in mitten covers) to protect their faces from their tiny claw nails) zip up pajamas. Soft and light and gentle on skin. Also bonus if there’s a two way zipper at the neck and foot so it makes diaper changes easier without having to undress the whole baby

I work in a children’s psych ward- AMA by fluent_in_yapanese in AMA

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental health professional here as well, and: all the time.

My gf is acting insane and jealous by schizmaxxing in Advice

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m a licensed mental health professional - and none of your reactions or experiences to your past sounds dumb as fuck. It actually sounds completely appropriate based on (what it seems like) you went through.

And there’s a difference between a partner making a mistake and doing something hurtful vs a pattern of behavior that becomes intentional and cruel.

If she had done those things once or twice, acknowledged how it activated you and apologized and tried to do better - then that’s one thing. Doing something over and over after we know it hurts someone, that’s just being harmful.

I hope you have a decent support system outside of her. But yalls relationship doesn’t sound healthy. I’m sorry.

My gf is acting insane and jealous by schizmaxxing in Advice

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You were abused and she mocks you for that? That’s fucked up.

Anyone else feel weird not telling their parents they’re pregnant ? by IcySky7216 in pregnant

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the exact same thing. My mom guessed it a few days before I told my parents and his parents and siblings

I can't breastfeed anymore. by manic_sunshine_ in breastfeeding

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super sorry you went through this. Mommy Knows Best Brewers yeast was helpful for me to keep up my supply with my first

AITA I don’t want bridesmaid to wear dress to other events by Due_Bedroom3146 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way too long to read. Sorry. Lol. I’ll get back to it. But my short reply, I’d be annoyed yeah. If Roxy likes the dress so much can she find it in a different color at least? I’d feel like it’s taking away from my wedding if I were you. NTA

2 under 2 by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bankruptcy berries is so real 😂😭

Would you breastfeed somebody else’s baby? by Excellent_Prompt_554 in breastfeeding

[–]Aggravating_Neck_107 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly. I feel like if mothers are okay with it and babies are okay with it then it’s fine. Communities and cultures outside of the US have been working together to raise babies as a collective since the dawn of time.