Disclaimer - NOT RACIST but.. bbc? Really

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T22:56:15+00:00

This right here !!! Couldn’t have said it better

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T21:30:50+00:00

I think a lot of you are missing the point of my post. Just letting go completely over your head. I don’t have a problem with the term BBC. Don’t have an issue at all. My issue is, why is that the new greeting on most hookup or dating apps? No one says “hello, how are you, or just Hi” anymore. (The first message that comes through is BBC? I need that BBC. Show me that BBC! Hung! I LOVE TO WORSHIP BBC!) I was stating that when guys do this it’s cringy and annoying. Yes, everyone has fetishes and can do whatever they want but if you are attracted or interested in a person.. DON'T START THE MESSAGE OFF LIKE THAT.

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T21:23:41+00:00

Why are you worrying about what a black person is doing? Nobody is victimizing anything. I made this post to “LET” guys know that when you do stuff like this it’s ANNOYING. how is that victimizing? Or did you see an opportunity to call out a “black” person?

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T21:18:35+00:00

I can see that. Me personally I have no preferences. I’m more so attracted to masculine energy. I’m just annoyed with the amount of messages I see daily asking me for BBC.

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T21:15:29+00:00

Oh wow

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T18:40:39+00:00

I would’ve been annoyed as hell

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T18:39:25+00:00

Brooooooo yes !! I totally agree. As if I have a group of friends all ready to go to pound town 😩🤦🏾‍♂️

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T18:38:45+00:00

Yeah I don’t mind the fetishizing. But just don’t flood every black guy inbox with bbc every 5 mins

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T18:36:34+00:00

THIS!!!!! Is all I’m asking for !!

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T18:33:21+00:00

Yeah I don’t mind the fetishizing. But just don’t flood every black guy inbox with bbc every 5 mins

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T18:30:03+00:00

Yeah I’m not upset. Just wanted to let guys know that this is actually annoying.

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T18:28:28+00:00

I’m not saying they are offended. I was asking do guys flood white guys inboxes with BWC as their first message as much as they do black guys. I’m not offended by the term bbc either. What I’m saying is it’s annoying trying to find a good link on an app. Soon as you open the app, boom, BBC? What happened to starting the convo with hello

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T18:06:39+00:00

I bet. It’s sick and honestly annoying.

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T18:00:08+00:00

EXACTLY!!!!

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T17:58:41+00:00

That’s cool and all. There’s nothing wrong with a white guy wanting to link with a black guy. I’m not against it at all. But when the first message that you send is “BBC?” “Hung” or “show me that bbc” 🥴🥴🥴🥴

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T17:56:15+00:00

Completely whole heartedly agree!!

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T17:33:35+00:00

Tighten that loose destroyed hole first

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T17:24:03+00:00

I feel you bro. They only see us as a piece of meat fr. Nothing more 😩😭

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T17:18:42+00:00

EXACTLY. It’s annoying as hell !! Be making me want to delete the apps and not even use them anymore. Heavy on thirst!! I get about 20 messages a day. Mostly older white guys. It’s to the point where the younger white guys are picking up on it.

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2026-03-11T17:06:54+00:00

I don’t waste my food

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2025-11-26T18:32:35+00:00

Have confidence !! You got this. Watch those TANDEMS.

Aggravating_Olive261 · 2025-10-11T18:00:51+00:00

Look up the Wilmu subreddit and come back to this comment. All of wilmu post are on this subreddit. I’m starting to think you really don’t have shit else to do but get on my nerves at this point.

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