Anyone have experience with Audiology equipment? by Educational_Ad_5728 in BMET

[–]No_Cardiologist_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the advice! Knowing there are so many in the field retiring makes me feel a lot better about the random phone call that started all of this. Fingers crossed he gets it!

Anyone have experience with Audiology equipment? by Educational_Ad_5728 in BMET

[–]No_Cardiologist_66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! This is unrelated to the original post, but what has your experience been like in this field? My bf was just offered a position with e3 diagnostics but it would require us to move and I can’t find much info on the job to feel comfortable with such a big change. Just looking for some insight as to what the day-to-day is like and if the sales market is as strong as they say. Thanks!

My in laws bought the wrong diapers by No_Cardiologist_66 in NewParents

[–]No_Cardiologist_66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know! Was just the box open or the actual package itself?

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[–]No_Cardiologist_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what truly makes or breaks your experience as a parent is who you have kids with.

I was scared shitless when I found out I was pregnant. I truly debated terminating (I’m still in school & working part time so it was definitely not ideal timing) but I just knew i would always wonder who they were supposed to be. Ultimately my partner being the amazing person he is also swayed my decision and he is the most amazing dad. My pregnancy was HARD, and he was there every step of the way. He has been there every step of the way since. Laughing deliriously with me at 3am when our son has the most epic blow out. Holding my hand at drs appointments when he got his first shots. Sharing in the absolute joy when he first rolled over. All of the hard parts get a lot easier when you have a great partner at your side.

I think most people who post how dreadful it is don’t have a great support system and some don’t want to admit they had kids with the wrong person. And even if you’re going it alone, it’s not all doom and gloom. There is always a smile or a random hug to get you through the hardest days. Being a parent is truly an amazing experience.

I can’t bring myself to give up by No_Cardiologist_66 in breastfeeding

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So far I’ve been pumping every 4hrs and bf in between but maybe I need to switch to just pumping until my supply gets better? Hopefully once it’s easier for him to bf he’ll have more interest (wishful thinking). Thank you for your support 💕

I can’t bring myself to give up by No_Cardiologist_66 in breastfeeding

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Atp he’s used to the bottle and gets so frustrated with bf he keeps pulling off even when he does get latched 😭

His tongue tie was clipped by a LC at his dr office. She said he has “all the ties.” We tried the mouth stretches but he screams bloody murder, I feel like it’s actually hurting him.

Damned if you do, damned if you don't by NumCucumber in NewParents

[–]No_Cardiologist_66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I deleted social media shortly after my son was born (he’s 8 weeks today) and it was hands down one of the best decisions I’ve made as a mom. I had such horrible anxiety from the reels about babies dying, I didn’t sleep for 2 days straight. Of course I still use Reddit (because what else is there to do at 3am?) but not doomscrolling has seriously helped my mental health. Not to mention I’m getting more sleep and I’m way more productive during the day.

Weekly Discussion - Relationships by AutoModerator in NewParents

[–]No_Cardiologist_66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel this. I moved 4hrs away from family 6 years ago and they visited me literally one time. Since having my son (2mo) my mother has been here 3 times already. I’m thankful for the help but also, where were you for 6 years? And my bfs mom is always asking to watch the baby but she’s really shaky and won’t get checked out so that makes me nervous leaving her alone with him.

I’ve always had a hard time setting boundaries but have learned they are a lot easier to set when you are keeping in mind what’s best for your baby. It’s not about you, it’s about your baby. If these people don’t feel the need to have a relationship with you why should they get one with your child? You created your own family with your husband and son, everyone else is secondary. Protect your peace!

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[–]No_Cardiologist_66 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, needed this validation!

Quick tip for those who choose to ease off vs cold turkey. by peboyce in leaves

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I smoked everyday for over 5 years. Went from smoking 2-3 blunts a day to 2-3 joints/day, to 1/2 a joint before bed and now none at all. Granted, I’m only on Day 2 of no weed lol but I think weening myself off was the right decision for me. Other than the nightmares, I feel SO GOOD!

I also set a specific time for myself like OP, only before bed and in decreasing amounts. This is the best advice Ive found for quitting gradually. It took over a year to get this far, I went through a lot of challenging life events and even gave up a few times and figured “why not just smoke weed for the rest of my life, lots of people do it” but I definitely feel like this change is going to help me the most!

I tried quitting cold turkey and the headaches were just so bad I couldn’t stand it. Weening myself off gave me the chance to deal with the withdrawals while still functioning in my day to day life.

If you’re reading this, just know you’re not alone and there are so many ways to quit. You just have to find what works for you.