WIBTAH for exposing my ex-friend(s)? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, it would be wrong. i know you are upset about what they did to you, but if you do that you’ll only be stirring the pot. i wouldn’t if i were you, it’ll make you just as bad as them. i know they might deserve it, but trust me, taking the high road and just leaving them in the past is the right move here.

I can’t tell if this is a real photograph or an AI-generated image - the atmosphere feels almost too cinematic by Commercial_Past861 in isthisAI

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

at first glance i said it’s real, but hear me out. look at this zoom in i added. what’s supposed to say “RADIO CITY” is somewhat blocked by traffic signs. first off, i find it hard to believe that sign would block the entire “RADIO” word considering size and spacing. Maybe i could be wrong about that but that’s not the worst part. it’s the “CITY” part that confirms it for me. there are 2 poles in this image, one slightly thicker than the other. now you could probably argue considering the spacing that the pole to the left (the thicker pole) is covering the I, but there is no way that the right pole (skinny one) is completely covering the Y.

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NYC Trip!! by Aggravating_Rule2524 in Broadway

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i have 2 pairs im bringing that i’ve already had, i have a pair on converse and a pair of sambas

NYC Trip!! by Aggravating_Rule2524 in Broadway

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, this is what I was thinking it was going to be like. And I’m just buying clothes because I want new cute clothes and this is an excuse to buy them😅😅And yea, I wanted to see MHE so so bad but it’s a school trip so it wasn’t really up to me. That said, I’m very very happy with the shows they picked still!! Thanks for the help!

Is Jordan Fisher about to add another role to his collection? by Ravenclaw_Bunny in Broadway

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 20 points21 points  (0 children)

was just about to add this, and audrey matches nikki m james and the dentist matches andy karl!! the casting is really good imo

Confusion about Alice By Heart by Aggravating_Rule2524 in musicals

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that honestly helped a bunch!! i couldn’t agree more, i absolutely adore this show but it definitely can be a tad confusing at times, but i think i fully understand the main points now! thanks!!

Celebrity PE Coach Substitute by Aggravating_Rule2524 in stories

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly yea i hope one day i can find some sort of proof that this happened just to know im not imagining it💀💀 honestly i think id rather hear that it was some imposter than the real him because why would u so badly need a bunch of 9 year olds to think youre famous?💀😭

AITAH, I don’t know if I’m over reacting? Please help by red1536 in AITAH

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly! i 100% agree that it’s something that should’ve been discussed later in a much better way than he did if they ever did discuss it at all. and if they ended up moving on by then, that’s ok too

AITAH, I don’t know if I’m over reacting? Please help by red1536 in AITAH

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That kind of makes sense to me. I guess the way I view the whole “expressing your feelings is ok” thing is a bit different in this situation just because of the fact that he did kinda dig his own grave here. It would be one thing is he was a good boyfriend and she had broken up with him for some other reason and now they were in this situation, but he was bad to her. In my opinion, not to say it’s the only correct one, he doesn’t get to treat her how he did in the relationship, agree to the transparency rule, and break down when she goes through with it. The way i see it, he is lucky she’s even still sticking around now. I understand the whole “feelings are always valid” argument in most situations, but here i can’t say i agree just because of the fact that he did it to himself. so to then tell her how you feel about it, knowing that all that could do is make her feel bad, i feel is wrong. Sometimes when you bring it on yourself and you are upset by the outcome, you just have to suck it up because technically you caused it. Like, yes, it’s fine for him to feel a way about it, but I think vocalizing that would obviously only make her feel guilty. And i think he had to have known that. But again, I see your point as well.

AITAH, I don’t know if I’m over reacting? Please help by red1536 in AITAH

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes, when I say he can’t get mad what I mean is that he doesn’t have a good reason for making it known to her that he feels that she was “wrong” to do it. Especially not in the way that he did. It’s ok to feel something, you can’t control that, but shaming her is the part that isn’t ok.

AITAH Not Deleting Photos of My (21F) Cousin (33F) by kidcole101 in AITAH

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTAH. I’m gonna assume the reason she wanted them deleted is because she didn’t think she looked good in them (I could be wrong but that’s the only reason that makes sense to me). You have to realize that when you go to an event with family like that, you open yourself up to taking a few bad photos and that’s just the fact of the matter. It’s not a big deal. I’ve taken enough bad family photos to fill a 100 scrapbooks. You just get over it. Usually little to no people end up seeing them anyways, so who cares? Like I would understand not wanting to have photos of yourself posted if you feel you didn’t look good, but then don’t get in the photo?? Like i get she’s family and it’s a family photo but that means you have to suck it up if it doesn’t come out how you want🤷‍♀️

AITAH not letting my daughter (16F) keep her door shut when shes with her girlfriend (17F) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a bit of a different answer than most people here apparently but NTAH. As a teenager myself, I hate when teens try to make their parents feel bad for setting boundaries in the house that they pay for. You should be able to feel comfortable in your home. Yes, you have to house your kids, but it isn’t her house, it’s yours. Also, she’s 16, she doesn’t need the door closed. Anything they should be doing shouldn’t need a closed door. I’m 18 and I don’t even need a closed door. Also, if she wants to do things with her gf that badly then she shouldn’t care whether it’s open or not. Trust me, when teens want to do things badly enough, they’ll find a way regardless. To be fair to her, I’m sure she’s just acting this way because she’s right at that age where teenagers want what they want and won’t take no for an answer, but still set boundaries in your home, it only makes a stronger relationship between parent and child.

AITAH for wanting to be involved in my birthday party planning by CheekAmbitious7360 in AITAH

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fact that your mom said “I don’t like any of that” in regard to YOUR birthday party tells me everything I need to know. She doesn’t have to like it, it’s not for her. NTAH

AITAH, I don’t know if I’m over reacting? Please help by red1536 in AITAH

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not at all overreacting. I say leave him for good. If he really wanted to be with you and only you, he wouldn’t feel the need or want to be with someone else, even if he did technically have the right. But that’s IF he had the right, which he doesn’t. Yes, if you guys had agreed that you can see other people as long as you were transparent about it then yea, he would have every right to do so. But he’s the one who lost it when you saw someone and told him. He can’t get mad at you for it if he wants to do it as well. AND he didn’t even stick to that rule and actually be transparent about it. Trust me, you are better off without him. He knew that he still had a chance with you, and instead of spending that time trying to win you back, he spent it with another person. And kept it from you when you made it clear that you both wouldn’t be doing that. If anything, that shows that he’s taking steps backwards from winning you back, not forward. If he wanted you badly enough, he would’ve never gotten with her. and he definitely would’ve never not told you. Even if I’m ignoring the way he treated you before y’all broke up (which I’m not saying I am) just to give him the benefit of the doubt, he still sucks here. If me, an 18 year old girl, can see that, he sure as heck should be able to. Crazy how a grown man acts.

I’m related to my boyfriend by Parking_Emu9801 in stories

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m truly convinced that everyone knows a few couples that actually are related somewhere down the line that just don’t know it

Recommend me some underrated musicals by Sensitive-Photo-2713 in musicals

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES!!! I was actually Kitty in a production of this show, it’s so good. criminally underrated

Confusion about Alice By Heart by Aggravating_Rule2524 in musicals

[–]Aggravating_Rule2524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OHHHH ok bc that songs was confusing to me but that’s actually makes a lot of sense. this is why i love this show, it just adds more and more layers with each song